now i'm confused?

Question

Yes, i've had mixed feelings for my boyfriend since the beginning but what girl my age doesn't? maybe some don't but many feel this way. I have a feeling i could fall in love with my boyfriend because i can't picture myself without him. Yes, sometimes i do get bored but what human wouldn't? always doing the same things over again. Anyone would get bored! I might not be in love right now but i'm "in LIKE" I am sick of older people saying i can't be in love because i am 17. I have been in love before. So many other girls/guys my age have been. You don't need to be 25 to be in love! Sorry i don't mean for this to sound rude but it is making me all confused. You say i can't be with him because of these mixed feelings? there's always hope. not every relationship will be a fairy tale. I am just used to getting treated very bad and this guy is so amazing!!!! he is 8 months younger which is hard for me too because i am used to older guys. I wanted support not people critisizing me

Answer 1

no confusion. this is life learn to take as it comes. you will gain experience.

Answer 2

I know how u feel right now. Adult think they have more experiences so they think the love we have now will never be stay long. sometime is truth, it depend on u. If u are the girl as u say easy to be bored, u will end the relationship the longer is 7 yrs. because u are only teenage, so u may see more and better guys later when u are in college or working place. We ( teenage) look at thing too easy and all the pretty and nice to us, adult see more ugly stuff, so sometime we need to get out first try before we understand what adult mean.

U may like the guy now, but he is still a student, he can not help u too much, he can not support u in the future. U can not sure what is your future and his future yet. So, u may in love with him now, and have all the fun, but u will understand he is not what u want for future long relationship, u will understand it later. GOOD LUCK !!!

Answer 3

You can't always listen to what other people say. Take what they say as advise. That's it. Do what you feel is best for you, whether you're 17 or 27. If the relationship is boring, you have the option to spice it up. Do something different. Go for a romantice walk. Go out with friends. Or go the local fair and have some childish fun. Be creative. Also there are a lot of people who have been together since they were teenagers and are still together 50 yrs later.

Answer 4

I know EXACTLY how you feel. Adults really do need to stop critisizing young love. It is possible, whether they think so or not. We ARE mature enough to love. Anyway, even if you get bored, stick with it, maybe try new things, not exactly sexual new things, but just, like go bowling, or fishing, or something you wouldn't usually do, it livens it up a bit, and don't spend every day with him, try to take some time for yourself.

Answer 5

dont be stressed or confused,follow your heart and your gut feelings.And you can be in love,im 34 now but was fifteen when i fell in love and it was perfect and precious and nerve wrecking and exciting.it made me feel beautiful and special and just wonderful.people can be horrible treating you like a daft kid,like you havent got a clue,but you do.just enjoy it,whether it lasts five years or five days its special to you so enjoy.we were together sixteen years so we must have liked each other a bit.and dont worry about that age gap,its nothing.enjoy being seventeen.