Not attracted to anyone?

Question

Here is the problem; I don't feel attracted to anyone i met. I say how that person is good looking or she is a nice person i get on well with her but i just don't have that attraction.

It the same with famous people everyone says that they like someone famous and would do something but i just don't have those feelings.

I just become friends with people and that’s it. Does this mean i have a low sex drive or i have lost my mojo am not sure.

Am 24 I should be going out and meeting people, but every time i do i don't see any one who gets me excited.

Some people might same this is latent homosexuality but its not because am not even attracted to men, actually there is no one that am really attracted to.
I am comfortable in my own body and who i am.

Answer 1

Then there's no problem if you are comfortable with yourself and you don't feel attracted to anyone. You don't have to try to be someone that you're not. Just be yourself.

Answer 2

I'd suggest talking to a therapist or psychiatrist about it. It could be a social anxiety or personality disorder. Those kinds of things are often related to screwy distribution of chemicals in the brain (not anything you've done wrong) and usually can't be controlled without medicinal aid.

I have a friend who had exactly this problem - no ability to find anyone sexually attractive or to engage in a close loving relationship with them. He went to a psychiatrist and discussed it and wound up giving medicine a chance. Within a month, he did a complete 180 and was involved with a woman and having sex. This is a guy who was still a virgin in his mid-thirties.

I'd suggest doing something about this while you are young. It's a great time to learn about yourself and change - and the effort will reward you for your lifetime.

Answer 3

The reason why you aren't attracted to anyone is either two reasons.. You are either not happy with yourself or So shallow that you think you're better than everyone else.
I'd like to think you aren't shallow but you say you're comfortable in your own body... maybe your not.
There could be things in your past that have affected your feelings towards people. You may be attracted to a person but your mind is telling you that you're not because you are afraid of commitment.
Also, it seems to me that you are afraid of getting hurt. Stepping into a relationship is taking a 50/50 chance. I think you have some ongoing issues that no one at Yahoo! Answers could possibly help you with.
Instead, I would advise you to seek counseling so that you can figure out what is going on and whether or not you're asexual.

Answer 4

well hunny if yuo are comfortable with who you are and what you do dont worry that yuo are not attracted to anyone.

you dont need to go out and think core shes fit i wudnt mind.... wel you know. its not compulsary so what if other people do it.

mabey yuo are just not ready for that knid of thing yet. give yourself time to get into the sing of things, you never know you might be at work, or in club and you wil talk to someone who you just connect with, realtionships do not always start on mutal physical attraction, sometimes you need totalk to a person adn discover them n another way before you can make that descion on wether you find them attractive or not.

or this could all be a load of rubbish adn at the end of the end of the day yuo know who you are adn just becuae u dont poounce on the first atractive person you see, means that you choose not to be an animal like all of us predictable human beings.

good luck and dont let your friends turn yto uinto something you are not x x

Answer 5

Maybe your picky or you have found that person yet that makes your mojo running.
Maybe your shy, low self esteem or something. Just give time and maybe you find someone you really like.
Don't force yourself to find someone, as long as your secure with being single. There is no pressure in find that perfect person.
I wonder if you denial of rejection and afraid to be rejected by women.

Answer 6

I think it's interesting that you mentioned at the very end of you question that you are comfortable in your body and with who you are - it sounds like to me that as you were finishing typing your question, you realized how low your esteem came across and you were trying to mask the fact that you are not comfortable with yourself - when you truly are comfortable with who you are, how you look and what you are all about, you will see beauty in everything - a low self esteem puts distorted blinders on you and it's impossible to see beauty or to let yourself get attached to anything - sounds like you're afraid to let yourself get close to something because you are afraid that you are not worthy of having it or you're afraid it may reject you - close?? am I warm? - in any case, good luck, don't let your life pass you by

Answer 7

Clint Eastwood

Answer 8

maybe you just don't think anyone is good enough for you.. i havea friend like this (late teens) who eveybody thinks is a homosexual, but in his mind, he completely isn'y// but basically, he'll think girls are hot and whatever, but he never really has that drive to hook up with girls and go out with them or whatever.. but i just think it's being too picky and not knowing what you want and not being ready to commit, or being too afraid.. i really dont know tho so good luck getting over this:)

Answer 9

Maybe your not finding someone to challenge you or maybe you want to settle down and your don't seeing any of these women as wife material. Good luck

Answer 10

I'm confused about that one also. maybe you have your standards set high are you just have issues with your self that you need to deal with before you be with someone( understandable) but professional help won't hurt

Good Luck