I refuse to go on welfare! I definately refuse to marry my sons' father. He is actually mad that he is being forced to pay child support!! What a loser!!
2006-09-10 07:24:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think they get pissed off because it takes up a lot of thier paycheck, more than what he would have to pay if he was still with the mother. but, oh well, that is life baby!
2006-09-10 07:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by sweet serinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't understand how PRICELESS taking care of a child really is. also, i don't think they are truly able to get past the anger of the "rejection" they feel, either of them FROM the woman, or their rejection OF the woman. =T the thing is, that is HOW important a "good" separation is...a positive, healthy, respect for eachother, in order to have those good feelings towards each other and the children.
once u have a child, it is about Them, not the parents. therefore, i think a husband not wanting to pay child support has to do w/ his feelings towards the ex. good luck, and if it's possible at all, try to develop some kind of mutual respect for eachother, as parents of a wonderful child, and encourage good behavior, parental responsibilities, father/child time.... if u show ur respect for his as the father, and if he keeps himself accountable for himself, then it becomes more about the kids, and not about YOU. that is what u want to encourage.....and calling him a loser probably won't help haha.. =T. i mean, if he's a complete jerk and is not worth spending time w/ the child, i guess he is a loser. but if he is just hurt, and lashing out, perhaps he needs some encouragement from someone who used to care..? good luck, hopefully things are good for you and ur child, that is most important now.
2006-09-10 14:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that all fathers hate paying child support to help support the child but it is when the child support doesnt actually go to supporting the child it goes to supportin the mother (gettin her hair done, gettin new clothes and partying on the weekends)Is when the fathers hate paying there child support . Childsupport is for the child to buy them things they need Like new clothes and shoes. and school activities or diapers in some cases. Not so there moms can look good.
2006-09-10 14:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because in some cases it's not equal. For instance, I have two friends that each have kids. One let his wife have custody of their only child and he pays about $400 a month. The other is a single dad of two kids and his ex-wife pays only $160 a month. Something ain't right with that.
2006-09-10 14:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by gunrunner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you re right he is a loser . I cannot understand bringing a child into this world and not wanting to support it . Because they are losers that is why they get upset.
2006-09-10 14:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their cheap, irresponsible, immature.
if he doesnt want to pay child support for his child he just cant unwind the hands of time or something. he needs to own up to his responsibility. if he doesnt want to pay child suport there is no need to marry him for his interests are not on the child (or u) and why should u marry someone who is not going to care for his own child abd his/her mother? don't get me started lol.
good luck.
2006-09-10 14:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by dannYves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the law and he needs to accept responsibility.
2006-09-10 14:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they all hate it but too bad. If he can make the baby, he can pay for the baby
2006-09-10 14:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋