Family & Relationships - 3 September 2006

been going down on her for 15 yrs now. she loves it...yet won't go down on me.

2006-09-03 17:31:03 · 12 answers · asked by lonely northern alberta guy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend hurt me, so i slept with a guy to hurt him. Childish i know, but it seemed like the thing to do. Well now, we have made up, and he did something weird. See, before, he wouldnt say he was IN love with me, even though he said he loved me alot, and before he said the timing wasnt right for kids. Well, now, suddenly, he told me that he was in love with me, deeply and wants kids right away...
Now, i want this...it just seems like strange timing to me, and i dont understand.

2006-09-03 17:29:01 · 17 answers · asked by Jez 4 in Singles & Dating

Should I answer his phone calls or call him or should I never call or answer again?
Ok there is this guy I really like, he doesnt know I still like him. But we were about to go out a couple of months back I was so exited, but then he said I was too young for him. So we decided we were going to be friends and thats that. I was very heart broken. it dint even seem like he wanted to be friends cause he never called me I always called him. But he did flirt which gave me hope sometimes. thats why I keapt calling to see but nothing happend. So it went on like this for a while then I decided I needed to stop talking to him because it was odvious he was not interested. so I did. after I told him I met someone else. Now he has been calling me and I dont pick up his phone calls. But I feel bad so what should I do?

2006-09-03 17:28:17 · 27 answers · asked by babystuff6262005 2 in Singles & Dating

We were caught out flirting a few times by my friend which pissed her off. Recently he has asked me out & I have already had to tell him no. How do I tell my friend this without it looking like I want to steal her man

2006-09-03 17:28:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I use to go out with this guy like 4 years ago..We were together for a year and broke up. He still keeps calling, wants to go on dates and tries coming over. I have told him many times that im not intrested in him and that i moved on. I have not answer his calls and avoided him he just doesn't get it. I have even tried hooking him up with other girls but he doesn't want to. He is affecting all my relationships. How can i get him to understand that i don't care for him at all?

2006-09-03 17:27:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 17:27:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-03 17:26:34 · 17 answers · asked by hushamharoun 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i kno some people mite not understand, but when ur in a quarrel with a family member (most likely ur sibling) u HATE it when they say something insulting and then go 'I CANT HEAR YOUUUUUUU' when you try to say something back. its REALLY annoying.
so if anybody has anything i cud say back to him? something witty and intelligent that wud make him regret saying that?
thnx!!

2006-09-03 17:26:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i really like this guy, as you can tell from all my other questions, but how do i sak him out(like everyone is telling me) without totally humiliating myself!!!???

2006-09-03 17:25:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it's painful and confusing.im tired but i dont i know how much of it is normal for couples or not.

2006-09-03 17:25:50 · 6 answers · asked by 296.33 1 in Singles & Dating

My man and I have been together for 12 years and have 2 small children..He cheated a few years ago both sexually and emotionally. He doesn't want to have sex with me..EVER. We hardly ever speak. I can't stand to lay in bed with him and know he doesn't want me. It hurts me so badly. I think that he is staying because of our kids.
What do I do? I feel awkward around him and he near me i think because we both know what's up and can't face it. This is tearing me up inside. I am so hurt right now. Please help me!

2006-09-03 17:25:47 · 28 answers · asked by *bossy* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont care to for music during sex I jjust love the sound of sex I rather hear that. So do you like music during sex and what type do you like to hear during sex?

2006-09-03 17:25:36 · 15 answers · asked by Martina 1 in Singles & Dating

They told my sister she can't do anything until they have a legal paper that says they need to be brought back. They also told her she could put fliers up but how???!!!We live in Texas and he took them to Celaya, Guanajuato!! They don't want to bring them back but they're American and shouldn't be over there. Were could I go online to contact Mexican newspapers to put up a missing children's ad??? What do I do??? Where could I go to locate agencies that help find missing kids?

2006-09-03 17:24:17 · 17 answers · asked by Mirage 4 in Family

2006-09-03 17:24:03 · 9 answers · asked by alyssa a 2 in Friends

i need to know this its very important

2006-09-03 17:23:57 · 18 answers · asked by nanita 1 in Singles & Dating

i asked a question about this earlier but the responses were few, so im asking again because this situation is about to drive me crazy, and i really dont talk to my friends or family about this because of the problems it could cause. ok my older. wayyy older dr that flirts with me and has shown interest in me on several occasions asked me what i was doing for the weekend and i casually told him i was going outta town, thats when he kept on mentioning how old he was and he must have mentioned how old he was like 6 or 7 times.. why do you think he kept on mentioning his age?? does it seem like he was feeling like i shot him down? thats what a lot of people are saying, even though i dont think thats the case. also i was going to call him on tuesday to let him know that i wanted to come in and talk to him, thats when i was going to let him know that i am attracted to him and basically tell him how i feel. he has always been blunt w/ me so why should i feel so shy telling him how i feel?

2006-09-03 17:23:55 · 3 answers · asked by sexy b 1 in Singles & Dating

I tried getting help from Department of human services and they are no help. They say that my husband makes to much money. he only gets 19,999 a year and it is four of us. They don't count that we have our own house and that we have bills to pay. That don't matter to them. In matter of fact when I went back up there I was told that they don't go by if you have a disabled person in the house. We have so much going wrong with this house it is unbelieveable. My mother told me that she is going to nominate my family for extreme home make over, but someone stole our camcorder and I had to replace it. I know there is no guareentee for us to be chosen because we live in detroit and detroit is not chosen for anything. But we need to get this house in order. The foundation in the basement is cracking because of the trees and the plumbing is messed up. I can't work because whenever my son is in the hospital i am going to be there for him. Last year my baby son had surgery to.

2006-09-03 17:23:39 · 9 answers · asked by sweetlee725 2 in Family

I've been in a relationship that was going great for over 5 years. Our wedding is scheduled at the end of the year, but I just feel so pressure to start a family with all the responsibilities, even though we've been lived with each other for 4 years.
But the problem is I couldn’t feel that same spark that I felt before. Worse, I fell for a married guy, we’re both having feeling to each other, but he has no intention of leaving his family for me, and I wouldn’t want him to cause it’s just not right, we’re just simply need someone to talk and to share.

Should I go ahead with the wedding even though I am no longer attracted to my fiancé, even though I am having feeling for other man, even though I am depressed because all the pressure? I can’t bear to leave him alone because I know I am all that he’s ever needed and he just can’t live without me.

2006-09-03 17:23:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She was smoking hot at a wedding I went too. I think he seen me staring at her. He has no idea what hes got. I think she looked my way a couple times. Am I dumb to think this. I only see her at family functions.

2006-09-03 17:23:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl at my school..shes a friend but we dont hang out much....it is almost her birthday and i was wondering what i should get for her...help please...thanks...

2006-09-03 17:21:57 · 24 answers · asked by Mr. idunno 2 in Singles & Dating

why guys say gals fake orgasms?? what do you mean by this.

2006-09-03 17:21:40 · 9 answers · asked by Mr. Cool !!! 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 17:21:39 · 6 answers · asked by Theresa J 3 in Singles & Dating

OK i'm sorry the question sounds really offensive :( i didn't mean for it to come out like that.

Anyway, i'm in a wierd situation here: i skipped 3 grades, so i get teased all the time in school! it started in 7th grade when i was 9 and my peers were 12. at the time, i was sensitive. so i cried at home...

now i'm 13, my peers are 16. I feel SO self-concious at school because stupid guys tease me about my age. i'm tougher now than when i was 9. but it still hurts deep down inside.

for example, here's a typical convo:

him: hey brandy!
me: hi!?
him: so did you want to go out or WHAT!!!??? ( in a really loud and sarcastic voice)
me: uh...no...*blush*

(laughter by him and his stupid friends)
i feel so alone. i have a couple of good friends who accept me.

how do i stop all the teasing without being rude?

2006-09-03 17:21:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bridesmaids are going to be wearing tea length bridesmaid dresses and i was wondering what color shoes would be good for them to world. our wedding theme is chocolate and pink. this is the dress in espresso and pink.
http://www.alfredangelo.com/index.cfm/fuseAction/COLLECTIONS.productDetail/fromAdvancedSearch/0/productID/a1c99ee0-bc6e-42f8-b90b-4c2230ad2daf/categoryID/772F03C9-DE43-4942-BFA0-DA77E21EBD65
thanks for your help!

2006-09-03 17:21:18 · 20 answers · asked by ♥ missing a soldier in Iraq ♥ 4 in Weddings

My mom was like it's my fault for putting her into debt. She's complaining about my car payment, my orthodontist bill, and she's mad at me for gettinig really sick and having to take me to the hospital. She yelled at me for having to pay the bill. is that right?

2006-09-03 17:21:17 · 10 answers · asked by Christine S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My kids father went back to his country 3 years ago and left me alone with a now 3 and 5 year old, i recently found out that he is back in the US and he calls me off and on and sends us money....anyway the question is he had finally told me that he has another kid now with THE GIRL HE HOOKED UP WITH AND BROUGHT BACK HERE WITH HIM i was torn apart by that, he was supposed to go back to his country and visit his family and come back to us,,,needless to say ive moved on since him and he keeps calling me and wanting me to help him in anyway i can to get legalized here, do you think that i am obligated to help him because i have his children or do you think i sould tell him leave us alone?? sorry if this question is confusing

2006-09-03 17:21:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 17:20:51 · 25 answers · asked by Lavender 1 in Singles & Dating

more teens can answer this question, girls get the being left out part so they might understand more, but guys can answer to. thanks. :-)

2006-09-03 17:20:47 · 11 answers · asked by a 3 in Friends

2006-09-03 17:19:35 · 22 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I sometimes get in big fights, and once I was standing in the way of the door because he was threatening to go to his moms (like he always does) and I wouldnt move, so he grabbed me with both arms ( my arms were at my sides) and threw me on the floor and i got a rug burn on my elbow and my arm was sore the next day...is it considered abuse? should I leave? i really love him, but I don't know what to do...I dont want to end up like those girls on TV that are like "he beats me, but I love him" Please help!

2006-09-03 17:19:22 · 17 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Singles & Dating