met him on my brother's wedding,bride's cousin. 20 years old. got on well together, but I am 27!
it bothers me a lot, he doesn't mind,and wants to date me. told him I think he is too young. should I meet him?
(the guy I used to meet before was 30)
2006-09-10 06:08:43 · 31 answers · asked by ywe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend - soon to be husband - is exactly 7 years younger than me. Ive always felt uneasy with this - but now Ive adapted to it and we get on great! We LOVE eachother! Thats what matters the most. Go for it! Its the 21st century. and youre 27 not 17!
2006-09-10 06:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by Me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should give this guy a chance. Just because he's 20 years old doesn't mean that he can't treat you just as good or better than the guy that was 30 years old. This could really be a guy you connect with or really have a great time with. How do you know what it's going to be like if you don't take that chance? You are only 7 years older it's not like your that much older than he is. Give this guy a chance and see what happens, but you will never know if you don't.
2006-09-10 06:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not date a guy who is seven years younger than you. That is just wrong, I would never date a person who is too old nor too young for me at all. The max age that I would date is if she is 3 years older than me and the youngest that I would date if she is 3 years younger than me.
2006-09-10 06:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question as I should not be judgemental. But don't dive ur heart into it else u may get hurt as love is a double edge sword. take time to be a friend but ideally if i am a gal, i will look out for an older, unmarried guy.
2006-09-10 06:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you if he is a mature person at 20 the 7 years doesn't mean a thing he might turn out to be a good guy to you
2006-09-10 06:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is nothin' more but a number. His age or your age doesn't make the people that you are(it's all in your head),and if your personalities click,then why not,go for it,and never think about it again!
Best of Luck!
2006-09-10 06:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by Black Sunfire GT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you dated someone older, what is wrong with a man liking an older woman. Hope he has a job. Some guys like older women. nothing wrong with it. If you have a problem with it then those problems wont go away. either like it or dont, it is up to you though. You have to be ok with it.
2006-09-10 06:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by quikone2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, come on! Go meet him. Don't care about the age as long as you like each other.
2006-09-10 06:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sabina_Rois 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? if u both get on well & he seems 2 be a mature guy then i cant see age being an issue. go 4 it girl!
2006-09-10 06:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah go for it. I know couples who get on well who age difference is more than that.
Age doesn't matter as long as you both like each other.
2006-09-10 06:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by carolinexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋