I like two guys and i don't know what to do. one is older the other the same age.?

Question

Number 1 is a junior and the other one is a freshman like me. Number one is calm and sensitve and talks to me the most. the other one really likes me but is shy and won't admit it. he is cute and he hugs me like he really likes me. i have know him for a LONG time and i would like to be his girl. the junior says he's wating for his girl to move back to the area.he says that i remind him of her and that i act like her. i don't like having a crush with a guy who is already commited and i know he doesn't like me like that. how do i:
1. stop thinking about the junior.
2. tell the freshman i like him that way.
3. still be friends with the junior and act like nothing changed.

Answer 1

I think the first thing you need to do is tell the junior that you could never date him because he's got a girlfriend. Tell him it wouldn't be fair to you, it wouldn't be fair to her, and it wouldn't be fair to him. If you're sincere and adamant he'll stay friends with you if he's worth having as a friend. Hopefully, it'll also help to get you to stop thinking about him. As for the freshman, you're going to have to take the lead for awhile. Once he feels comfortable with you he'll open up because he'll feel safe.

Answer 2

1. stop thinking about the junior.
2. tell the freshman i like him that way.
3. still be friends with the junior and act like nothing changed.

u have the answers!!!

Answer 3

go for the freshmen since the junior already has a girl friend and just ask him out u will have a backup .

REMEMBER:FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

kiss both of them which everone kisses you back likes you