We've known each other for 12 years. Off and on friends. Started back dating 2yrs ago. He talked about marriage before now confused about us. we have had several discussions about this. When I told him that I needed to see him he wanted to know why? I told him I just wanted to see him, his response was that we could see each other the next day, afterwards he suggested to post pone it a day later. I felt like he wanted to spend as less time with me as possible. So, I wrote a cordial note and left voice mail saying that I decided to not come, without explaining why. (because I was ticked off)
This visit was an effort to either try one last time to work things out or say an official goodbye because we have known each other for so long. He wasn't aware of my purpose of coming.
2006-09-04 12:11:29 · 5 answers · asked by * 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You wanted to meet without telling him why. He knew something was up and was suspicious
2006-09-04 12:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you are going through. I am 49, and the past five years were spent with a man who I considered the love of my life. We were together four years, and then he wanted out. Then for a year he would come in and go out (three times).
It is very hard to lose someone you love so much. But I think you already know that you have. Please take the time to greive this loss, no matter how much time it takes. Then put it away and find a new life.
Peace.
2006-09-04 12:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told him the reason why you wanted to talk to him. Just be up front about the whole situation.
2006-09-04 12:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not have been aware of why....but he may have suspected you were going to break up with him and he didn't want to face it.
2006-09-04 12:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why buy the cow when the milk is free?
2006-09-04 12:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋