Family & Relationships - 4 September 2006

I am doing peturnity test to make sure the guy who I belive is the dad really is. He is being a complet jerk about it and won't even talk to me about it. He has a good job and used to be in the navy. I have nothing against him and don't want to keep him from her but he said if he is the dad he is going to fight for custody. I relize that he will probably only be able to get joint if any but I need to know what I can do to prevent him from being able to take her over a hour away for a week. Please serious advice only please I am desperate. My daughter means everything to me and I admit it was my fault for having a one night stand but I have been raising my daughter by my self and if he gets joint I will go crazy. I am not trying to keep him from her I just don't know him well enuf to let her go like that. PLEASE HELP!!!!

2006-09-04 10:21:57 · 10 answers · asked by babykins1025 2 in Family

i just broke up with my bf n he was always telling my i was fat@ 145 now that we broke up i lost 15 pounds an he still says im over weight? but i wanna show him im sexy

2006-09-04 10:21:41 · 6 answers · asked by Jasmine M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can I handle this,
I dont want to lose this job, i'm happy except for that.

2006-09-04 10:21:19 · 3 answers · asked by Classy 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister is dating this really nice cute sweet boy and she wants me to meet his litttle borhter who is my age. What should i do? she says hes really nice and cute but last time she wanted me to meet a guy it didnt turn out so well. Should i give him a chance? Hes a football palyer and im a cheerleader. Too steriotypical?

2006-09-04 10:20:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today I ended up putting my penis my girlfriends vagina but only a little bit up there, not all the way up there, and i kno there is pre-"skeet", you know, the stuff that isnt "skeet" but is pretty clear, well I was wondering, does that get a girl pregnant too?

2006-09-04 10:20:10 · 19 answers · asked by i_michael1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-04 10:19:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that when there is a divorce it is just assumed that the mother will get custody? Why is it assumed she is the better parent?
I am divorced and my abusive, bi-polar ex wife got custody of out 2 boys. Of course now the judge can see that I am in fact the better parent, regardless of what is between my legs, and she no longer has custody. But my question is, why, despite the police reports provided that prove her unstable nature and testimony given by others as to her inability to control herself, why was she granted custody in the first place?
Why is there such an anti-father bias in the courts that continues to allow children to be placed with abusive parents based on their sex? And what can be done to change this?

2006-09-04 10:19:35 · 14 answers · asked by Sunny And '74 4 in Marriage & Divorce

disappeared. I know he is living with someone but he told me that I was the love of his life and he had never gotten over me. He still drives by my house and remembers the good times. We are in seperate states now but we had such a connection that I dont know why he quit talking to me. any ideas??

2006-09-04 10:19:15 · 12 answers · asked by dynamicDee 3 in Singles & Dating

Chatting with people, you can give away a lot of personal details and it's easy to become emotionally involved with someone who you've never met. Can this be dangerous if they break off communication or if they turn out to be someone other than who they say they are?

2006-09-04 10:19:07 · 10 answers · asked by reaper8436247 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

These girls I work with always tell me I should dress different and wear my hair different. Just for a change. So I was going to this wedding so I had my stylist do my hair different and I wore this really pretty dress and more make up then usual. One girl did say I looked really pretty. And this guy I worked with said I looked nice. But this one girl said my hair looked a litte poofy and a couple of the other girls said nothing. A couple of these girls are pretty so I don't think they could be jealous. Do you think just no matter how hard I try they think I'm that unattractive. I mean one of the girls that didn't tell me told this other girl and another lady told me that that same girl always looks so pretty. This just makes me feel bad!!! Even when I try, I guess you just can't please some people!!! What do you think?

2006-09-04 10:18:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents are so strict and controlling! I just want to live my life the way I want! Advice please!!

2006-09-04 10:18:03 · 16 answers · asked by lovable 1 in Family

How does it feel when your doing it doggy style? Ive never done it before and i really want to do it with my boy friend but the problem is that when we do it regular, i never get off. so i was wanting to try something new. I dont know why im not getting off but i never have during sex!!!! i need some advice!!!

2006-09-04 10:17:40 · 14 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I woke up this morning and we have tens of thousands of ants in our bed.We are covered head to toe with welts. To be truthful my wife is turning my stomach just looking at her,seating there looking like 10 miles of bad road. Anyway we sprayed and now we have twice as many. They have been crawling out of body orifices as I type. please tell me will my wife be okay if I cover that morbid face of hers with a paper grocery bag.

2006-09-04 10:17:19 · 10 answers · asked by steve b 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean i just hang out with him 24/7 and he never talks to them anyways...so when he does is it unfair to tell him i think he shouldnt!???

2006-09-04 10:17:12 · 13 answers · asked by Cool Chick 3 in Singles & Dating

My sisters Bachelorette Party is coming up and we are planning all the details out... are you supposed to give little gifts to the people that come? Like little party type bags? And if so, what would YOU put in it .. or what would you like to have? THANKS!!

2006-09-04 10:17:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A girl a used to be friends with started trashing me, so I stop being friends with her and made a ton of new friends. Now she's being a total ***** to one of my friends, that is a close friend of hers. This friend is a total ditz, and will do anything anybody, including this mean chick, tells her to. I'm sick of my friend being treated like ****, but I've already tried to open her eyes and failed. What do I do to get my friend out of this mess?

2006-09-04 10:17:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i want all the guyz to want me cuz my boyfriend and i broke up and i remember he alway used to tell me i was fat @ 145 so i lost 15 pounds now that were broken he still says im over weight but i want to prove to him i am sexy!

2006-09-04 10:16:57 · 4 answers · asked by Jasmine M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-04 10:16:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do u give guys slight hints that u like him?

2006-09-04 10:16:09 · 5 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Singles & Dating

O.K. I'm not old I'm 23. It's just that I'm confused. Is talking to someone like dating? because I know you can talk to more then one person at once.. and when do you know if you are actually going out with the person?

2006-09-04 10:14:39 · 18 answers · asked by Vernice R 2 in Singles & Dating

but i had a boy friend but i broke up with him and now the male that been wanting to get with me for a while has a girlfriend while i'm single. But the thing about it everybody know on the street he want to get with me but both of us is scared to approache each other. he's with his gurl but at the same time he had sex wit me 2 sundays in a row kissed an everything and he told me a couple of days ago he always wanted me and he always will want me. But i need to know why he's with this white gurl knowing he wanting to be with me and how can i get him from her to take what rightfully mine and his. becuase he already gets upset when his boys try to talk to me he curse them out and get affended and will tell them he will fight them for messing with me but he got a girl. What should i do?

2006-09-04 10:14:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my wife split up months ago and I struggled to handle the situation due to our daughter I miss them so much and have tried to make up with the wife but got fed up of trying now, but she texts me etc asking for help with money and I help her, she tells me she is skint but seems to be pulling money out of thin air ! am I being treat like a mug or is it normal for me to respond to her to help ?

2006-09-04 10:13:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i can't do it!!!!

2006-09-04 10:13:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son recently got married in a private ceremony and did it for insurance reasons. They had planned to be married in late October but this surprised everyone. My question is, I live over 1500 mi away and now that they are legally married, should I go to this "Show" they are putting on in October? I'm inclined to stay home as it's a done deal now and frankly I don't see the point. They tell me they don't really consider themselves married until after the event in Oct. I'm at a loss to understand this. Should I go or stay home? My son is upset that I may not be there and doesn't understand my point of view.
Anybody have any suggestions?

2006-09-04 10:12:53 · 24 answers · asked by Spots Mom 1 in Weddings

i do feel if a question is "INTRUSIVE" and is a personal family issue...a white lie is what is called for'...i mean some people have no manners...so if they ask you something i feel you have a right to say just NO, with no explanation!!!Re: personal issues ...Some are also sooo very BOLD....and that is not good!!!question what are your feelings about a white lie that won't hurt anyone and may save someone...??? you know how some people love dirt...and i find that awful!!!

2006-09-04 10:11:48 · 2 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you look for in guys?

2006-09-04 10:11:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How should your ideal guy be? What do you look for in a men?
About personality and physical characteristics.
No pretty lies, only true answers, or else do not answer.

2006-09-04 10:11:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-04 10:10:48 · 5 answers · asked by captianameriscape 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this boy i like but i'm not sure if he likes me i asked him out before and he said he'll think bout it do u think he likes me cause he never answered???:(

2006-09-04 10:10:35 · 3 answers · asked by MissSexy0213 1 in Singles & Dating

hey guys theres this kid at school that i THINK he likes me he told me that he thinks im really cool and that hes really excited that im goin to be on his bus!from ur point of view does he like me?but i dont kno where my bus line is goin to be so i have to ask him if i could walk down with him to the bus for a couple days.please help!does he really like me?i need to kno by tommorrow cuz i am goin to see him tommorrow!thanx!

2006-09-04 10:09:52 · 11 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Singles & Dating