Family & Relationships - 10 September 2006

Here is the deal. I work as a bursar for a college. Im in my late 30's. I am married. There are about 3 college age girls (20 - 22) that individually stop me and talk to me. Each smile all the time. I thought I was seeing things, but it happens several times a week. They are in the same sorority or something. They are very friendly and touch little things on me like my ties, tie pin, lapel pins. etc. Two of them smile A LOT all the time at me and whenever they see me they run over and have a conversation. I smile and stuff too, but just to be polite. Are these girls hittin on me? They know I am married, but it seems like they are flirting in a way. What can all this mean? I'm flattered I think, but whats going on? How do communicate that I'm flattered but that's it. Can I still be friendly?

2006-09-10 15:09:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i think i can. Cause i think everyone considers me ugly. nobody looks at me, ( wel i don't look at them either , cause i'm kind of shy) but still. As you know there's types that many girls will like, for example HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU HEARD BRAD PIT mentioned? so i guess there are types that many girls will not like. and i think i'm one of them, but can i really tell?

2006-09-10 15:09:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

s kinda kard since i just became a teenager

2006-09-10 15:08:26 · 7 answers · asked by Klaus 1 in Singles & Dating

i am bisexual. i had a fight with my fiance. i didnt know what was going on. in the meantime, my ex and i made up and started new. now i am stuck because my fiance came back to me. i am clueless. i want to be with my ex, but i really dont want to hurt him. what should i do?

2006-09-10 15:08:08 · 22 answers · asked by mad dog 1 in Singles & Dating

Does it really fulfill. Tell me.

2006-09-10 15:07:36 · 2 answers · asked by Tall Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 15:05:57 · 11 answers · asked by how_about_this_99 1 in Singles & Dating

A man has a son who is now 18. When the boy was 15, he wrote him a check for $1,500, postdated three years. He told him if he managed to reach the date of the check without (1) any tickets, (2) being involved in any accidents or (3) breaking any house driving rules, he could cash the check. His goal was to provide an incentive for him to play by the rules long enough to form some good driving habits.

A few months shy of his 18th birthday, he received a speeding ticket. He fessed up about the ticket promptly, and was bemoaning the fine of $126. The father gently reminded him that the ticket had actually cost him $1,626, as he had failed to fulfill their bargain. Is the father a genius for coming up with the carrot that made him a good driver during his crucial first years behind the wheel, or a jerk for piling on a $1,500 fine? Note that his younger sister is watching carefully to see how this is resolved.

2006-09-10 15:05:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't know how to move on and stop feeling this pain. I broke up with my b/f yesterday after a year and a half because he was very emotionally abusive towards me and would have very bad mood swings. For weeks on end he would love me like I meant everything and then for days on end he would treat me like crap. It hurts so much because he confused me and broke me down with all of his different personalities. I am sick of talking about this and I know people are tired of hearing it but I just need some support and direction right now in my life. We are both 29 and since I have been with him I turned into his little puppet. I swore he got off on seeing me hurt and saw it all as a power trip.

2006-09-10 15:03:40 · 11 answers · asked by Kit Katt 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-10 15:03:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 15:02:29 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom recently joined an online crafts forum and she met a woman on it who wants our home address. Supposedly, some of the people on the forum like to send each other cards and care packages every once in a while. It sounds like a really nice thing and my mom could use something like that, but both our family and this woman live in Illinois. Should we give her our address or not?

2006-09-10 15:02:09 · 15 answers · asked by kid_at_heart 3 in Friends

i am torn between following the code of ethics and my happiness. people say do not date your friends', in my case cousin's, xbf..but i am really happy with this certain person if i hang out with him. we have chemistry and i think the feelingis mutual..what do you think? as of now i am supressing my feelings..don't wanna entertain it cause i might be ruining not only friendship..but trust and my happiness. please help.

2006-09-10 15:00:35 · 10 answers · asked by justasSkiCKing 1 in Singles & Dating

when is the right time to have sex? if u rnt a virgin how old were u wen u lost ur virginity?

2006-09-10 15:00:00 · 5 answers · asked by I Dont Have A Name Today 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know what the deal is with me and girls taht i jsut meet and that have boyfriends. they break up with their boyfriends and try to go out with me. sure its flattering but could it be just that im charming, or is it just a crush? what should i do???

2006-09-10 14:59:25 · 8 answers · asked by True Smoker 3 in Singles & Dating

this man has been flirting w/ m since day one,he is also my doctor.he compliments my looks all of the time, makes sexual undertoned comments towards me, it's just so obvious that he is flirting. a lot of people ask me how i know for sure. and if maybe he is just being nice, so i asked myself the same question. im going to tell u some of the things he has done and you give me your opinion on what he is doing ok? 1) he handed me a paper and snatched it back like 3 times before he let me take it, he called me at home before and told me to have a great weekend and to enjoy myself... he told me that he is the one who brings my blood pressure down. last week asked me what i was going to be doing for the weekend, and i basically told him i was going outta town and he told me his life was boring. then he asked me what kinda gum i was chewing and he told me he was a "gum freak". odd huh? yea thats what i said also. then last week i decided to tell him that my crush on him was starting to fade.

2006-09-10 14:58:54 · 20 answers · asked by roxy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 14:58:52 · 9 answers · asked by Getroman 2 in Singles & Dating

so tell me wat it do

2006-09-10 14:58:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ever since people found out I told my daughter to drop out of school to take care of my son, I can't believe how many people have got on my case about it saying I am a bad parent. I'm beginning to wonder if I live in a screwed up town. Sure it bothers me, but what really bothers me is when they tell my daughter than I am a bad parent and try to get her to go against her father. She is a good girl and wants to make her dad happy, plus I don't think she really liked school anyway. I mean I let her go to school for 10 years plus kindergaten. I feel like she has enough education and now it is time for her to take care of my 3 year old son. I mean just for a few years is all I need and then she can marry and have a man support her. I am a single dad and its not like I can take care of him. Plus, raising kids is a woman's job. I am hoping I will have some people say I did the right thing because I'm getting so much negativity I'm beginning to doubt my own decision...its unreal

2006-09-10 14:58:13 · 22 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Family

death? My husband and I have tried so hard to put things back together, but it's just not working. It works for about a month then it all falls apart, every time I see him now when I pick up the kids, he's so sad. I'm just at a loss, I don't know what or how to make it better. We've tried counseling, and we've split twice before and always came back. But now I just can't do it again, I just can't...I just feel so sad. Has this happened to anyone else? How do you get through it?

2006-09-10 14:57:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what exactly is an orgasm? can you have one when your not having sex?

2006-09-10 14:57:22 · 2 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 14:56:36 · 22 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I dont have bf and wondering if anybody has been sucessful with online dating....

2006-09-10 14:56:05 · 8 answers · asked by omg_itz_sara 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 18, I work on cars, am passionate for a romantic evening, enjoy life, and I am about to start college. My question is would YOU go out on a date with a person like this?

2006-09-10 14:56:03 · 11 answers · asked by yankee 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 14:55:29 · 7 answers · asked by Maylene Y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont have bf and wondering if anybody has been sucessful with online dating....

2006-09-10 14:55:10 · 6 answers · asked by omg_itz_sara 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 14:54:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She sits in the front of the classroom and i sit in the back. Sometimes, she'll turn all the way around in her desk and look at me. Also, the class was doing a project out in the hall, and instead of standing by her friends, she came and stood like a foot from me. Does she like me or what?

2006-09-10 14:53:58 · 7 answers · asked by sweetchick 1 in Friends

2006-09-10 14:53:28 · 21 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 14:53:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His real dad had nothing to do with him.The man he knows as his dad has been their since he was a baby.We are married and my husband has adopted him.My son dont know a thing.And i was wondering if he doesent know should i tell him.

2006-09-10 14:52:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family