i have a son with my 22yr old boyfriend and we were living together for 2 yrs now, an he decided that he does not want to be with me anymore an went to look for some little girl .He spoke to her for 2 days an is saying that he likes her more than me (one of thoes days was my birthday) an he wants to break up with me as if it is my fault an also is blaming it on me says i ague to much.
2006-09-07 04:49:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kick him to the curb.
2006-09-07 04:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by Laquishacashaunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend who did the same thing to me once. The only thing different is that he went to jail after he left me for another woman. I was 20 when that all happened. He got out when I was 23 and at first, I thought that the time he spent in jail, that he changed in some kind of way, boy was I wrong. We got back 2gether and everything was ok at first, but then it went back to the same ole things over again. I finally had enough and even though I loved him (and still do today), I had to leave cause I just could not keep putting myself through all the unnecessary drama. We are still friends though, he has him another girlfriend and I have myself and boyfriend who is treating me and my child with enough respect that a person can only ask for and the only thing I have to think about is the child that we have 2gether and the best thing that I can tell you is that you will always have that one thing that will always keep you 2gether and that is the child, the thing to do about it is to move on with your own life but to never let him leave your child's cause your child will always want to know where he/she came from.
2006-09-07 05:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure how old you are but you can't just kick him to the curb because of the kid. you can be an adult and move on but don't keep the kid away from their father unless he is a total scumbag. Be mature, don't stoop to low levels. It just hurts more in the end. You can't force someone to be with you, find someone who does. Good Luck!
2006-09-07 04:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by mooretw33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that it is a tough decision to make. your son needs to grow up in an environment where both paternal and maternal support is present.
however, if you take him back there is no saying he would wander off again. the quarrels and inconvenience that ensues is not healthy for your chid. unless of course he is sincere in wanting to stay with you and fulfill his role as a father.
thus, it is taking the lesser of 2 evils.
2006-09-07 05:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by J S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question? If u have any sense you would move on from that relationship, he obviously does not care for you anymore. Do what you gots to do!!
2006-09-07 05:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by trini_rocker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET him go on his marry way girl, don't have anything to do with him !!! he's playing u like a fiddle.... sorry 2 say that but it's true. good luck 2 u you can do better than him.. he's not worth it !!!
2006-09-07 04:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go rent the movie "Someone Like You." This movie explains why men do this. It sure helped me.
2006-09-07 04:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did that to you and your son and he left, dont get back with him, its going to be the same and you will be back in the same ol situation.
2006-09-07 04:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you do but that's no reason let him treat you like trash, that your son and run you can do better.
2006-09-07 04:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would kick him to the curb and find someone else who wants to be with me and not anyone else.
2006-09-07 04:54:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋