Family & Relationships - 4 September 2006

I have been getting calls at all hours of the day & night. I am afraid it's my ex trying to find me.

2006-09-04 12:22:18 · 16 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Marriage & Divorce

hey am not saying for everything, but don't you think they should pay most of the time when dating? my b.f. is always too slow, i feel like he is waiting for me to pay. i would not want him to pay for everything all the time but i think i end up paying more often than him.

2006-09-04 12:22:08 · 10 answers · asked by blue turtle 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

do u think if u meet someone online and go out with them it will last

2006-09-04 12:21:34 · 28 answers · asked by glasgow_angel1167 1 in Singles & Dating

At a recent dinner program that I sponsored, the Speaker and I were working at the computer to load the slide deck. He gently said to me, "Not the porn, that's for you and me to watch tonight." He and I have been flirting off and on for months now, so go figure. What was that all about? What exactly did he mean by that? How was I supposed to answer?

2006-09-04 12:21:21 · 14 answers · asked by Confused_Rep 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 26/m, have a good job, own my own house, have 2 cars, live comfortably, etc.

2006-09-04 12:21:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my r-ship is nice with my man (only been about 2 months) but i dont wanna overdo anything and scare him off...so how can i remain CALM in a r-ship thats so exciting? how much is too much phone callin, textin etc..? and how can i remain frsh in his mind?? thanks guys!

2006-09-04 12:19:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cheated on my ex thats why we brokeup.And now he is crawling back to my friend his ex and telling her lies like oh Stephanie doesn't like u,etc.I never loved Steph and I only daited her b/c of her b-day. Is he trying to get back at me and does that mean he still likes me? We brokeup 1month ago.Would u try to get back at me if u were my ex?

2006-09-04 12:19:15 · 15 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

i insulted my bfs half-sis, i said things as like she is a whore. my bf is always understanding to me. but that was tooooo much.. he said *** YOU to me.then the apologize and add that he isnt sorry.. he dont want me to call him again, (im white)and he said he will stick wit his blak queens.he hurt and insult me.
i love him. its ME that cause him to got angry...
HOW HOW can i hv him bak?
PLEASE HELP,he is my all.
give me all kind knowleged that can help to get a man bak!!

2006-09-04 12:18:38 · 4 answers · asked by she-ra 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-04 12:18:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I went on a great date with this guy. I was so smitten by the end of date and he seemed to really enjoy it too. However, I haven't gotten any phone calls from him. It's been almost a week! I have tried calling him, but it seems like he didn't pay his cell phone bill or used up all his minutes because the answer i get back is "this phone does not accept incoming calls." I tried to call from a payphone to make sure he wasn't just blocking me, but I got the same answer. What do I do? I need an answer why he hasn't called me or tried to call me. I need closure to this relationship if he really doesn't like me. I know where he lives so should I just stop by?

2006-09-04 12:18:21 · 4 answers · asked by whodroppedthepotato 2 in Singles & Dating

being a decent mom and doing all the good things a wife/mom/homemaker does to raise her kids good and proper, educated and well mannered....what should her annual salary be? Should the government support this type of initiative and what do you think would be a good payout from government to women who opted to stay home?

2006-09-04 12:17:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-04 12:17:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this girl who I have a lot of respect for and like very much. She is younger than me, and still in college. She has a boyfriend, although I have known her longer. I have made it known that I like her. We haven't really talked that much since I told her this, just emails about plain stuff. She is really insecure about relationships, and fears a break up with her boyfriend. She has even expressed to me that she hopes that this relationship is the last time. This disturbs me on a level I have yet to be disturbed on. I will never understand how a person who is 21 would even consider this with there whole life ahead of them. I have always thought that I would give her an alternative to this premature commitment, so I have remained her friend regardless. I am not the type to sit back and be aquaintenced though, and I am considering confronting her about what she hopes for the future. I would rather lose her outright, than sit back and watch this happen. What should I do.

2006-09-04 12:16:47 · 11 answers · asked by 15fsg546rge1rrheljh45hjr90459ty3 3 in Singles & Dating

i am the primary custodian and have had numerous problems with my ex and harrassment, mainly because he just simply will not contact his lawyer if he has quesitons instead of showing up at my house or calling my phone repeatedly, i think he thinks i will just give in to his annoyance. but its quite simple that i will not allow my daughter to go with him if it is not his visitation period.
so i am looking for some links relating to what he must provide as the non custodial parent. im looking in particular to the fact that he has moved and not yet supplied me with any info on where my daughter is going to reside. do i have to let her go without knowing where she will be? i have an appt with my attorney on thurs, but looking for something to read in advance. or if anyone feels likes chatting and knows some about this subject feel free to IM.

2006-09-04 12:15:36 · 5 answers · asked by collaredfairy0304 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This family member just came to America from Vietnam. she was really nice and able to cope with anybody around. But now she knows that she is permanantly staying in America, her attitude towards me and my family is just pathetic, she refuses to do what she is suppose to do. Each time when me and the family goes some where in the same car, she never sets next to my mother as if she despises her for some unknown reason. She would wait for someone to enter the car before she does so she doesnt have to sit next to my mom. I find that hurtful because thats insulting to my mother. I've noticed that when my mother asks her to clean the kitchen or wash the dishes, she would do the job but in a nasty manner as if she hated to do so. This new family member is an insult to my father's bloodline because she doesnt have the knowledge that my relatives expect of her such as to master the piano or to speak english fluently. I'll just lay it flat and tell you all that she is a lazy-no-good gold-digger

2006-09-04 12:15:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-04 12:14:33 · 9 answers · asked by Diamond 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-04 12:14:02 · 41 answers · asked by patrycja p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Most of us are superficial and we will deny the fact that we are superficial. We will want a person with a great attitude. But do we? We always turn our heads and approach the hot woman or man. Prove me wrong.

2006-09-04 12:13:58 · 15 answers · asked by Go For Broke 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 years old and have been married for 3 1/2 years to my husband. My marriage has been pretty rock for the last few months. We have taken on alot of obligations in the little time we have known each other. I guess my question is has anyone used marriage counseling and how does it work? I am leary of it because we will have a big fight and after the dust settles everything is great for a few days. I don't want ot get my hopes and think marriage counseling will work. I have reasearched it on the web and alot of people say they are worse off after the counseling.
Please tell me your experiences and how they structure it. Thanks

2006-09-04 12:13:34 · 8 answers · asked by CiCI 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughters boyfriend tells her not to wear clothes he doesn't like and to thow them away, he insists she texts him every thirty minutes and makes her tell him where she has been and who she has spoken to. She bumped into him the other week and he manhandled her to the floor and pinned her down. He knows I do not like his behaviour and tells her he doesn't like me and my family as we interfere. I have been through abusive relationships myself and have tried talking to her but she says she really loves him. Any ideas?

2006-09-04 12:13:25 · 22 answers · asked by geordie_babe2006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im going to a new school for highschool and i know nobody but most of the people going there are students who know eachothe aready and i want to meet new friends.
a. should i meet friends at the cafeteria and ask them if i can sit with them?
b. meet someone who is also new?
c. make friends in class?
d. go with the flow and dont try to talk to anybody?

please answer. thanks soo muchh!!!

2006-09-04 12:13:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

y does my boyfriend always want to c me w/out makeup i think i look better with it and he says that i look good with or with out

2006-09-04 12:12:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've known each other for 12 years. Off and on friends. Started back dating 2yrs ago. He talked about marriage before now confused about us. we have had several discussions about this. When I told him that I needed to see him he wanted to know why? I told him I just wanted to see him, his response was that we could see each other the next day, afterwards he suggested to post pone it a day later. I felt like he wanted to spend as less time with me as possible. So, I wrote a cordial note and left voice mail saying that I decided to not come, without explaining why. (because I was ticked off)

This visit was an effort to either try one last time to work things out or say an official goodbye because we have known each other for so long. He wasn't aware of my purpose of coming.

2006-09-04 12:11:29 · 5 answers · asked by * 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a 45 year old woman thats lives in america and he is a 23 year old muslin that lives in jordan...we met on the internet and are very much in love..its been 3 months and he ask me to marry him...he comes frome a very good family background...all my family and friends are against it...most of all my daughter and son is older then him...remember now that i have been divorced for 20 years...and broke off 3 engagements in that time...he is much older thinking then me sometimes...and he is still a virgin......

2006-09-04 12:10:48 · 25 answers · asked by nightirene45 2 in Weddings

Why is it so many people can't spell worth spit?
I mean I am not a spelling police officer, but please, how can I read AND understand a question if there are so many spelling errors it takes me forever to correct it and figure it out.
Is the worlds schools dropping the ball that badly nowadays?

2006-09-04 12:10:31 · 21 answers · asked by eltarin_ivebeenhacked 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean if your man liked it for fantasy,roleplay or just because you like it?

2006-09-04 12:09:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they decided to name me mailbox

2006-09-04 12:09:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've started Christmas shopping early, its easier on my wallet. But I cant decide what to get my mom. I was thinking about getting her something to do with us kids, but im not sure what. any ideas?

2006-09-04 12:09:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-04 12:08:52 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating a really awesome girl for a little less than 2 weeks and things have been great. I want to get her some flowers for her apartment, but I admittedly don't know squat about flowers other than roses. Red roses might be a little much considering the short length of time we've known each other, although I know we're both into each other pretty seriously. What else can I get that isn't hideous and would spruce up her apartment as well?
She has a cat if that matters at all.

2006-09-04 12:08:31 · 13 answers · asked by servo46250 2 in Singles & Dating