Family & Relationships - 10 September 2006

2006-09-10 06:19:35 · 4 answers · asked by twilightobsessed 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out five months ago my husband was having an affair. We were having problems in our 10 yr marriage - ones that I believe could be fixed with communication and counseling. When I found out about the affair I filed for divorce and it was final in 3 months. Probably some kind of record. Now I am focusing on getting our son through this mess. I am a woman who believes adultery is wrong and the worst thing you can do to someone. I believe in marriage vows. So why does this hurt so much? He is a lying, deceptive pig. Why is it taking so long for my heart to catch up with my mind??

2006-09-10 06:19:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am English and in love with an American guy (Im 24). We are serious about eachother and want to marry.

Both parents are STRICTLY against it and dont want us being together. My parents are trying to marry me off to someone else ..

This is making me depressed, what shall I do? I want him - my future is with him.....

2006-09-10 06:19:05 · 15 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 06:18:36 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. Sexy Business ;) 1 in Singles & Dating

I've met several women over the last 5 years who initially told me they were interested in being friends (with benefits) only. But after 6-12 months they began to push for a more permanent relationship, even marriage. This has happened so often that I'm beginning to think that the term "friends with benefits" really means: "go back, it's a trap".
I honestly don't like to deceive anyone, especially when a physical relationship is involved, and agree to the friends with benefits concept thinking that I am being fair and honest. But when they realize that "I" really meant it, it winds up hurting them. Any similar experiences out there?

2006-09-10 06:18:13 · 11 answers · asked by michael m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 06:17:47 · 9 answers · asked by vickey 1 in Family

if you find someone on net and you fall in love with her very much but she live very far from you what you will do???
plz give serious answer because my frd need this answer

2006-09-10 06:17:20 · 15 answers · asked by ravi s 2 in Singles & Dating

I am an 11th grade male. My friend (a girl) and I have been growing closer and closer all summer, to the point where many think we're going out. (But we're not). However, I wish that our friendship was so much more, and I can see the potential.

However, she is still recovering over an ex who she absolutley loved, and it breaks her heart when she thinks of him.

But recently, she has been acting different towards me, even comparing me to that ex (Her ex and I are different in nearly every way).

My love for her is growing, and I can't tell if she has anything there for me. We've known each other for three years and I don't want to lose her friendship.

Any advice?

2006-09-10 06:17:05 · 19 answers · asked by Jeffrey L 1 in Friends

I know it is for the best because he was mentally and physically abusive towards me. I was not the best wife eigther. I said a lot off mean stuff too. I am so sad because before we were married we were friends for 17 years. He lives with me for the time. How long will I hurt for? Anyone out there who has had a similar experience?

2006-09-10 06:15:53 · 12 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys how come you don't like to cuddle with your girlfriends. I know it depends on the guy, but most guys would like to do more sexual things than to cuddle. My ex boyfriend liked
cuddling but only to an extent. I just think that cuddling, talking, or even just sleeping together (but no sex) is much more intimate than doing other nasty things.

2006-09-10 06:15:43 · 18 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a girl and my bestfriend is a guy and i no some people who make fun of him cuz they say he is gay but he isiint he likes this girl i no...but this one cuz constantly makes fun of him and i hate it what should i do!

2006-09-10 06:14:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a young 60 but need more in my life. I have a great job and I love it and great kids and grand kids but now I want to Find a little somthing more.

2006-09-10 06:14:34 · 8 answers · asked by psmiley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-10 06:14:25 · 9 answers · asked by tashu1900 1 in Weddings

Okay, this seems like a dumb question but it has come up many many times. When a guy and a girl hug goodnight I guess you could say, who's arms go where? Evenmore-so, if the guy is only a few inches taller than the girl does that make a difference?

2006-09-10 06:13:36 · 8 answers · asked by A.I.Disguise 2 in Singles & Dating

Did it go any where'
Do you believe it's real love?

2006-09-10 06:13:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Obviously it is working for millions of other people, don't they see mixed couples everywhere now a days.

2006-09-10 06:13:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yes, i've had mixed feelings for my boyfriend since the beginning but what girl my age doesn't? maybe some don't but many feel this way. I have a feeling i could fall in love with my boyfriend because i can't picture myself without him. Yes, sometimes i do get bored but what human wouldn't? always doing the same things over again. Anyone would get bored! I might not be in love right now but i'm "in LIKE" I am sick of older people saying i can't be in love because i am 17. I have been in love before. So many other girls/guys my age have been. You don't need to be 25 to be in love! Sorry i don't mean for this to sound rude but it is making me all confused. You say i can't be with him because of these mixed feelings? there's always hope. not every relationship will be a fairy tale. I am just used to getting treated very bad and this guy is so amazing!!!! he is 8 months younger which is hard for me too because i am used to older guys. I wanted support not people critisizing me

2006-09-10 06:12:47 · 5 answers · asked by Jaylee P 1 in Singles & Dating

Number 1 is a junior and the other one is a freshman like me. Number one is calm and sensitve and talks to me the most. the other one really likes me but is shy and won't admit it. he is cute and he hugs me like he really likes me. i have know him for a LONG time and i would like to be his girl. the junior says he's wating for his girl to move back to the area.he says that i remind him of her and that i act like her. i don't like having a crush with a guy who is already commited and i know he doesn't like me like that. how do i:
1. stop thinking about the junior.
2. tell the freshman i like him that way.
3. still be friends with the junior and act like nothing changed.

2006-09-10 06:12:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Singles & Dating

i filed for divorce this week. i feel awful - just not sure at all it was the right decision, and wondering if i'm making the biggest mistake of my life. i was married for 8 years and not happy the majority of the time - and even knowing i wasn't happy, it still feels even worse to have filed. is this normal or is this telling me i made a mistake?

2006-09-10 06:11:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating a guy for a little over a month and he told me need needs space. He says he is not intersted in dating anyone else. He says he needs to focus on going back to school and working overtime at his job to get more money. He says he is spending too much time with me and not handling his buisness. I feel like he is trying to control the relationship by telling me when he can see me. We only see eachother about 2-3 times a week as it is and I am the one who asks him to come see me.

I've never had anyone tell me that they need space so how do I give him space? He is sending mixed signals so I'm not sure how to react to this new person. Do I not return his calls, act like I'm busy when he calls, make up excuses to get off the phone, tell him he can't come over my house, act like he is no longer important? Would doing any of this make a guy realize what he has or would doing any of this only drive a guy away? Give me examples of how I can give him space.

2006-09-10 06:10:37 · 6 answers · asked by chocolatebabycakes 4 in Singles & Dating

Why would a guy broke up with his gf and not return her pictures to her. Why would he only give back the girl's pictures if she would see him in person. What's your logic guys? Why waste time in gas and effort when you just can mail the pics?

2006-09-10 06:09:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I play loud music...

2006-09-10 06:09:21 · 20 answers · asked by singa_dude 3 in Singles & Dating

I want a nubile brunette.

2006-09-10 06:08:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

met him on my brother's wedding,bride's cousin. 20 years old. got on well together, but I am 27!
it bothers me a lot, he doesn't mind,and wants to date me. told him I think he is too young. should I meet him?
(the guy I used to meet before was 30)

2006-09-10 06:08:43 · 31 answers · asked by ywe 2 in Singles & Dating

Women always say they want to make love...but don't you think f-ing is more fun once in a while? I think thats why people get bored with their sex lives. They don't f eachother's brains out enough:)

2006-09-10 06:08:38 · 10 answers · asked by sasha 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-10 06:08:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

would not tell you, what would you do? Could it be a stalker? Could it be my mother? Could it be the flowers came to the wrong person?

2006-09-10 06:07:55 · 9 answers · asked by damsel36 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My guyfriend thinks i'm jealous oof new gf!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
we were talking one day. he had a twinkle in his eye and said, "you jealous ain't?" i said, "no" he seemed like he was more teasing like since it was my cousin. he was like you wish i like you instead of your cousin. he kept on saying it. Then finally i said, "nobody like you" and he bursted out laughing. what was up with that?

2006-09-10 06:07:48 · 5 answers · asked by non of yo business 1 in Friends

2006-09-10 06:07:16 · 16 answers · asked by twilightobsessed 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago..It was a mutual decison since we was bout to go to college. I said lets see what happens(like if we met some guy)..She met a guy and is currently dating him. She loves me more than me..but now she thinks it wouldnt work because of society and what not. My heart is still with her we talk each day, call each other baby and say i love u, and we are best friends. She says her bf is nice..and she thinks she may want to have sex with him. It hurts so bad cuz i was gona ask her b4 she got wit him..Wut should i do to get her back or lose some of these feelings

2006-09-10 06:07:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating