Family & Relationships - 3 September 2006

I have an 8-year-old child; no matter what i say to her she does everything the opposite
When she is grounded to her room she comes out 50 times. When I tell her to pick up a toy she ignores me. When she is told she can’t eat a certain thing she sneaks into it. When told stay in the house she goes outside. I don’t know if she has ADHD. I don’t want to medicate her. I know it’s not a sugar problem. She doesn't eat or drink much sugar except in Kool-Aid drink and bread, which I know, has sugar. She disobeys everyone not just me and disrespect everyone. My oldest (age 11) just tries to act like she is equal to adults, my fault there she was around adults more than kids till age 3. Schools have this policy about only 10 days absents so we can’t get her counseling weekly. They said excused or unexcused doesn't matter. Don’t have regular school councilors either. I have a younger child who is disabled as well. I’m going nuts. No church help or family helps either. Husband works allot.

2006-09-03 17:46:51 · 14 answers · asked by angelchele 3 in Family

2006-09-03 17:46:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i just got out of a really rough relationship... and i don't feel all that great.. i feel like everything is so wrong... i feel sick... so.. am i going to be okay? i just want to know that i'm not the only person who's ever felt like this.. cuz i know i'm not... but it's hard...

2006-09-03 17:45:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well he really likes me but he is kinda wierd.he told my brother that he wants me to talk to him more. but i dont really like him what should i do?

2006-09-03 17:44:43 · 9 answers · asked by AlExA SaNcHeZ 1 in Singles & Dating

we split because he cheated and has been living w/ his girl since 2 days after we split 4 yrs ago we have no kids together but i have 2 so am i still entitled to half

2006-09-03 17:44:06 · 19 answers · asked by goosey38 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am PATHETIC when talking to guys. how do you do it girls? what do you like girls to say to you guys? i dont want any sex related answers so sikkos plz leave

2006-09-03 17:43:14 · 14 answers · asked by teehee311 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my gf and i were talking to other night, and i was telling her how i am so glad we are at this point in our relationship were we just can't get enough of each other and want each other all the time...and she smiled...and agreed, and then i said i hope things never change and that we will always enjoy fooling around...and then she said well things eventually change over time, and then i said if ur talking about marriage...just know its all downhill from there, there is not point in marriage nothing ever works out and people are never happy. So she responded by saying how do u know..u have never experienced it, and i said that true, but from what people tell me they are miserable once they get married, so there is no point in ruining things. So then she said, after 6 years of being together and things haven't gone down hill...what makes u think it will...and so i said i dunno...thats what people say and she said since when did u start caring what people say?

2006-09-03 17:42:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend who has been quite close to me. One day i told her that i liked her childhood friend who went to school with us. She said to me that she would help me get a date with him. However, one month passed by and she did not really talk to him about me. Whenever I asked her whether she spoke to him she said that she did not get time to talk about such stuff with him cuz he was always on the rush. I kept waiting and waiting. One day she came up to me and said that she saw him with another girl at school. they were holding hands and going to the class. I first took it seriously, but later i came to know that he didn't do it. it was all made up by her. Then when I charged her of lying she said that all boys are womanizer. She also told me to forget him. After a few months i came to know that he liked me and he tried to tell this to me through her. But she never said a word to me. Now do you think this girl was actually playing with both of us?

2006-09-03 17:42:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-03 17:42:15 · 23 answers · asked by dark_angell999@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

lol ....im now pregnant and almost single(would leave my boyfriend at a drop of a dime)....im from the caribbean....hit me up....just kidding

2006-09-03 17:42:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 17:40:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now what??

2006-09-03 17:40:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iv been dating more than one guy and there all sweet,funny,cool and i like them all what should i do?

2006-09-03 17:40:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay my boyfriend is lazy i'm not sure but he cheats he stays gone for days at a time andwe have 2 kids together. but my other friend he is cool been knowing him for 11 years been messing with him for 3 years he is there and wanted to be with me but i'm scared to leave my kids daddy

2006-09-03 17:38:53 · 11 answers · asked by miss thang 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I grabbed him by the hand but he simply threw me against the wall and told me to stay out of it!! i wanted to help her because he hit her cause she wouldnt make him a sandwich!! i dont want her hurt what should i do about my brothers actions??

2006-09-03 17:38:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

_________??
fill in the blank??

2006-09-03 17:38:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Even if they live in a different state. But you have always liked them and youre finally going out with them

2006-09-03 17:38:04 · 14 answers · asked by Nana 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with a girl on the weekends. We did not go out on dates, I suggested it would be fun to hang out; we were both bored on the weekends--all my friends are married and can't hang out. I enjoyed her company; I was the guy I figured I should still pay--she also enjoyed herself, she told me she had fun. She let me pay the first time but the second time she begged to pay, so she paid. I felt like she paid more on the second time than I paid on the first time. In response I baught her a ten dollar book to pay the difference. Everything is fine, but the day after a party we went to, not together and I really didn't talk her that night, she said that "we were only friends." I felt insulted because I do not find her attractive and I didn't want anything more than friends. I wasn't mean in my response I just told her that if she were reacting to the book I baught her, I only baught it to be nice. Now she won't talk to me, I'm bored on the weekends again. How can I make it up?

2006-09-03 17:37:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met her on line five years ago but never in person. We have had are good times and are bad times (I love her like she's my sister) but the other day she told me that she knows that I want her. We argued over it and I told her to get over herself because I just want to be friends. She got mad and I have not heard from her since. Should I try to forget about her and those five good years of my life or what???

2006-09-03 17:36:44 · 16 answers · asked by James Henderson 2 in Friends

Is it okay for a married man to keep his checking account (where his paycheck is deposited) in his and his ex-wife's name for her to use when their 17 year old daughter needs something...like restaurants, groceries, electronics, clothing, gifts for friends, household items, gas, convience store items, etc? Or should he just give his ex-wife money for those things their child needs and close that checking account and open a new account with his new wife? Should his new wife feel hurt if he refuses to close that account with his ex-wife, and refuses to open a new bank account in his and the new wife's name? The husband insists this method of child support payment is the only way to do it. Every month the man looks over his ex-wife's debits and if he thinks she spent too much money it is understood that he will chastise his ex-wife for it, but that has never happened no matter how much is spent.This man is not as generous with his new wife. Should the new wife feel hurt? I need to know..

2006-09-03 17:36:38 · 28 answers · asked by Judith 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's my birthday! September 4th, woooo! Enjoy your Labor Day weekend with loving care from ME! :) And thank me for giving you this day. Haha, kidding!

2006-09-03 17:35:37 · 7 answers · asked by krazych1nky 5 in Friends

Me and my bf had always had each others password to our yahoo messenger but tonight when i came home i noticed he had been on .So i was going to get on under his name just to check things out .But he has changed his password when i asked why he was like whats the big deal.I have caught him doing wrong in the past. Should i think hes doing something wrong?Should i turst him?

2006-09-03 17:35:33 · 16 answers · asked by april_mcmillan2003 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

there were four middle schools in my city and the one i went to is closeing. Abot 1/4 of the school is goin 2 one of the middle schools. so now there are plenty of people i don't no and i want to no i find people 2 sit with at school.

2006-09-03 17:35:11 · 11 answers · asked by mr.joe 1 in Friends

how many time is good to have in order to satesify the girl

2006-09-03 17:34:48 · 15 answers · asked by nasir A 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 17:34:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 17:34:09 · 17 answers · asked by princessntraining92 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 17:33:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been told by a girl that I LOOK like someone who goes through girlfriends like one after the other... What would make someone think that by the way i look???

2006-09-03 17:33:30 · 2 answers · asked by BMD 2 in Singles & Dating

If your mother, or best friend was upset with you, would you rather have them mad or disappointed and WHY!?

2006-09-03 17:31:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so i'm pretty much in love with this guy, he said he loves me and i say it back to him, but i don't think he really understands how much i actually do care for him... :-S is there an easier way to tell him/show him how much i love him???

2006-09-03 17:31:27 · 8 answers · asked by 10.95 2 in Singles & Dating