2006-09-07 09:21:55 · 13 answers · asked by m_bannell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have gotten some really good answers, but speaking from experience , you can talk to them if you'd like I hope that works for you , it never did me. Maybe talk to a sibling , aunt , uncle , someone that can talk to them on an adult level , to let your parents realize how this is hurting you. Good Luck to you, I know how you feel , I'm 48 and have been away from home for many many years , but I still remember .
2006-09-07 09:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by ridingthestorm_out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough on kids/teens. First of all, never blame yourself for your parents fighting.
What you can do is to talk to them and tell them its bothering you to hear them yell at each other. Hopefully they will stop (or at least in front of you).
If they don't then just go to your room, and turn up the music or better yet just go hang out with some friends for a while.
2006-09-07 09:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take them aside one at a time and tell them how you feel. Let them know that you plan to discuss this with the other parent as well. Have them understand that it is hurtful and unpleasant to hear them treat each other that way and you din't want it done in you presence anymore, Good Luck!
2006-09-07 09:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them, whatever they are going trough, is not your fault it's their own personal issues. You should tell them that their constant arguing is upsetting to you, and you have enough on your plate right now, without being stressed out about their problems. Ask them to keep the fighting in their room, or do it when your not around. Good Luck hun!!!!! If you have an ipod or anything with head phones i suggest you use them. :)
2006-09-07 09:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit them down and tell them that if they care about you then they should quit yelling at each other and if that doesn't work you should suggest counseling!!
I hope this helps you with your problem!?...
2006-09-07 09:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by josephz_blue_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry sweetie. You need to tell them how much this bothers you. Do you have grandparents close by? Other family in which to take refuge or just to talk to? Keep smilin' anyway.
2006-09-07 09:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by smile4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their is not much you can do i am afraid try to stay out the way, you can tell them it upsets you they probably do not relise this. its hard i know and just try to get on with your life as best you can.
2006-09-07 09:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to them in a nonthreatening manner...then kick each one of them in the shin.
2006-09-07 09:29:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony V 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave for a little bit.
2006-09-07 09:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to them
2006-09-07 09:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋