Im a very nice guy. Very smart and a swimmer who holds varsity records in my school. Im pretty shy though. What i dont get is why are girls into the hunks like the football players. The girls always complain how their boyfriends are all depressed when they lose a football game and take it out on them. Yet they still are more attracted to them. Also, where I work (the waterpark) the girls are into these two dumbass obnoxious stupid guys. I just dont get it. One of the obnoxious guys got a hold of this one girl yesterday and was holding her down on the ground. It was obvious that she was getting hurt, but he kept laughing. Then today she had marks on her arms but she was still talking to him. I just dont get it. Im nice, smart, and very sincere. Why are girls not into me?
2006-09-04 10:08:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well especially in high school its ALL about social status. if your dating a jock especially football players, people look at you a lot differently. you aren't getting a lot of girls probably due to the fact that you are shy. a lot of girls like guys who are outgoing, fun to talk to, and are just out there in life. try to get to know more people, therefore you have more connections to other girls. but you sound like the perfect guy. smart, and athletic. i would go out with you. (: your perfect girl will come, but until than, you just need to overcome your shyness. but congrads on your swimming varsity records. thats an amazing defeat there. so best of luck on getting a girlfriend, cause there are so many girls who would be lucky to have you. <33
2006-09-04 10:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what did you do when you saw him doing that to her? i know I would do something about it because that is an unhealthy situation for the girl..she could end up dead if nothing is not done..some people are just insane like that..I go for the smart guys, if you are not a dim wit then we can hang and maybe eventually date..I also think that our society has changed, people are very superficial, it's really sad..we have become more about the physical aspect of the person instead of the beauty inside..it's annoying.
2006-09-04 17:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by Tellulah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem like a pretty nice guy and you being a swimmer is a definate plus... i have absolutely no idea. but those girls at the pool aren't very smart so i wouldnt sweat them. but maybe you should open up more, and not be so shy. girls like guys with confidence,and im sure you have confidence, you should just show it more. hopefully that'll help
2006-09-04 17:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by jesuspeacekid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont like football players or popular guys at all. even if most girls do i like guys who are really nice and cute! cuz USUALLY popular guys are the ones who cheat & lie a lot (because they are able to get a lot of girls). but i'm only 13 . go figure.
2006-09-04 17:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by miss.melissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls at your age (high school), are more worried about what there friends will think if they date outside the realm. They are still oblivious to what they want in life, even though they think they are. Maybe there is a girl that is into you...but she's just as shy as you.
2006-09-04 17:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Ma'am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ermmmmmm first of all i think girls that go for hunks and only like hunks should change. I dont mind any guys as long as they respect me. If they are hunk or not thats just a bonus for me.
Girls tend to like hunks because they are fit
2006-09-04 17:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by HKJ_zizou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause some girls don't get it they think bigger guys r better and everything but i mean u do sound sweet and every one has some one u just have to wait but some one likes u and i am sure more than one person does so dnt worry about it =]
2006-09-04 17:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sammie <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well U sound awsome to me... i Like guys who r sporty out flat...i dont like many football players ...some of my guyfriends r football players but i dont like them or anything ...me n them r just cool.. I Think its stupid that most girls like Fottball Players and Most guys liike sluts...Its just really dumb...but like that other girl im only 13 so who knows ill figer it out someday...no tellin...well theres my answer..my sucky answer lol
2006-09-04 17:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all ilove football its like my life and i'm usually the one to cry when my school looses a game, and the football players i talk to are not dumb they pretty much fit the same desription as u so don't stereotype
2006-09-04 17:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by alyssa a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea. Probably the same reason why guys are into slutty bitchy whores rather than nice girls like me.
2006-09-04 17:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by angel_girl2248 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋