My husband went back to his home town to get are things. Although he left just for that my dad dont want him here no longer. ( I live with my parents and so did he, havent been able to find a place of are own ) What can I do or what can he do to tell my dad that he wants to be here. Im 36 week perngant and well I really want him here when are son is born.
2006-09-10 13:42:06 · 16 answers · asked by christyg19852003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You just need to confess to you father. If he really is the good dad you think he is, he should accept you husband and your child and your for who you are. If he doesn't then you really need to find you own house but whatever you do, don't let your dad come between you and your husband.
2006-09-10 13:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually dont work out when a couple lives with mom or dad or even another couple.
U desperately got to find your own place like a cheap house in the country to raise your kid if u cant find a place.
Try to apply for Section 8 at your local Social Services, they may find u and your hubby a place.
Maybe your hubby needs to help your dad around the house like yardwork, He needs to show he will help out around the house and maybe your dad will appreciate him more.
Tell him to come home, and u both work something out if u want him there when your son is born.
Life is too short to be so discourage, where there is a will , there is a wife.
2006-09-10 20:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man -- you sound like you really need your own place. It would certainly be worth it after you baby is born, even if it is a tiny apartment!
You should start looking online right now! Craigslist.com is a good place to start. Also your local newspaper. If you think you might qualify, you should go to your county services tomorrow and ask for help. They will know a lot of info, plus you might qualify for other programs like WIC. That's a program that gives you money to buy groceries for you and your baby.
It is your dad's house, so what he says goes I suppose. Could you live with your husbands' parents for a while?
Good luck. That is tough.
2006-09-10 20:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he do something wrong? or is your father unreasonable? maybe you can still find a place of your own before the baby is born. try and get to the bottom of why though so you know what to do. if he did something really bad, maybe he'd do something bad when the baby is born too. try telling your dad that you want him there when the baby is born. he is obviously ok with you being there, which is something at least
2006-09-10 20:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by sleepyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a time for stress. Sit your Father down and explain to him again. If he does not still understand tell him you and your husband will be moving out when he returns. Tell him this is the father of your child and you will not allow him to be treated unfairly. Remind him of the Grandchild coming and how close everyone can be if he would just listen. Explain you do not want to be the one to split the family but if you are forced to you will have to. Not a threat just reality.
2006-09-10 20:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no business living with your parents unless you contrubute to the household. Does he help pay for food? Does he work at all? You are probably a very bright young lady but your grammar and spelling needs some attention.
2006-09-10 20:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The wise thing to do is to get a place of your own. Unfortunately it's your father's house and he has the say while u are under his roof, as unreasonable as that may be.
2006-09-10 20:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move in with his parents.
Keep looking for a place.
That is your dads house so you have to live by his rules. Only choice is to move out.
2006-09-10 20:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, if it's your dad's house it's his rules. Why don't you move in with his parents, or get your own place?
2006-09-10 20:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no excuse for not having a place of your own. Move to his hometown if you have to. Your parents should not have to share their home with you indefinitely.
2006-09-10 20:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋