I have asked friends and some of them think either she is playing hard to get or that she might be trying to let someone go and it's hard for her at this point. Once I leave her a voicemail that's it with my part I just wait to hear back from her. I don't want to call her back the next day and asked if she got my message. Also it makes me wonder that if I don't call her she might be thinking that I am not into her and she might want to stop talking to me? I just don't want to make it to a point that if I am sitting here calling her all the time she might think that she has me wrapped around her finger and that's not me. Friends have told me to be patient and maybe she'll come around.
2006-09-10 07:41:17 · 8 answers · asked by impalassz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She could just be very busy. I'm 25 and at one point I was working 2 jobs and going to school part time as well as trying to balance a social and dating life. Needless to say it was very crazy. I was dating a guy (happened to be about your age) who called me every day. I didn't have that type of time and I tried explaining to him that I also have x y and z going on and it didn't seem to sink in. I felt really smothered and was also trying to figure out what I really wanted. In the end I ended the relationship because I didn't feel I had enough personal time and that he didn't seem too considerate of my needs.
My advise, give her some time, listen to what she has going on and don't try too hard - you will only push her away. Also, try to remember yourself at 25. She may be recently out of college and still trying to figure out what she wants in life. I'm going through that myself and it's really frustrating.
Good luck though. Remember that if this relationship doesn't work out, it's only because there is someone better out there for you.
2006-09-10 07:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by It'sJustMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been going through something kinda similiar. I am 33 and he is 41..Age however really doesnt make that big of a difference except that you have clarified that she is an adult and should act like one. Thing is..this guy has been allllllllll over me. I mean ALLLLLLLLLLL over me..I really didnt know if I was attracted to him or not. There are those guys that just make me wanna melt when I first meet em and then there are those guys that have to grow on me. You may be a grower..sorry..but ya never know.Also, I have been tied in another relationship that has been fizzled for a long time but he is my comfort zone. She may have one of those like me and he is taking up her time so she doesnt "miss" you like she could if she were unattached. It's really simple when u think about it. If she was that alone you would be getting return calls much sooner...Try not calling her for a couple or three days and see what happens...I know its hard...OMG do I?????? but just bite your fingers or do something anything to stop you from dialing her up....
2006-09-10 07:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her in person. Are you actually dating or are you trying to get her to date you? Sounds like you are not actually dating. Are you calling daily or more than once a day, if so she may feel you are too pushy. Talk to her and ask her out. If she says no, then leave the girl alone. If she is interested in going out with you she will say yes, but it sounds like a friend thing not a dating thing. It also sounds like you call a lot and should cool it until you find out if she is interested or you may scare her off.
2006-09-10 07:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by harold p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably not the only one she is seeing.dont wait around go out have fun you are 25 still to young to make a commitment get your career .but do not call her make her call you . you might just be a booty call for her any way
2006-09-10 07:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by creon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only playing hard to get, but maybe when she found out your age, she is trying to figure out why you can't find a woman around your own age.
2006-09-10 07:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has other things going on and that's why she is getting back to you when she is. Hopefully you don't think she is just waiting at home for your call.
2006-09-10 07:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At this point, you are not a high priority with her. You don't want a one sided relationship with her anyway. Don't waste your time on this one, at the least, she is very rude.
2006-09-10 07:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by tobinmbsc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the rush?
2006-09-10 07:52:56 · answer #8 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋