I love my girlfriend so much. She recently told me that if I let her that she would be with a girl, and its killing me. We have been together for a year and a half, and her being bi is the root of every one of our problems. She is a really sweet and loving girl and I would do anything for her, but I don't see how if she felt that I was her true love that she would be willing to be with someone else?
She has had one girl friend but the other girl was just basicly doing it for the attention the boys gave her at school. I am so broken hearted and hurt I just dont know what to think or tell her.
2006-09-07 04:42:41 · 6 answers · asked by Broken hearted 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She said IF you ever left her, she would go with another girl, maybe shes been broken hearted by too many guys... i wouldn't dwell on that subject to much it seems as tho you are looking for problems that dont exist, why should her wanteing to be with another girl if you guys broke up even bother you? that would be after you broke up, if you broke up, what would you expect her to do sit around and cry for you forever, like im sure you would do that for her... don't go looking for trouble, let sleeping dogs sleep!!
2006-09-07 08:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i agree that it is cheating if you don't enjoy letting her do it, but most of my friends that are bi have an open relationship with their bf/gf, basicly they left each other have their fun and at the end of the day have a nice snuggle under the covers and know they only love each other and no one else, if she and the other girl are in love then that's completely cheating and you need to tell her, if it pushes her away then let it be, some people are too greedy in the relationship aspect and think they should have all or nothing. But if the other girl's just a fun buddy that she can sneak some fun cause they can go to private places together then you should just tell her either both of you get to have an extra someone or neither of you do.
2016-03-27 01:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she obviously said 'IF' so you should stress too much simple explain to her how it's made you feel. If it really is the root of all your problems and it's making you feel this way you have to try and sort it out with her otherwise if you can't perhaps she isn't the one for you.
2006-09-07 04:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg... are you serious?? you have the best being offered to you right now.. do you know how many guys would love to be in your shoes.. I cannot believe that you are not interested in doing it.. make sure she lets you participate.. at least let you watch..
2006-09-07 05:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she love you she would only want you. so dump her and find someone that wants to only share herself with you
2006-09-07 04:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummmmmmmmm??? good question i wish i could help
2006-09-07 04:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by TOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋