Guys how come you don't like to cuddle with your girlfriends. I know it depends on the guy, but most guys would like to do more sexual things than to cuddle. My ex boyfriend liked
cuddling but only to an extent. I just think that cuddling, talking, or even just sleeping together (but no sex) is much more intimate than doing other nasty things.
2006-09-10 06:15:43 · 18 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are more than right, there are thing to be shared much more deep than sex.
Usually guys don't like to cuddle because it gives a blow to their masculinity or they have another interest in you.
Let me tell you something from my personall experience.
If a guy does like you, even love you, then he will cuddle and will show his feelings in more than one way.If a guy is only out for sex he is using girls as objects, and i assure you, you do not want this kind of person around you.
2006-09-10 06:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by xenomorph** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God i hate cuddling.....my wife likes this all the time. When i come in she sits almost on top of me when at times i just need space ya know....so i told her that too many advances will put me off.....so now she waits for me to come to her kind of thing and well its working.....whats the big deal with cuddling anyways.....most people i believe need the extra cuddles cos they weren't loved and cuddled as a child......well i mean not enough possibly.....but i could be wrong. Anyways if ya want a big cuddle get back to me.....only if your a babe like my wife.....lol
2006-09-10 06:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on what I hear, girls are only allowed two minutes of cuddling time: anything beyond that means your likely to get shoved out of bed and on to the floor. You know, cuddling with a carpet really isn't so bad?!
2006-09-10 06:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jon R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right, most guys don't like to cuddle up to you for some reason they seem scared to show a more caring side and while sex is always good sometimes girls just want to cuddle and be held life doesn't always have to revolve around sex i just wished a lot more guys would realize that
2006-09-10 06:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by leanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you uncomfortable then you definately might want to tell him that. you've the right to decline to awkward circumstances. you're 15 and nevertheless coming up your thoughts. It appears like he needs to take great thing about you, which isn't proper reason it truly is manipulation from him. verify with him, if he's as fantastic as you imagine he's, he will understand and back off. he's nineteen, he might want to act more desirable like an human being and understand the concern precise.
2016-11-25 23:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not mind cuddling with my girl. I do not care if anyone sees us. Because of the fact that I still like her, I would cuddle with her if she wants to cuddle with me. Cuddling with my girl doesn't make me less of a man.
2006-09-10 06:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nasty things???? .. you need to get a healthier perspective on sex for a start. i think the main reason most guys dont cuddle a lot is that you expect us to stay awake for it ... i dont think we are genetically engineered for it in a waking state for any length of time, we are too active.
2006-09-10 06:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, can't answer that. I like to cuddle.
I prefer to cuddle *after*, of course, but to just cuddle is good too.
2006-09-10 06:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by felix_doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you consider those other things "nasty?" Nothing wrong with them. some guys just don't like to have a girl smothering them. Not their fault.
2006-09-10 06:17:40 · answer #9 · answered by aimeelopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question by labeling the things we most like to do as "nasty."
2006-09-10 06:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋