his stepmom is such a well you know. and he has to put up with so much...he gets treated wrong all the time and she puts a chain and lock on the frige so he cant eat without her being there. and she always blames him for everything.. what can i do to help him get away from her!?
2006-09-07 09:27:24 · 12 answers · asked by April J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would talk to the mom and tell her that he is a grown man now and he knows and needs to take care of himself.
2006-09-07 09:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you guys? Putting a lock on the fridge is just crazy. You could tell him to get a job so he can move away or maybe he could stay with you.
2006-09-07 16:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be his encourager and modivater. IF he is in the situation to move out then I would recommend so. If not he should try making this his main goal. This is crazy who does that to people. If he hasnt already tried to have a relationship with her now is the time.
2006-09-07 16:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by Nickerbockers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now might just have to be a time to just be there for him when he needs you. You really can not get him out of that house until he is 18. I hope things work out for the best.
2006-09-07 16:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lelia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where's his old man?
He should get a job and move out.
If he can't cos he's too young, he should get a parttime job so he can at least get something to eat.
Meanwhile, be his moral support. That's the best and only thing you can do.
2006-09-07 16:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by Saffren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is he? If he is nearing that age where he can move out, I would suggest that. Does he have any other relatives he can count on? He might want to go to one of them, perhaps they can confront her together ... maybe even his father will listen. She might realize how much she is hurting him and treat him more respectfully
2006-09-07 16:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Tyler P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the only one who can handle this. He might not want you to intrude, macho thing. If he does let you have a talk with her then you might spend the rest of your life fighting his battles. Best Wishes!!
2006-09-07 16:31:51 · answer #7 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, tell him to move out, with a friend or a teacher, or someone that will help him. NOW!! OMG, that's so not right.
2006-09-07 16:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by gatita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact the authoritiez
2006-09-07 16:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by ppboyicewater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could talk to some other family members.
2006-09-07 16:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by sweettea919 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋