i mean i just hang out with him 24/7 and he never talks to them anyways...so when he does is it unfair to tell him i think he shouldnt!???
2006-09-04 10:17:12 · 13 answers · asked by Cool Chick 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I don't think it's fair, and I also think the two of you need some space. Spending that much time with someone is very unhealthy. I'm going to guess you are under the age of 21 (and that is pushing it). Get out, hang out with your friends, let him go out with his buddies, or you two will drive yourself crazy.
2006-09-04 10:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Totally unfair. Just because he's your boy friend, doesnt mean he should have to isolate him self from every other female besides his family. Its selfish of you to demand that of him, and conversely selfish of him to do the same of you (if he does). The only way that would work would be if its a mutual agreement, and even then I doubt it'll work out for the best. It'll create unnecesasary tension, and it sounds to me like you might be just a tad insecure if you don't want him around other girls, wheter you're insecure about yourself, or your trust in him I'm not sure. You need to just back up a little bit. Heres what you can do. Tell him you don't want him hanging out alone with other girls, that either his friends have to be there, or you do. Thats more reasonable. Best of luck.
2006-09-04 17:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by theonewhoguides 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he don't talk to girls it's probably because he doesn't get a chance with you there 24/7. He probably feels smoothered already. I don't feel this is the way a relationship should start out. I hate it when my boyfriend don't give me any free time on my own. I need to find out who I am. I need to be able to feel that who I am with; it is the person I want to be with. You need to think about this. Give this guy some space first. I doubt that he will suggest you dating just him if he is already being smoothered by you.
2006-09-04 17:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Motives is what you are worried about not girls. What are his motives and what is the girls motives for hanging out, I hang out with guys all the time until they get a girlfriend then they are usually never allowed to hang out with me, and I am not nor have ever been attracted to them or them to me, I am a tomboy, no hair on my head and I don't do the frilly girl thing, yet girls are still so insecure, so don't be insecure, perhaps he's learning alot from this girl and it will benefit your relationship, maybe he is more comfortable with certain people, if he was bi-sexual what would you do then? forbid him to speak to another person, just ask him to be understanding that it makes you feel a little akward and if he cares then he will communicate to you all the steps he's taking and his motives, always ask him to put himself in your position, "how would he feel if you were hanging out with guys" get him to understand your concerns, get him there and all will be much better, but let him hang out with girls it is good for your relationship,
2006-09-04 17:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do everything right and you know that he likes you and only you, you should not have to worry about any other females that he talks to...
Guys don't like when their girlfriends try to choose their friends...
So chill and trust him...And if he starts really talking to another female, he wasn't the one for you.
2006-09-04 17:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by shycat99 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well he has the right 2 make friends with whomever he wants so, yes it is unfair.
2006-09-04 17:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by redsox10077 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard question for me to answer, My fiance still talks to his ex girlfriend I'm not sure if it's because he still harbours feelings for her, But he knows it bothers me and doesnt seem to care
2006-09-04 17:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by Tracy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A boyfriend should have friends that are girls. A girlfriend should have friends that are boys.
Jealousy and insecurity can ruin a relationship.
2006-09-04 17:56:45 · answer #8 · answered by Fingers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a control issue....you want control.
been there myself....it will consume you if you don't control the control issue ...NOW.
if you love him and trust him and he feels the same let him be, he wants only you then.
now the question for you......do you talk to men?
yes you do.
now reverse the question you asked and apply yourself as apposed to him.
got the answer?
good luck, and slack the chain around his neck alittle.
2006-09-04 17:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by transvainia 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think it is very unfair cause i mean u can't always b with u !
2006-09-04 17:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by Sammie <3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋