Family & Relationships - 10 September 2006

I'm 25. Have been working in the I.T. field for four years and working very hard to get certifications, so I can move up faster and make more $. I got what I wanted for now. However, I don't know what happened suddenly; I lost interest in doing I.T. in the past few months. My father owns a business, and it has been doing pretty good recent years. He will retire in 2 years, and my mom told me that the business would be mine. I'm not too certain about that because my father never said that to me in person. Computer has always been one of my hobbies, and I'm happy of starting my career in the I.T. field. None of my friends in the same field are better and making more $ than me. Perhaps I'm getting old, and I feel having a hobby job is not realistic. I don't know why, but all I want now is to make more and more $ regardless of what I do (of course, legally). What's wrong with me? I want to start my own I.T. consulting business, but it's quite hard, and I don't know where to start.

2006-09-10 14:52:25 · 9 answers · asked by itguru5354 1 in Family

I am almost 21 and have been with my g/f for over 4 yrs. She is my first real g/f and is 18 months older than me. If things go well, we plan on getting married in 2009. When I told my father that I plan on marrying her, he discouraged me. He told me that it's not a good idea to marry an older woman as women age quickly and by the time she is 35, I will be looking for a younger woman. My father was 29 and my mother was 19 when they got married. He recommends me to get married to someone 5-12yrs younger.

I couldn't believe he said that. I still want to marry her even though she is slightly older than me.

2006-09-10 14:52:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i WENT TO ELEMENTRY SCHOOL FOR A BRIEF TIME WITH CHRIS AND WOULD LIKE TO FIND HIM. HE IS ABOUT 33 AND LIVES IN NEW ORLEANS, LA OR VIOLET, LA. PLEASE CONTACT ME IF YOU KNOW HIM. DARREN K. ROMITTI DARRENROM9071@YAHOO.COM

2006-09-10 14:51:23 · 2 answers · asked by darrenrom9071 2 in Friends

I have done everything that i could have. I joined those dateing sites but they came up with no results other then friends. I asked for help form them but nothing ever came of it. You name it I most likely did it. Cept moving out of state. Im 25 and been single for what seems like ever. If you want to check me out here it is........http://www.myspace.com/102226228

2006-09-10 14:45:35 · 8 answers · asked by carguyseeksanyone 2 in Singles & Dating

I'll try to make a long story short. My EX and I were everything!! The best, happiest couple. I was is 1st love. We were together for over a yr. After that we seperated because of me...I wanted to be with him more than he was able to. He felt like I was chasing him, but I just wanted to be with him. So 5 months has past, and I'am still in love with him, more than ever. True love right! I tryd to meet new people but I just think of him. He's 21 and Im 20, he's not the type of guy to go chasing girls and being in one night stands, or getting a new girl friend right away. He only had 2 girlfriends in his life, and I was the only girl he really loved, and told that to. That goes for me to, I only been in one other relationship before, but Im in love still, I dont know how to move on. I broke his heart so many times, when i use to try to tell him how i feel he just crys, did I hurt him to much? Is that why he wont talk to me? what should I do???

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5 days ago
yeah I tryed to give it time, and to back off, but how long is long enough? It's been 5 months....Isnt that long enough. I cant help the way I feel for him! I have feeling like this, I want to know how he feels to, but he wont talk to me. I hate feeling like this, what am I suppose to do?

2006-09-10 14:42:10 · 4 answers · asked by jackie b 1 in Singles & Dating

death? My husband and I have tried so hard to put things back together, but it's just not working. It works for about a month then it all falls apart, every time I see him now when I pick up the kids, he's so sad. I'm just at a loss, I don't know what or how to make it better. We've tried counseling, and we've split twice before and always came back. But now I just can't do it again, I just can't...I just feel so sad. Has this happened to anyone else? How do you get through it?

2006-09-10 14:37:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-10 14:30:58 · 13 answers · asked by teenqueen326 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi if anyone needs any advice email me because i'm really good at it and i'm sincere and honest about my advice and trustful.It's basically an advice giver and I don't charge anything! I just love giving advice,i'm obssesed with helping people so tell your family and friends about me and remember to email me.I'm serious people-just email me with your problems and i'll come to the rescue! my email is charmed_ones_lover@yahoo.com

2006-09-10 13:48:13 · 7 answers · asked by charmed_ones_lover 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 8 yr old, just swallowed a bead, will she u know... poop it out?

2006-09-10 13:47:14 · 3 answers · asked by Lover Dover 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-10 13:47:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 13:46:42 · 8 answers · asked by sugarcandiyum 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with the ame guy for a while now and we just got engaged in June but evrything is not good. We moved into our house last month and he is never home.. He picks up my son fromdaycare on fridays and then once i get homefrom work he is gone. I dont know what time he comes home because i dont even wait up anymore but I was up last night and he came in at like 3 in the morning. He says that he wants to marry me but how can you want to marry somebody that you dont even spend time with? We had a really big argument about this yesterday and havent been talking to each other since then just walking past each other and not speaking. I love him to death and I know that he also loves me but I can only take so much of this. what should I do? I dont think that he is cheating or anything like that becasue I always have a feeling if somthing like that is going on and I dont have that feeling, but I am really scared that if this problem isnt fixed we wont make it to the altar. Help!

2006-09-10 13:46:10 · 18 answers · asked by just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, there's this chick and I who've known each other for around a year or so, ironically we met on some music forums and now we're dating. Problem is...her father is a stickler about dating, and she's going to be 15 VERY soon, I know I might be a year, four months and 8 days older than her, but this is TRUE love. When I first said I loved her she was so happy, but anyways, her dad doesn't know ANY of this, and I thought maybe I could talk to him..but it's giving me the shivers because I don't want this relationship to end because of her damned dad. We live in the same state, but different areas, and I REALLY wanna take her to the homecing dance that's coming up,.

2006-09-10 13:44:59 · 10 answers · asked by War Pig 2 in Singles & Dating

i found some picture w/t other girl he told me that it was already end last year i don`t if he`s telling the truth coz he`s the same if i catch any details i`m bz next time will talk about it have a heart ache etc......

2006-09-10 13:42:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband went back to his home town to get are things. Although he left just for that my dad dont want him here no longer. ( I live with my parents and so did he, havent been able to find a place of are own ) What can I do or what can he do to tell my dad that he wants to be here. Im 36 week perngant and well I really want him here when are son is born.

2006-09-10 13:42:06 · 16 answers · asked by christyg19852003 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just broke up with my gf last thursday,we were together for 1 year nad a half, i'm so lost, can't sleep, everything seems to remind me of her...everything feels so pointless...can anyone help me?

2006-09-10 13:41:30 · 23 answers · asked by Adrian B 2 in Singles & Dating

i need a good game idea for a medium sized youthgroup (25 people) nothing gross or non-churchy. best idea wins 10 points!

2006-09-10 13:41:15 · 2 answers · asked by becca 3 in Friends

ok so i am new at this school but i was spose to go there but i moved n e way there was this guy who always stared at me (how flattering!) and n e way i started to really like him and we sorta stared at eachotha and wen i was in one of my classes this otha kid walked up to me and said he likes u and pointed to my crush and my crush sat right behind me and didnt say anythin my heart exploded! i didnt no wut to say so i said i doubt tht cuz i had been gettin tht all day but my crush wasnt defensive! and he ran outa there so fast! awww so do u think tht he likes me? nd if so will he ask me out or wut should i do? i should smile at him lol or should i ask him out? hmmm i am so confused!! please help!

2006-09-10 13:41:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 13:40:59 · 4 answers · asked by wisconsin_ace_01 1 in Weddings

just curious what the big turn ons and turn offs are... and I am mostly concerned with the first impression type stuff. My looks are averge I rate at about a 7.5 on most dating sites.

2006-09-10 13:40:50 · 17 answers · asked by bruce0769 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 13:40:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met an italian woman when i was in an abusive relationship. it came down to her helping me and letting me stay for an hour while my family came to get me. I was sobbing in front of her and completly embarassed. she really helped me but she lives in the complex near my ex. I feel like i owe her something. however i dont like to think of her because of what it reminds me of. please help

2006-09-10 13:39:12 · 14 answers · asked by AnimalCrossing 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter, who lives on the coast of oregon, had her first baby in may. I had just started a great new job here in reno nevada, had not been here long enough to take time off. My fiance and I had a fight about this, but he doesn't pay my bills. Was it wrong of me not to go rushing to Oregon to see her?

2006-09-10 13:38:17 · 25 answers · asked by mslorikaraoke 3 in Family

2006-09-10 13:37:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I do! I really wish I can find someone to get to know. Its hard finding true friendship you know.. I am 23 years old and I hope oneday God will bless me with a great female friend! I see other people with close friends and I would love that..The reason why I haven't connected I guess is because I am the only child and I was always used to being by myself. Nowadays I long for a true friend...Is there anyone out there that wishes the same as myself?

2006-09-10 13:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by lrkarey 1 in Friends

I know...... I keep asking the same type of question. Just looking for a good answer from a good guy :)
Thanks God Bless:)

2006-09-10 13:37:30 · 15 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

Just curious what approaches girls take to let you know they are interested. What initially attracts a girl to a guy. And what makes them comfortable enough to begin a conversation.

2006-09-10 13:37:05 · 4 answers · asked by bruce0769 1 in Singles & Dating

I only see her a couple times a year,when she comes up. My husband and I are retired. I want to go see her at least once in the winter. My husband does not want to drive or fly down and I am afarid to go alone. What should I do

2006-09-10 13:36:19 · 3 answers · asked by blueberrylady 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was going out wit this girl but some of my friends didnt like her so they called her and said that she wasnt going out wit me anymore and now that i told her that i love her soo much she still feels used but i really like her and id do anything for us to be together what should i do to make it up to her???

2006-09-10 13:36:11 · 10 answers · asked by Hendog 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 13:34:23 · 7 answers · asked by noooora 1 in Family