i think i can. Cause i think everyone considers me ugly. nobody looks at me, ( wel i don't look at them either , cause i'm kind of shy) but still. As you know there's types that many girls will like, for example HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU HEARD BRAD PIT mentioned? so i guess there are types that many girls will not like. and i think i'm one of them, but can i really tell?
2006-09-10 15:09:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, well how do you know noone is looking at you. You have to look at someone before you can see them looking at you. I used to be shy and also rarely dated...I am coming out of my shell and as I become more outgoing and confident the more women come along....so just take a chance and get out there and talk to one...it will work wonders...I mean worst case senario...they will say no...if they do there are a few billion other out there to ask next. Hope this helps.
2006-09-10 15:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by K M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, it is wrong for you to over-generalise and state that "EVERYONE" judges potential partners on appearance. Fair enough to say that the majority of us do. But not everyone. It is also wrong of you to all of a sudden assume that women are only attracted to one type of man. You think that no women are attracted to chubby guys? Oh come on. Put it this way, in a girls' eyes a lot of us experience the same trail of thought as you. I personally sometimes think that men are only attracted to one type of woman: big boobs, long hair, slim etc etc. But I am not narrow minded enough to assume that this is always the case. It is just common on what I see, hear and feel around me. I think the reason you are having this rant is because you are insecure. But let me tell you one thing, a lot of us are. Hell, we're all physically insecure about something or other. You're not the only single person in the world that thinks no one is or will ever be attracted to you. Man up! Find things to love about yourself, or at least try and feel comfortable in your own skin. THAT is what a woman will find attractive. If you sit wallowing all day, convincing yourself that you are ugly, where is that going to get you. To be quite frank, I have seen hundreds of ugly men with a girlfriend on their arm or happily married with kids. You are not going to die alone. And even if all of your logic is right, don't worry, because another couple billion of us in this world will end up under the ground with empty ring fingers too.
2016-03-27 06:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a supermodel for sure. Otherwise you would turn heads. But how you dress and how you carry yourself can easily make you much more or less attractive. Girls are attracted to looks just like guys. But they are much more interested in your character and confidence. Guys are generally more about looks.
Don't listen to that other guy. He just copped out with an excuse. I've seen plenty of hot women with ugly guys. And this is what they tell me.
2006-09-10 15:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ilooklikemyavatar..exactly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes u can my friend. for me, i have actually been told im ugly.
and from the way women have not even glanced at me, i know im freaking ugly. the fact that i haven't gone on dates and what not proves it even. think its personality? think again.
women are the ones that go for looks, not men. we are saddled with that myth, but the reality is that women always go for the good looking guys first and foremost. if u ugly, then i feel sad for u man, cause im ugly too, and its a no win situation.
2006-09-10 15:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, different people have different tastes. What I like, my friend may think is ugly - we have our own individual preferences. I personally don't see what the big deal is with Brad Pitt. He is not what people build him up to be.
2006-09-10 15:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you need to worry about what a bunch of girls think. Just be yourself... As long as you are happy and happy with yourself and who you are then I do not think you need to worry about what they think... The only thing I can conclude here is that you are worried about what the wrong group of girls might be thinking.
2006-09-10 15:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by Todd Maz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I advise you check out the song "Ugly" by Pussycat Dolls... it was written for you.
I bet you are also "taller in more ways" than others, as the song says, and, yeah, stop worrying, okay? :) Some people surely like you. I am sure.
2006-09-10 15:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Post your picture here and ask.
Don't worry - somebody will like you, whatever you look like, if you are a nice person.
2006-09-10 15:26:33 · answer #8 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, mostly you can't tell. Women ignore you even they think you are attractive. They are trained to do that and then they practice it.
2006-09-10 15:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe people don't look at you because you don't look at them
2006-09-10 15:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by how_about_this_99 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋