Family & Relationships - 7 September 2006

What if me & my friend were in a huge fight b/c she told me she had cancer & then I was talking about it 2 someone even though she told me not 2..but i thought that something like this is something I couldn't keep inside of me so i was talking about it to someone else that knew.& that person told other people and my friend thought that I told those people but i didn't. I found out that the cancer thing was all a "misunderstanding" now we don't talk to eachother & all my other friends HATE her but i still want 2 b friends w/ her b/c when we were friends we were like together all the time.But she moved 2 a different state & i miss her so much & i have a myspace & i know her myspace & i m thinking about sending her a message.....should i send her a message or not?(should i just forget about-her but the problem is, is that she told other people that i told other people & now i have problems w/ the friends that she left behind when she moved & now those friends hate me. HELP!

2006-09-07 09:28:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Let's say you're totally into this woman, head over heels, she's everything you ever looked for and wanted in a partner...then she finds out she's barren, would you stay with her? Or would your desire to propagate your DNA be stronger and therefore you'd leave her for another woman? A fertile one, even if she isn't half the mate you had with the barren one... It doesn't matter if your single with your g-friend, dating or married. What would you do?

PS. This is not an autobiographical question *knock on wood*, but it could happen, you never know...

2006-09-07 09:28:29 · 21 answers · asked by cleo715 4 in Singles & Dating

In terms of your ego, if you have already your orgasm(s), do you feel a need to make the man orgasm? Would you feel any less of a woman if he repeatedly did not?

Some of the meds I am taking (for non-sexual reasons) often makes it near impossible for me to get off. It is not a mental thing, but rather a side effect of the meds. After 15-20 minutes, I sometimes just want to quit and say, "Ok, enough, the ride's over." I don't care that much if I orgasm. The ego boost I get knowing I did my part is enough for me. And, if I absolutely feel the urge to get off, I can handle that myself (with some effort).

2006-09-07 09:28:07 · 14 answers · asked by Gin Martini 5 in Singles & Dating

I know not many around and looking for steps in family.

2006-09-07 09:28:05 · 1 answers · asked by pirateron 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

.....oral anytime, anyplace you wanted,..with nothing in return,...how many times a week would you take him up on it?...or would you at all?

2006-09-07 09:27:50 · 21 answers · asked by juslookin 5 in Singles & Dating

his stepmom is such a well you know. and he has to put up with so much...he gets treated wrong all the time and she puts a chain and lock on the frige so he cant eat without her being there. and she always blames him for everything.. what can i do to help him get away from her!?

2006-09-07 09:27:24 · 12 answers · asked by April J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 09:26:55 · 17 answers · asked by tasha 2 in Weddings

There is a cute guy at my college's bookstore and I would like to get to know him but yet I can't think of a reason to go into the bookstore. It would just seem weird if I just randomly walking into the bookstore just to talk to him while he is working. I have never had a boyfriend and never been asked out on a date so this is sort of hard for me. So if anyone has any ideas of how I can start up a conversation and getting to know him better please share them with me.

2006-09-07 09:26:44 · 13 answers · asked by Nat 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 09:26:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like my bf just moved... but like my parents said i cant talk to him. i do it anyways and i got in troble

2006-09-07 09:26:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

wondering how normally approach one ...i mean some of them seems to me quite careless if u r not her race , iam black and lives in white area ..iam trying sometimes to encourage myself and chat to some attracting me ..but then some sort of things comes into my mind like different race specially when u seen that careless look into thier eyes ...or it might be that they not attracted to me ....u cant read the body langauage for one ...i just see her face and most of them dont like to look into my eyes ...i dont know but its give me the feeling for no chance from her .......what to do in this circumistances ?

2006-09-07 09:26:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 09:25:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 8 months pregnant and sexually spoil the man and I've been catching him looking at porn constantly on the internet... He lies about it.. Like he didn't know he was clicking on it. Yeah I know Im pregnant but it's not like I m a bloated cow or anything.. I dont get it. He wont stop and he keeps lying...

2006-09-07 09:24:16 · 30 answers · asked by Tiffany A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I overheard a little girl maybe 4th grade talking to her grandma about some boy she likes. Her grandma was listening as if she was a teenager. The little rambeling on about how cute he is, and how she wants to date him. YES I said DATE.

What do you think, am I wrong to think this was toltally inapropriate? I mean shes no older than a 4th grader, and talking about boys...

My daughter is 2nd grade and yes she does talk about how cute boys are, however i'm not encouraging it like this grandma was. I just thought it to be way inaparopriate for such a young child.

what do you guys think?

2006-09-07 09:24:10 · 22 answers · asked by chicata25 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 09:24:01 · 11 answers · asked by Ms Brownsugga 1 in Singles & Dating

Iam 17 and i really like him i dont want to break it off with him because he is real down to earth he has told me three lies so far should i believe what hes saying about hes seperated from his wife .

2006-09-07 09:22:50 · 11 answers · asked by marie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend has been involved with a married man for over a year and a half. The man has gone back and forth between her and his wife, playing games with both of them. He stops talking to her for about a month at a time, but she still hangs on. He has talked about getting a divorce but won't even sign the separation agreement.

Her lease is up next month and she is planning on moving to his town which is 6 hours away. He has promised that he will sign the papers and she can live with him. In the meantime, he is still staying at home with his wife and daughter. He acts as though she is not important to him. He's not always available when she wants to talk to him, and feels pressured when she talks abou the papers.

I am fearful that my friend is going to make the biggest mistake of her life by moving up there. What should I say to her to stop her? She always wants what she can't have, so I don't know if she really loves him. But I don't believe he loves her. What to do?

2006-09-07 09:22:36 · 20 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Has it helped you get a job?
Has it made your relationship better?
Has it helped you loose weight?
Has it helped you get your house clean?

Hmmmmm.......I'm thinking no, but tell me what has weed done for you?

2006-09-07 09:22:27 · 21 answers · asked by TheMightyOne 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Seems like the last few relationships I've had six month seems to be the limit.

2006-09-07 09:22:07 · 40 answers · asked by crandle55 2 in Singles & Dating

Or will there be too many "discriminations" to make it feasible?
I mean it takes 169 or so hours to get a hair cutting license so why not a child license. I know giving someone a bad haircut can really screw up someone's life.

2006-09-07 09:21:57 · 10 answers · asked by parkdad73 1 in Family

2006-09-07 09:21:55 · 13 answers · asked by m_bannell 1 in Family

If you give a message to a dying person to pass on to somebody that is dead??????

2006-09-07 09:21:27 · 16 answers · asked by Ceanne 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi all, I've got a bit of a problem! I've been dating a really nice girl for the last 6 months. The problem is, she's just been left in a wheelchair after a life threatening operation and I'm finding it hard to imagine we'll be having sex for a while (she's got no feeling in her fangita anymore). I also have to empty her bag now if you know what i mean and it really turns me off. Should I dump her and get a new bird or should I pay a prostitute to do what she can't?

Does anyone know of any adult wheelchair porn sites? Maybe researching some of those might bring me round to the idea?

2006-09-07 09:21:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In today's world we are expected to make our own living, pay for everything ourselves, drive ourselves everywhere, raise children alone, and have our "own lives". Guys don't want to come to your rescue or be there to protect you. So what is their purpose if we have to do everything ourselves? And as far as sex is concerned, can't we do that ourselves too?

2006-09-07 09:20:52 · 44 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

My partner brought red rose petals and spread them all over our bed, not to mention the beautifully lit, and scented candles, and the meal he cooked was just...so special, i'll never forget this ever. What is the most romantic thing your partner/husband has done for you?....

2006-09-07 09:20:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 09:20:41 · 2 answers · asked by position28 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 09:20:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 09:20:28 · 5 answers · asked by TRANSLOPEDIA 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

A few days ago my girlfriend of 4 & 1/2 years and I split up. She told me that the love she had for me had slowly disappeared over the last couple months, but she still loves me as a friend. She wants to be friends and not lose anything, except for the romance. Both of us are going off to college, but don't let that automatically be the reason. We had an unbelievably perfect relationship through high school...the best of friends, trusting each other with everything. The last 1/2 year has been rough, as we've both been stressed out by college preparation, etc. We constantly talked about how much we were meant for each other and nothing would ever get between us. But now we're split and I'm not sure how to deal with it. She's also been stressed by volleyball, trying to be perfect and all, so that's taken a lot of her focus. I just need some advice in general from experienced people. Can I hope to one day get back with her? How do I move on? Do I stay friends? Any help would be great!

2006-09-07 09:20:22 · 4 answers · asked by madmaxi_008 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 09:19:48 · 2 answers · asked by tanya b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships