2006-09-10 14:55:29 · 7 answers · asked by Maylene Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What is always like to say my ex....my ex.....but he forgets i am not his ex.....He is suddenly so pessimistic when everything in his life goes wrong. His father sick, his sister gives him problems, his friends too.....but I am the one being sacrified. He can spend time with his buddies, but just forget I need one or two hours to be with him.....everytime he says he is busy......I can give him patience and understanding. Feel rather blue cos of this....
2006-09-10 16:59:38 · update #1
There is nothing for you to do.........perhaps it is an excuse....but it is his problem to deal with and your problem if you believe him.
2006-09-10 15:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder that to when ladies are holding back how we are flagged by people Green to go 1st week or so then a month or so another colour is out be it a caution like back off or red meaning no go. I know we push these relationship and spoil it. Playing these things by ear are as hard as taking things one day at a time.
2006-09-10 22:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is making a excuse because if he truely loved you it would not matter about the other failed marriage. Sometimes someone wants to put the blame on the other party for a failed marriage when it takes two. If can't get past that one what is will his attitude be with you? Will he always wonder if you will do as the first wife and if so will he never adjust to this marriage?
2006-09-10 22:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one, if you don't have trust you don't have anything.He needs to understand you can't blame a new love for things an old one did. If you every had your heart broke more then once you would know it's harder every time.I don't know how long you two been together but be his friend then his lover and then he will trust you one day.I wish you luck, let me know how it turns out.
2006-09-10 23:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Bridget D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE BEEN THERE. WHAT EVER HAPPEND IN HIS PAST YOU SHOULDNT PAY THE PRICE FOR THAT AND THATS WRONG YOU PAY THE PRICE 4 WHAT HAPPNED IN HIS PAST. U2 NEED TO TALK ABOUT THIS HONESTLY AND OPENLY AND GET SOME COUNSELING FROM A PASTOR AT YOUR CHURCH OR A LICSEND PSYCHOLOGIST.LOL.
2006-09-10 22:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by smiley283 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you make a promise? If you can't, let him be afraid. If you can, swear to him you'll love him forever and he won't be hurt the 2nd time.
2006-09-10 21:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, then be patient and give him time.
2006-09-10 22:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by monroe1172002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋