Seems like the last few relationships I've had six month seems to be the limit.
2006-09-07 09:22:07 · 40 answers · asked by crandle55 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because when you first meet someone and hit it off there is an infatuation stage. That slowly wears off and either grows into real love, or just friendship, or a bad relationship headed for some kind of break-up.
You don't get to choose who you fall in love with, and you can't make someone fall in love with you. You can only bring your best self to a relationship and hope it works, then try again.
2006-09-07 09:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are two parts to any relationship. Whatever it is with guys, its something you can't control and must learn to live with. However, have you examined your behavior? Do you ...
... stop wearing makeup/lipstick when you are with him?
... stop being as passionate/ardorous/interested in sex as you were in the first month?
... start nagging more about socks on the floor ...
... taking the trash out ...
... watching too much sports on TV?
... start being more interested in what he's "feeling"? ...
... and stop being simply turned on by being with him?
... dress more like a schlub? ...
... and less like a hot little sl*ut?
... stop giving him at least an hour a day of your SMILE?
The only way you can improve your situation is to focus on the things you can control. Think about your own behavior. So many women today are so busy blaming guys that they never stop to realize how much power they have to bring sugar and sweetness into the relationship.
Wear less underwear, wag your bottom and SMILE! Use the power you have.
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2006-09-07 09:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 6 months, they may become comfort with you, and they want that excitement of a new relationship or new person just like us women want. So if you want it to last keep it exciting...find new and different things that you guys can do together. If that doesn't work, then maybe it isn't meant to be. Remember everyone isn't right for you. You have to go through a couple of wrong one to find the right one.
2006-09-07 09:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men are like that. maybe the ones you've had are but trust me that is not the case for all men. i've never been in a relationship that was shorter than a year. and in most cases the guy doesn't lose interest, he just finds another interest. yep, thats right, he finds someone else that he likes. a lot of guys are players and cheaters but there are the ones out there like myself who know how to treat a girl and who would never do anything to hurt them.
2006-09-07 09:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same can go for women. It takes about six months to get to know each other and decide if that's what you are looking for in a companion. It is never easy telling someone there not your type when they have done nothing wrong to deserve a break up.
2006-09-07 09:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Vez10 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The VAST majority, of so called "Men" out there are simply ..."boyzzzz" in disquise.
STOP giving them ALL THE CREDIT you silly women do, JUST because they're gorgeous,muscular,hot, tall buff looking guy's who kno how to pleeezzzee ya dumb ***'s.
If ya all would transform yrselves, which is the truth & really what's needed, you would get what you deserve!
Y'r never gonna find true, honest lifelong romance, thats permanent enough to go the distance because you ladies every single one of you..."Compromise yr standards for BullS--t!"
And -
don't think the so called guys out there don't kno it...just cuz ya may be pretty, or sexy, get-the Fuc- out of here, cuz there's another pretty sexy momma (jst like You) on the next corner...do YOU get that??? YES indeedy, its SURE ENUF the truth !Honey.wise-up,.., every corner ya man passes down he's eyeballing another sweet dish just like You, & he's runnin her the identical BullShT rap you fell for cuz she's looking as fine as you were (past tense) !
So WaKE-the-Fuc- Up already missy!
Amen to ya all!
God Bless.
2006-09-07 09:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by K-9 Unit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's against men's chemistry to stay with only one woman for a lifetime; it's a scientific fact, but some men can defy thier DNA some can't, every LOVE has expiration date on it, most of them end before one of the partners die, rarely lasts for soo many years that even though one of them die, other's still longing for it...statistical&scientific fact...........women get pregnant everything in their body change; so they have to find a good, reliable, handsome, clever, genes to mix with theirs; men dont give a d*mn about who gets the genes, as long as they are capable, they'll water the surrounding; as I said, rarely men defy their genes and "stay put"............cant fight the nature
2006-09-07 09:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it is at about 6 months that most women , stop wanting to have sex every day,, all day , and stop doing what ever the guy wants to do , once that stops , whats the point in going on with the relationship
2006-09-07 09:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to disagree with a couple things that people have said before me. I really don't think you should have to change for a person like that. If you wanted to, then go ahead, but if you're changing your whole appearance for a guy just so he won't leave you, then he's obviously not the one for you.
2006-09-07 09:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by Craaaazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a damn good question. I believe men lose intersted not after 6 months but when they are bored. If you give a man too much in the begining than he has nothing to look forward to later. u dig?
2006-09-07 09:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋