I met her on line five years ago but never in person. We have had are good times and are bad times (I love her like she's my sister) but the other day she told me that she knows that I want her. We argued over it and I told her to get over herself because I just want to be friends. She got mad and I have not heard from her since. Should I try to forget about her and those five good years of my life or what???
2006-09-03 17:36:44 · 16 answers · asked by James Henderson 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, this sounds familiar to me, he he he, well pls. do understand girsl most of the time my dear mr,? you see, girls are oftentimes being ruled out by emotions and sumtimes or oftentimes figured out things differently from a males perspective. know waht i mean, your extra being so caring can be misinterpreted that you have strong liking towards her,.... thou u point it out clearly from the beginning that your love for her was just for a sister, then just give her enough time for her to realize the fact and she will surely come to her mind and fully realized to wher she shud stand ,..........bye and goodday!!!
2006-09-03 17:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by candee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe all this time she has been thinking that you were going to be a couple, but just didn't know how to tell you or ask you. Now that she knows for sure you just want to be friends, her feelings are hurt or she embarrassed. Maybe just give her some time to get over it and realize what good friend you two have been. You can't control what she feels or what she does. I hope everything works out for the best for you.
2006-09-03 17:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 04:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years is a lot to throw away, give her awhile, her ego is bruised, and if y'all are as close as you said you were in time you will be again. telling her to get over herself probably wasnt the best way to tell her youre not into her, but whats done is done. maybe just write her and tell her that you hate to lose a good friend because of what happened and then just give her some time to lick her wounds.......
2006-09-03 17:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by aj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who was she to just tell you that you wanted her? Do your best to patch things up with her and if she is being stubborn then you would have two choices. 1. Give her some time to cool down and try and talk to her again....2. It may be best that you try and forget her.
2006-09-03 17:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO THAT WAS YOU!!!.... just kidding.
give her some time to cool off, then drop her a line. don't mention anything about the last conversation you had. just be nice and act the way you always did, and if she still doesn't reply, sad to say but it's time to move on.
2006-09-03 17:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by katwoman_2911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds sad over the 5years of your friendship she must have formed a crush on u. try to talk it through with her in an understanding way maybe she needs time to get over the rejection but she will 5years is along time to throw away
2006-09-03 17:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by realchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that you don't want her and that you love her like a sister and if that doesn't work forget her.
2006-09-03 17:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years is along time,I think you should let her know how you really feel,she sounds hurt.
mike
2006-09-03 17:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the bigger person and try to make contact with her again. just explain things out and how you really feel so that she gets it..
2006-09-03 17:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋