Family & Relationships - 7 September 2006

My marriage of 8 years has dwindled into just a mere friendship. We both are going through the motions of a married couple. We have two young girls. We have been living sererate for 5 months to work on things and haven't worked on one thing. The problem is that we just never took the time to stay in love with each other. We never made it a priority. We both wish we had. We get along great but... we are not in love and it almost seems like we have been apart so long emotionally that everything we try does not work. We tried concelling. Do we just need to step up to the plate and divorce? I think neither one of us wants to initate it but we both know it is inevidable.

2006-09-07 04:52:25 · 11 answers · asked by lookingforanswers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing this guy for about nine months. I recently told him that I loved him. He had no reply. He said that he knew I was beginning to feel that way which is not a problem but he just does not feel that way yet. What do you think (I already know what I think)??

2006-09-07 04:51:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 04:51:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-09-07 04:50:37 · 21 answers · asked by lucky 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 04:49:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a son with my 22yr old boyfriend and we were living together for 2 yrs now, an he decided that he does not want to be with me anymore an went to look for some little girl .He spoke to her for 2 days an is saying that he likes her more than me (one of thoes days was my birthday) an he wants to break up with me as if it is my fault an also is blaming it on me says i ague to much.

2006-09-07 04:49:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean I would.. but how do you know she will.. ? Can you seriously just ask? what if she thinks your a perv and dumps you? what if she loves it secretly?

2006-09-07 04:48:27 · 25 answers · asked by sharper 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 04:48:27 · 9 answers · asked by Rinnie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

she recently got picked in a rising star contest to represent our country. she was 19 or 20 years old, i cannot think now.

2006-09-07 04:48:09 · 9 answers · asked by katz 4 in Friends

i have been with my bf for almost 5 months and overall i'm happy. but, there are things that i def dont like, the fact that he keeps me waiting alot and he doesnt always put me first. and also he is best friends with a girl he used to hook up with and that erks me , and he just seems to make the situation worse like he will hang up with me to talk to her but if i call him and he is talking to her he will tell me he will call me back. so i'm wondering should i end this while its still fairly new or give him a chance . i do have feelings for him which is why i would give him the benefit of the doubt but also i'm 26 and have wasted years of my life on relationships i wasnt happy with and dont wanna make the same mistake

2006-09-07 04:46:49 · 20 answers · asked by LISA M 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf broke up with me last week...so he told me not to call e-mail or txt him...i said ok....i have been itching to call him ever since but i refused to give in because i know i didn't do anything wrong and i know i could do better....this morning b4 leaving my house he sent me a txt msg saying he misses me...what gives

2006-09-07 04:46:17 · 13 answers · asked by Cassie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 04:46:10 · 4 answers · asked by Deidra S 1 in Friends

in a 24 hour period how much time are you really happy...........and what could be done to increase your happiness

2006-09-07 04:45:38 · 15 answers · asked by bull 5 in Marriage & Divorce

How do i move on when i feel that i don't want to move on.well me and my ex are broken up, she is supposed to be moving out but she hasn't yet. now it seems like we are closer in a way but not together. she broke up with me. she is pregnant with our child. at the initial stage of our break up, i was trying to make things work out but she wasn't hearing it and i was irritating her. now that i have decided to let go completely, she shows another side. we have had moments of romance, we talk more, and now i am able to give her hugs and hold her alittle. last week, she was hating me and told me that she didn't want me to be apart of her life and the baby's life. I want to be there for her and the baby. i still love her but i try not to let my emotions show, i just enjoy the moments we share together, i look at this as closure but i dont konw how she feels. Does she want to work things out or is this her way of saying good bye?

2006-09-07 04:45:07 · 12 answers · asked by drew46759 2 in Singles & Dating

I have Picked the colors Peridot,Lavender and Aquamarine.Do you think that those colors will look ok for a June wedding?or should I go with different colors all together?Thank you in advance

2006-09-07 04:44:52 · 15 answers · asked by Angel sent from heaven 5 in Weddings

Hi, I have been dating a musilm man for about two years now and I love him alot. He is from pakistan and I am from the US but we met in college. I am confused beause I would like to marry him but I am afraid of his family because all of them are muslims as well. How can our relationship work out. I feel like I cant live without this guy and he feels the same(so he tells me). We have broken up once b4 because he said it would be too difficult for me but I disagree. I would do anything for him but my religion like his is very important to him. Is it possible to raise a healthy family with two religions or should we just go our seperate ways? Please help

2006-09-07 04:44:33 · 14 answers · asked by duddie02 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I love my brother who just graduated from college and is working on his first job. He dated his first serious girlfriend (I think) and has changed a lot since. He and I were raised in a conservative Christian family (though intellectually a little more liberal) but he's started going to pubs and doing lots of outdoor sports that he hadn't used to love so much. He's a very decent guy but seems to be affected a lot by his moods. For a long time I felt that he is rude to our parents and sometimes to me. The thing is, I feel he's way nicer to his friends than to us. He has a pretty good social life outside of the home but once he gets home sometimes he even ignores me on his way from tha entrance to his bedroom. Am I overreacting? To make things worst I have a disability that makes my life slightly more mundane/limited. Maybe that's mainly why I feel that the little bits of anger and the resistance I put up to stop any boiling over are just too much. HELP ME!!!!!

2006-09-07 04:44:18 · 6 answers · asked by yilingonly 1 in Family

2006-09-07 04:44:15 · 3 answers · asked by A BOY 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 22 yearsold and my husband is 24 we've been married for 4 years we have 2 kids a one yearold and 2 yearold he's a hard worker he works and supports us I stay home and clean the house and take care of our children when he's off work he helps me with the chores in my opinion I believe men work and women stay home and do their duties as a wife such as taking care of the kids, cleaning house, laundry, and dishes but I think the husband should help when he's off work I think the woman's place is at home

2006-09-07 04:43:57 · 48 answers · asked by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Tired of the same old things. I want something different. No theme, second marriage and colors are ivory, hunter & burgandy

2006-09-07 04:43:41 · 16 answers · asked by newpitt 1 in Weddings

2006-09-07 04:43:37 · 11 answers · asked by purple carrot 4 in Friends

ladies, whats your measurements and cup size, im takin a poll

2006-09-07 04:43:21 · 3 answers · asked by baseball_saenz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 04:43:10 · 13 answers · asked by katrina_ponti 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 04:42:57 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my girlfriend so much. She recently told me that if I let her that she would be with a girl, and its killing me. We have been together for a year and a half, and her being bi is the root of every one of our problems. She is a really sweet and loving girl and I would do anything for her, but I don't see how if she felt that I was her true love that she would be willing to be with someone else?
She has had one girl friend but the other girl was just basicly doing it for the attention the boys gave her at school. I am so broken hearted and hurt I just dont know what to think or tell her.

2006-09-07 04:42:41 · 6 answers · asked by Broken hearted 1 in Singles & Dating

Im having a lot of problems at home with my dad, im not really sure why coz we used to get on so well. i went back to college to further my education last year ive got my dream job but its a brand new salon that yet to open so im waiting around. all my dad says is that i do nothing and im a p*ss taker. this just aint true im always cleaning up after him and my borther.

well the problem is he made it clear that he wants me out of the house and to be honest its probably best i am my fiancee thinks its a good idea to ask his mum and dad if i can live with them and pay rent and that he cant see a problem with them saying yes.

i really get on with them and i know they love me but i just dont know how to ask or explain without it saying like hey can i stay at yours and bug you.

is there any decent way of approaching this

2006-09-07 04:41:47 · 15 answers · asked by lisa7777 2 in Family

anyone know what sites i can visit ? or anyone on here know of a mexican man with the name ruben gonsalez?
i was born in 1980- in SB , california

2006-09-07 04:41:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What is your most most most ***** wish.

2006-09-07 04:40:20 · 10 answers · asked by A BOY 3 in Singles & Dating

Former Marine Birthday september 20 1966

2006-09-07 04:40:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Or For Husbands, I guess the Question should read.. about how much did you spend on an Engagement Ring?

2006-09-07 04:39:55 · 15 answers · asked by urbanbutterfly 3 in Singles & Dating