i have been with my bf for almost 5 months and overall i'm happy. but, there are things that i def dont like, the fact that he keeps me waiting alot and he doesnt always put me first. and also he is best friends with a girl he used to hook up with and that erks me , and he just seems to make the situation worse like he will hang up with me to talk to her but if i call him and he is talking to her he will tell me he will call me back. so i'm wondering should i end this while its still fairly new or give him a chance . i do have feelings for him which is why i would give him the benefit of the doubt but also i'm 26 and have wasted years of my life on relationships i wasnt happy with and dont wanna make the same mistake
2006-09-07 04:46:49 · 20 answers · asked by LISA M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would call it quits. He has made it obvious that his best friend comes first. You deserve someone who will put YOU first.
2006-09-07 04:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's acting like this at the beginning of the relationship, think of how he'll act a few years down the road. . Not good.
See if you can talk to him about how you don't feel like he makes you much of a priority, hopefully that will improve things - if not.. Move on.
2006-09-07 11:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by Laquishacashaunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait on till he has the chance to tell you that he fell back in love with her and wasted a whole 5 months of your life .While in that 5 months they were getting to know each other better.
2006-09-07 12:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point in your relationship he should still be pretty focused on you. He doesn't seem to be. I don't think this relationship is going anywhere. Let it go now, before you put in a lot of effort and just get hurt.
2006-09-07 11:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by ladyg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try sitting him down and talking to him and tell him how u feel, and also tell him that if he don't change that u r gonna leave him, cause the way he is treating u is the same way my X was treating me then i found out that he was cheating on me with his X, and it hurt, alot but some things just have to be done
2006-09-07 11:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by partyqueen2o05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, end it. if this shi*t already happening, it only will get worse. dump him. you don't want to be treated like this. i'm not saying that he needs to be head over heal for you, but he needs to give you some respect. and i'm sure once you tell him. he'll say that he'll change. but , trust me, only for a while. you're still young and there's a world out there for you.
2006-09-07 11:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the 1st answerer stated you answered your own question. This is not a relationship to me at all. Move on.
2006-09-07 11:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him go before you get too attached. Absence may make the heart grow fonder, but he still seems to be hung up on this other girl.
2006-09-07 11:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by ee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is cutting you off for her then that is not a good thing he still cares for her you need to tell him look either you show me more attention and that you want tio be with me or i am leaving there are plenty of guys out there who would give you the attention you need and deserve
2006-09-07 11:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by tazzlane120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should quit him while the quitin is good. I know you have feelings for him but I have been in the same position before and let me tell ya....it don't look good.
2006-09-07 11:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by Rowan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋