wondering how normally approach one ...i mean some of them seems to me quite careless if u r not her race , iam black and lives in white area ..iam trying sometimes to encourage myself and chat to some attracting me ..but then some sort of things comes into my mind like different race specially when u seen that careless look into thier eyes ...or it might be that they not attracted to me ....u cant read the body langauage for one ...i just see her face and most of them dont like to look into my eyes ...i dont know but its give me the feeling for no chance from her .......what to do in this circumistances ?
2006-09-07 09:26:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to look in to lots of eyes before you find the right ones, not every girl is going to be attracted to you, you just got to keep looking.
2006-09-07 09:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by angelcake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, the first thing that will get me is a unique looks, whether it's how she dresses, maybe how she carries herself, or maybe she has just a beautiful bone structure in her face that makes her breath taking. But they don't call it love at first sight because it's based off of anything else. From there usually i will notice an amazing smile and a good infectious laugh, and personality becomes the big player at this point. She better have content, or i'm outta there. She needs to be funny, and silly. Can't take herself too serious. Her social standing could matter less to me. Heck, if she's not popular, than she's my little secret and that's great.
2016-03-27 01:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are certain basic rules and my mentor and i agree that if they wont look you in the eyes its a certain no and also they are fixated by height in a man as we are by pretttiness in a girl
having said these generalities there are no rules and each two people have a unique interaction and it is assesses on a wide package of things;even if she is not initially attracted to you your chance will improve if you take trouble to observe her and find out what are the motivating factors in her personality
i have to say somewhat sourly htat i cant understand how some of my mates ever got their end away and it is obvious that persistence and hard work pays off;i know it sounds unromantic but it is a little like selling double glazing ;the more people you speak to the more likely that you will catch someone for whom your personality is a match
personally i think they aree all quite mad and i prefer to pay for it as at least you know what is going on but it is llike any other human transaction and if you cant be bohtered they will pick up on it;dont be disheartened by rejection as it happens all the time to everybody;i would say though that once you ask and get knocked back then move on to someone else and wait for the first to come back to you if she will
but quite frankly no one ever knows what they ar e thinking and i suspect they dont either
2006-09-07 09:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself thats all you can do. I found my husband 4 years ago and to be truful he wasnt my type to look at. Once i got chating i fell head over heels in love with him. Hes the most caring and loving man ever. You'll find some out there just have fun while your looking for that mrs right. x
2006-09-07 09:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by janine e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems there may be a bit of a culture barrier. Try not to catch the glance of someone and try instead to strike up a conversation. some looks are not perceived in the way they are meant.
Good luck!
2006-09-07 09:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey love knows no boundaries, keep tryin nobody is perfect.
the hell with differences. if you stay on the line and know there habit and culture, then theres no problem
ha ha ha
been there
its hard, but its eazy (whatever that means)
keep tryin okay, juz go with the flow.......... but dont get drowned and remember, saying it is easy, but doin it. its different situation
sorry for my bad english, tryin to improve it though ^_^
2006-09-07 09:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by BigBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking the right one will see your eyes and hold your glance .
2006-09-07 09:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like you be coming on too strong guy. chill out and be friendly chat about life in general etc and slow down you're starting to sound desparate
2006-09-07 09:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
personality
2006-09-07 09:36:22 · answer #9 · answered by nj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋