do u think if u meet someone online and go out with them it will last
2006-09-04 12:21:34 · 28 answers · asked by glasgow_angel1167 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. I don't know from experioence but just thinking about it, there is no way it can. For a romanace, the couple need to be together. Not just for sex, but just to be with each other. You can't do that over the internet. You can only be on cam. What good is that really? Don't do it. Good luck.
2006-09-04 12:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by ?Shannan? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on a couple of things.
First, both people involved will have to be 100% honest with each other at the onset if it is to become anything real. If they don't turn out to be in person who you thought they were online (this includes looks and personality), then a barrier of broken trust will always get in the way, even if that other persons intentions were always good.
Secondly, for it to be a real relationship, the couple must progress from meeting online to meeting in person. Physical interaction (and when I say this I mean as opposed to electronic interaction) is a very important part of getting to know someone. Its how both you and they react to body language, whether you can hold a real conversation in person comfortably, and if you are actually attracted to them physically. If all that is there, then the romance stops being 'virtual' and hopefully should move towards dating outside emails/chatrooms.
Finally, commitment to a romance from both sides is essential. If they're just communicating this way because they want a no-hassle bit of fun, then that needs to be made clear. If both people are both prepared to put in the time and effort, it can really work.
After all, the internet can be a fantastic (as well as dangerous) place to meet people. The important thing is identifying who's being truthful. If you can do this, online romances can and do work.
2006-09-04 19:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the two individuals. Anything CAN work, it's "how" you make it work that counts. There is no difference than face to face because eventually, you have to come face to face. How often have we met friends over the phone...??? Same here. If you're a good person on the phone or in an email, you're a good person face to face. It's easier for someone to lie with words and no face to face contact though so we have to be very careful...Don't jump to conclusions without actually meeting someone. People are good hiding behind words...Emotions can sway in either direction. So yea, it can work. Hopefully people find the right, sincere person to share a relationship with... : )
2006-09-04 19:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by dolphinman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you meet and if there is a connection. I know some people that have married someone that they met on line...but they had to go through many duds to find a good one....I guess it's the same with meeting someone at a bar, work etc...you always take a chance.
Just be smart and safe about it and don't give out your address and personal information just in case it doesn't work out.
2006-09-04 19:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by Dina1971 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think Finding a dating site where people share the same religion guarantees a strong and ever lasting relationship, no doubt about it. That's not racism that's a fact, even if it was just for friendship it would save time talking about basic issues again and again, and if it develops to a more serious relationship it works automatically. That's the way it should be PROVIDED it doesn't raise any prejudice against other beliefs when it comes to justice and love.
2006-09-04 19:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. The internet is a great place to interact and meet people. In my personal experience I have meet very sexy women online, but once I met them in person...it wasn't the same. I have a friend who actually met a woman online and they did get married...but he isn't happy with the marriage.
Love is strange that way. You usually find love...when you are not looking for it. I met my wife-to-be at a club. It was a freak accident because I went to this club with my friend, and she was dragged to that club that night as well. We have been together for 7 years now. Ironically, my best friend met his wife-to-be that same night and they are still together. True story. : )
Hope this helps
2006-09-04 19:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After trying for years....me personally I can honestly say no. I have tried chat rooms/meeting men (after knowing them for years not five mins!) and online dating.
I do know if it was me, but I just did not seem to find the 'right' man.
My friend on the other hand who is a lesbian it has worked for her, but I have to say I find her g/f very weird!
I would love to say it is easy to go out to a club and meet someone, but it is just not that easy nowadays...and most people who want to meet someone have to now resort to online dating.....I wish them luck and you if you are thinking about trying it!
2006-09-04 19:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by Amazing Magenta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it stands a good chance of lasting. all depends how long you talked before you met and how well you got to know each other. If you feel like you fell in love with someone over the net, then who can say you didn't. This means you fell in love with the inner person,...the heart, not the physical attraction. That's why i think it would stand a chance. we all know that it is also very dangerous, so if you or one of your friends ever do this,..please be very careful.
2006-09-04 19:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by juslookin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it could work out great. There are plenty of people who have met their spouse online and have managed to have great relationships and marriages. Don't let these people on here get you down by their answers. You take a risk meeting someone whether it's in person or online.
2006-09-04 19:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think it will if u want it to, depends how much u like each other my girlfriend an me have been together about 7 months an friends 6 months before that an we love each other so much, its really great, i think the only reason people keep sasying these dont work is because theyre not in love, without that theres not enough commitment there to make it work, but it really can were proof of that i couldtn be without her it makes no difference at all that its online for now cos we both no it wont be forever
2006-09-04 19:27:10 · answer #10 · answered by purple_ronnie_always 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
umm well i met a great guy online we talked a lot and he asked me out but i said no b/c it would be very hard and u dont no if theyre flirting or cheating on u so i quess i didnt want to get hurt but we still talk adn we promised we have to meet someday in person cuz we like each other a lot but were 2 young to drive and i live in PA adn he lives in NY so its not dat far we'll have to c in a few years and try to meet :) so i think it can happen but be careful good luck :)
2006-09-04 19:46:37 · answer #11 · answered by honney bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋