After recovering from several messy relationships, I finally found a great boyfriend. We have been going out for 9 months, but there are times that I am still unhappy, as great as he is.
Is it wrong of me to ask my boyfriend NOT to go with the flow? I know what I want in a guy very clearly, and he fits that description, but this is his first relationship and he said he just wants to go with the flow. I, on the other hand, don't want to be "just another girl" in his life. I at least want to know if he sees our relationship as something extremely special, and not just an experiment.
I have talked to him about this, but he doesn't seem to understand. He becomes sad and confused and somewhat angry. Am I asking too much of him? Am I being too serious? I think I'm really falling for him, which I promised myself not to. I don't want to wind up hurting him, nor hurt myself.
2006-09-04
10:07:49
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calamityjanedoe
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