this man has been flirting w/ m since day one,he is also my doctor.he compliments my looks all of the time, makes sexual undertoned comments towards me, it's just so obvious that he is flirting. a lot of people ask me how i know for sure. and if maybe he is just being nice, so i asked myself the same question. im going to tell u some of the things he has done and you give me your opinion on what he is doing ok? 1) he handed me a paper and snatched it back like 3 times before he let me take it, he called me at home before and told me to have a great weekend and to enjoy myself... he told me that he is the one who brings my blood pressure down. last week asked me what i was going to be doing for the weekend, and i basically told him i was going outta town and he told me his life was boring. then he asked me what kinda gum i was chewing and he told me he was a "gum freak". odd huh? yea thats what i said also. then last week i decided to tell him that my crush on him was starting to fade.
2006-09-10 14:58:54 · 20 answers · asked by roxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats when he decided to schedule me for a 2 week follow up. then when i showed up 2 weeks later, all he could do was talk about how old he was. why is that? he kept saying"i`m just an old guy... and stuff like " im 50 years old"....whats his problem? one minute he is flirting and the next he is talking about his age, and being a grandpa
2006-09-10 15:00:56 · update #1
excuse my spelling... i didnt check it before i posted the question...lol
2006-09-10 15:02:41 · update #2
well first of all i have to tell you that age is just a number! and its okay to have feelings for,date,marry,be friends with, an older man! ok! Say for instance i liked a guy who was 49 and i am 31 and he liked me too! would it be okay to date him or more why certainly! as long as we both felt like it! so i would date an older guy! and i am friends with an older guy right now and we flirt all the time! but to answer your question if you like him & he really likes you and you have stuff in common and you wanna go out then do it! but if you are going to date he should not be your DR any longer! AS to his behavior it sounds like to me he realized that he may have been comming on too strong to you and decided to back off or he may have realized it was inappropraite for your DR to be hitting on you regardless of his age or yours! And he may think he's too old for you or that you think that! Those might explain his behavior! i hope this helps you!
2006-09-10 15:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know any doctor that would call you at home just to discuss what you are going to do for the weekend. Never mind what kind of gum you are chewing. Find a new doctor.
2006-09-10 15:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smart Girl. Usually I don't have a problem with dating between the ages...lol. I'm 47 and my last g/f was 28. But in this case I think he mis-used his position as your doctor... very unprofessional. He has no business doing what he is doing. How many other women is he coming on to? I'm sure he has plenty of younger women as patients... I think he's a preditor of sorts... be careful.
2006-09-10 15:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by john s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 01:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is definately interested but self conscious about his age, I am 37 and interested in a 22 year old. I would love it if she said it wasn't an issue. But you may wanna make sure he is not just smart enough to play you. lotsa old guys like that.
2006-09-10 15:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by bruce0769 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously weak hearted, and need help telling people NO. So let me help. "I'm not interested in being your young trophy bang. I have a life of my own. I will get married and have my own kids just like you did at my age. And I will protect young people when I am in my 50's instead of taking advantage of them as you do. Oh, and by the way... you're fired."
2006-09-10 15:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you should find another doctor, age is a state of mind, if the age difference dosen't bother you, then it shouldn't any one else, But you don't need to continue seeing him as your doctor, especially, if you are gonna presue him.
2006-09-10 15:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by avery 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a nurse and I can tell you that this is inappropriate behavior......but, we are only hearing your side of the story, sweetie. I strongly suggest that you find another doctor and then you will not have to deal with this anymore.
2006-09-10 15:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
he could be flattered that a much younger woman has a crush on him. you need to ask yourself 20 questions: is he married? does he have children? what would your parents think? the comments that he's made towards you doesn't necessarily seem sexual to me. he could be flirting also, but it's up to you to continue to play his game or not, personally i would not.
2006-09-10 15:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by Janel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is just a nasty old man. You should never date anyone who is older than you especially when he is twice your age. It is disgusting.
2006-09-10 15:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mysterio 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋