2006-09-10 07:15:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Teach him compassion. Find out what he is angry about and start spending a lot of quality time with him to see what is going on! Sounds like he is acting out to either protect himself from an unresolved hurt or he hasn't learned to be compassionate. I would work with him to teach him this! You may tell him what is feels like to be bullied and let him know too that the day will come when the bully is bigger than him! He make be acting out because of something he can't work out! I would get very close to him and find out the problem so you can find the solution. Good luck!
2006-09-10 07:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son is turning 4 and really doesnt bully anyone per say but has picked on others. When there is an issue it is one I must address at that moment and correct it. You must be consistent and teach them what is right and wrrong and find out why they are doing the bullying or picking on. It must be stopped and they must be accountable for thier bad actions taken to bully or pick on someone.
2006-09-10 07:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by yeppers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very serious issue. I'd talk to his guidance counselor first and seek a recommendation for a professional counselor for your son. Bullying is bad news whether he's 6 or 16- it has to be stopped.
2006-09-10 07:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by C. S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out why he bully's others and address the problem. In the meantime, make sure he knows that this is unacceptable behavior and that it will result in serious consequences. If he is a teen, I would give him a night in the juvenile residence so he will know what happens when you assault another person. He should also be referred for counseling.
2006-09-10 07:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He bullies others because the rewards are greater than the consequences. Impose meaningful consequences strictly, every time, and without fail. He'll stop if the consequences are great enough.
2006-09-10 10:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to www.drphil.com
He has a section on dealing with bullies etc.
Hope the link works. Otherwise go to show archives and search bullies.
All the luck!!!
2006-09-10 07:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by zaazzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a bully to him for a couple of days and let him see the other side.
2006-09-10 07:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by Steven C 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ask him why he feels like he needs to be mean to people. maybe it's because he was picked on and wants to pick on someone else to feel better. maybe he thinks it's cool to be a bully.let him know that the outcome of bulling is being friendless !
2006-09-10 07:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by ipodlady231 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you could definetly try and talk him out of it...try getting him a new group of friends...spend more time wth him...dont be superharsh on him but be strict...dont let him hav his way with you...remember -a child gets his basic education at home...all the best!
2006-09-10 07:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by nuUbi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
threaten to make him wear a pink collared shirt and tie and beige pants to school every day until he stops
2006-09-10 07:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋