she recently got picked in a rising star contest to represent our country. she was 19 or 20 years old, i cannot think now.
2006-09-07 04:48:09 · 9 answers · asked by katz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I truly am sorry to hear that. I lost a friend in a car accident at that age too and I also lost my mother in a car accident.
I wish I could tell you something that would speak directly to your grieving heart but the truth is that only time will ease the pain. You will be going through many different emotions as you journey through this grief. Pray for her family and pray for strength. You don't have to go this road alone. Look to family and friends for support. If they don't understand, find someone who does. Remember the great times you had together and that your friend will always be with you in your heart. I pray that God grants you strength, courage and peace.
2006-09-07 06:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Mystery of Life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, I just want to say I am sorry. It is really hard to lose a friend. You think, "They were so young, I can't believe this happened." The best thing you can do right now, is think about it, talk about it. I know some might say, "Well, if she thinks about it too much it might drive her crazy." Really, it is better to think about it, get it out now instead of never doing it.
Talk to your family about it, talk to your friends. Write in your diary, or a notebook about how unfair it is, how mad you are, how you feel. It is not good to keep these things bottled up. If you do, it just leads to more heartache.
It is a good thing to go through the steps of grieving.
2006-09-07 04:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by ForeverLove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect to cope right away. Expect to feel torn apart, angry, etc for a while. I suggest going to the funeral if possible, even if it is hard, and definitely speak to a counselor. The only thing that will help is time.
2006-09-07 04:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by francesfarmer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can relate.my friend was shot on sat. nite. Ive been praying alot, crying & trying to continue to show-up in my own life. sometimes it helps to be part of planning the memorial. I'm sorry for your loss. Grieving is a process, just be open to it.
2006-09-07 05:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by heartichoke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your friend... All things will come to light with time... just remember to think about all of the times you had with her...
2006-09-07 05:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by A_Soldiers_Wife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mourn for her now. But remember that she would want you to enjoy your own life. You will let go after a while.
2006-09-07 04:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm really sorry 4 ur lost! just don't bend and don't break ! move on and remember her. i'm sure that she wants u to b happy and move on no matter her death.
take care
ali shkodrova
2006-09-07 05:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just pray for her soul. sigh.
2006-09-07 04:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by Kerk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sooo sorry
2006-09-07 04:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by Single and Lovin It 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋