Family & Relationships - 4 September 2006

This is a follow up to last week's question. This guy at work has been touching my fingers and putting his leg next to mine for 8 weeks. I think that he must be gay. He took a rose from the table at lunch and gave it to me. I confronted him about his behavior. He is from Cuba. He said that he is not gay. The touching has stopped. Now, he thinks that I am gay. Here is part of his e-mail to me. "I don't know that you are gay, if I will notice that I won't be so close to you. So stop imagine things because you confuse friendship with relationship. Not everyone is like you, Ok. I didn't do anything because I didn't want to hurt your feellings, but I learned that sometimes you have to be sincero. Bye" I am confused about this whole deal. Is it normal for guys in Cuba to place a leg next to another guy? Do latin men touch each other's fingers? I still want to be his friend. He shakes my hand, but he doesn't talk to me. What do you think?

2006-09-04 11:06:12 · 14 answers · asked by Christopher Boston 2 in Friends

2006-09-04 11:06:10 · 9 answers · asked by PYT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is aboutt to get his *** kicked and his friends are caling me and saying im going to woop his *** and there are like 15 people on there side and like 12 on my bf side. What the **** do i do? If he gets into another fight then he is going to jail!!!! im am freaking out!!!!!!!

2006-09-04 11:06:02 · 16 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

Do guys like a brazilian wax, a bikini wax or no hair at all...down there? serious answers only!

2006-09-04 11:05:47 · 20 answers · asked by funnyzaza1993 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy but dont know if he likes me
how do i tell if he likes me??????

2006-09-04 11:05:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-04 11:05:16 · 10 answers · asked by PYT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-04 11:04:54 · 14 answers · asked by amy h 2 in Friends

Do you think Love is like a sweet dream and marriage like an alarm of the clock.

2006-09-04 11:03:53 · 10 answers · asked by Naughty Boy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-04 11:03:39 · 12 answers · asked by ♥415 $hort $hyt♥ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we've been together 4yrs but i feel its just another sneaky way to talk to women and thong pictures but if thats the case I should be able to have male friends also.

2006-09-04 11:03:13 · 3 answers · asked by smiley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Twins, 3 year old girl and boy. I love one to death, we connect. The other, I just don't feel the same. What can or should I do?

2006-09-04 11:02:54 · 6 answers · asked by photoguy1967 3 in Family

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS AND AM NOT TOTALLY UNHAPPY. THIS AFFAIR BEGAN WHEN I HAD A DEATH OF A CHILD. I LOVE MY HUSBAND. I HAVE EXTREMELY STRONG FEELINGS FOR THIS OTHER GUY. THERE HAS BEEN AN ATTRACTION BOTH PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY FROM THE BEGININNG. HE IS ALSO MARRIED.

2006-09-04 11:02:39 · 35 answers · asked by It is Me again 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So there is this guy who I like. He's pretty good-looking. His girlfriend is one of my friends. Of course this is where the dilema starts. When his girlfriend is not around he flirts very obviously with me, and even suggests going out. I'm happy that he's choosing me over her- but I really don't mean to. Should I tell him to back off even though I like him, or just let him carry on with it?

2006-09-04 11:02:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to a bondsman i have already got all but 300 dollars he has no one but me how can i save my love?

2006-09-04 11:02:18 · 13 answers · asked by cam 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i pressurise her into shaving without feeling bad

2006-09-04 11:01:38 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When people say I love you with all my heart and they have to have an artificial heart does that mean you have an artificial relationship? If you have a heart transplant does that mean you love the people the other person loved and you no longer love the person you previously loved with all your heart?

2006-09-04 11:01:19 · 3 answers · asked by daydoom 5 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i git a gurl

2006-09-04 11:01:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my man but he has an amzingly record breaking small dick. I find myself longing for satisfaction and that is why I bought myself a vibrator,but that is not enough. I am not happy with the sex at all but everything else is perfect help!!!!!!!!

2006-09-04 10:59:58 · 22 answers · asked by Tumi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really am totally and helplessly devoted and in love with my girlfriend. We have been through so much and have only been together for six months. I wake up in the morning with her on my mind and go to sleep the same way. I love her so much. Sometimes I cry at the thought of losing her. Am I way too sprung? Is this bad? I think I'm hooked on her. What should I do?

2006-09-04 10:59:35 · 9 answers · asked by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am , I graduated with honors

2006-09-04 10:59:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A woman's private area to be shaved?

2006-09-04 10:59:04 · 23 answers · asked by Patricia 4 in Singles & Dating

what is a good way to tell your family something about school,people,and things you may not tell them.

2006-09-04 10:58:45 · 4 answers · asked by talktome 3 in Family

2006-09-04 10:56:50 · 27 answers · asked by curious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

BELOW IS THE ARTICLE...

July 14, 2003 -- Virtually all of the adulterous women interviewed in a recent survey said they cheat because they deserve all of the pleasure and thrills associated with a secret affair.

Ninety percent of the cheating wives said they suffered absolutely "no guilt" but felt "entitled" to the good feelings they got, according to Susan Shapiro Barash, a professor and author, who randomly interviewed 120 women from a diversity of professional backgrounds, ages and races for a recent book on the issue.

She posted ads in YWCAs to find women who were sexually active, according the report on her study in The New York Post.

She said her research reveals that six in ten women will cheat on their husband at least once during their marriages.

"Women feel entitled because they're not getting what they need in marriage," said Barash, who wrote A Passion for More: Wives Reveal the Affairs that Make or Break their Marriages. "These women would recognize her need - her desire to have more in her life than she had in her marriage. "For the women who choose it, it's with great effort, so they really juggle the affair and somehow fit it in."

Baltimore psychologist Shirley Glass agrees with Barash.

"I don't see women feeling a lot of guilt," said Glass, in her recent book, Not Just Friends: Protect Your Relationship from Infidelity and Heal the Trauma of Betrayal . Women with careers and financial resources can take more risks, she added: "If their partners find out, they can take care of themselves."

But Barash has her dissenters. "I have not witnessed a growing experience of 'entitlement.' Their conscience is bothering them," Kristen Harrington, a marriage counselor in upstate New York, told the Post .

Glass also found surprising changes in men who mess around.

She said that men's affairs tend to be almost exclusively about sex; they're usually just getting "a little on the side" with a female subordinate.

"Now, men and women are working together as equals, with a lot of intellectual energy and common interests," Glass said. "It's a combination of emotional and sexual bonds. And it's more dangerous because it creates an alternative to the marriage, rather than just a supplement."

Still, being equal in some ways hasn't erased the differences in why men and women cheat, some experts say.

"Men have affairs to boost their self-esteem and because it's available. Their feelings are closely tied to their sexuality and potency," Brooklyn psychologist Marcella Bakur Weiner said. "Women don't just want a night of joy and pleasure. No matter what the feminists say, women want love. They want emotional attachment and bonding."

2006-09-04 10:56:15 · 17 answers · asked by HarvardMed 1 in Singles & Dating

She's not incest or anything, but every once in a while she puts her arm around me and everytime i give her something (like a cd) she gives me a hug and a kiss. I'm a boy who is 16. An then there was one time where she cuddled with me.

2006-09-04 10:56:10 · 7 answers · asked by oupp30 1 in Family

2006-09-04 10:55:10 · 29 answers · asked by T M 3 in Singles & Dating

I am an english woman, I wish to move out of england and stay in spain. At the same time when im in spain, I wish to marry a Moroccan guy. I wonder If I have the right to apply for a spouse visa for my husband so he can join me to spain ( he is from morocco and he lives there). I need your advice please about this issue, I dont know what are the laws of the UE concering such a matter.

2006-09-04 10:52:56 · 4 answers · asked by tarikology 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my gf like soo much wayy soo much, and i wanna make out with her in the nude, not sex, just me and her nude making out on her couch, but i dont wanna push her into and i'm too scared to ask...how do i do it? how do i know if she's ready?

2006-09-04 10:51:10 · 24 answers · asked by bob b 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for a month, been together for 5 1/2 years and have a 7 month old son. We're both in college and busy but he never wants to take me out. I haven't been on a date in months. It just seems like I'm just his best friend. The sex life is great, he'll be romantic in the bedroom but thats it. I've told him it'd be nice if we could go out but whenever we get a free night (babysitter for the baby and all) he makes plans without me. I hate to nag, which I'm always afraid of doing but i don't know what to do anymore? The other night I offered to take him out and he scheduled himself to work when he wasn't before, which he said was an accident, i understand but he could have least tried to make up for it? Help!?

2006-09-04 10:50:12 · 8 answers · asked by Gone2PickApples 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how would you know if you were in this situation? the things they say to you, the way they talk to you, how would you know?

2006-09-04 10:49:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships