but i had a boy friend but i broke up with him and now the male that been wanting to get with me for a while has a girlfriend while i'm single. But the thing about it everybody know on the street he want to get with me but both of us is scared to approache each other. he's with his gurl but at the same time he had sex wit me 2 sundays in a row kissed an everything and he told me a couple of days ago he always wanted me and he always will want me. But i need to know why he's with this white gurl knowing he wanting to be with me and how can i get him from her to take what rightfully mine and his. becuase he already gets upset when his boys try to talk to me he curse them out and get affended and will tell them he will fight them for messing with me but he got a girl. What should i do?
2006-09-04 10:14:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he truly loves you he needs to be with you and only you. you give him an ultimatium. if he wants to sleep with you and be with you, it needs to be exclusive. he needs to break up with his gf. if he doesn't do it move on. he's not worth it.
personally though, I would leave him anyway. if he's cheating on his gf now, if you become his gf, how do you know he won't do the same to you? I'd always have that nagging in my brain while we are having sex. how many other girls is he telling he wants.
2006-09-04 10:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 21:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old love triangle huh? Well i dont have a perfect answer. No one does. The only source for a possible solution are daytime soaps. Check them out, maybe you can scheme ur way to possesion.
2006-09-04 10:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...if he's having sex with you and all while he's already with someone...then that kinda says that he's unfaithful...and also...if he wanted you so bad and all like he and you say and all, then he would've already left her....sounds to me that either he's keeping you on the shelf....or that he wants to have his cake and eat it too....re-evaluate the situation here and ask yourself, "is this a situation where I wanna be in? Can I even trust him once I have him?" If he's creeping with you and all on his girl....chances are he's gonna creep on you with another female.....Be careful...but I think you should confront him and tell him to make his mind up...don't settle for being the "other girl"
2006-09-04 10:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by ii_battle_override_ii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you gotsta fight for whats yours!if he really likes you he shouldve been broke up wit dat chik nd ya should be togetha officially but i have no idea wats takin him mad long.if he dont do anything then you gosta do sumthin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-04 10:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by Syko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to be wit you or not.
2006-09-04 10:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by kimmi_10_53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotsta keep it real, girl!!
you gots a fcuking gun or what?!
2006-09-04 10:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋