i am PATHETIC when talking to guys. how do you do it girls? what do you like girls to say to you guys? i dont want any sex related answers so sikkos plz leave
2006-09-03 17:43:14 · 14 answers · asked by teehee311 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest, be yourself, relax.
2006-09-03 17:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by hott.dawg™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. It's all about communication between men and women, how they don't understand what they other sex is trying to say.
For instance--a girl and a guy are riding in a car. The girls says, " Wow, it's almost Christmas, we've been going together for 6 months now." She hopes he says something about wanting to make a committment.
The guy driving thinks,'6 months! And I haven't gotten the oil changed once since we met! The engine could blow up on me any day now!"
She sees the frown on his face and thinks" he doesn't love me!"
2006-09-04 00:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm just say stuff like you smell good or you look nice today keep it small someone will get the picture that you like them and will ask you out but keep with the small talk first then move up when you get into a steady relationship!!
2006-09-04 00:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by Shaila F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax. Worrying about it makes it 100 times worse than it is. It is easier to talk to boys that you know, find out what kind of stuff they are into and talk about that.
It is always best to just be yourself and be comfortable, never pretend to be different to get their attention, that will bite you in the butt later.
2006-09-04 00:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im a good looking guy and im here to tell you most guy are actully kind of scared to talk to good looking girls i've been scared and when your scared your pathetic. dont worry about it because guy will not talk to you if your totaly hot because they are scared of rejection so let him know your interested and all will go well! if you would like to talk more email me at tomchuckbob2005@yahoo.com
2006-09-04 01:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by tomchuckbob2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry but i'm going to be a complete asshole with this anwer
step one:inhale
step two: exhale while creating vibrations with vocal cords (perferably in some sort of order or language if you will use of tounge and mouth sometimes need for articulation, just don't spit on them)
step one and a half: think of what you're going to say (not necisary but people may look at you funny if you don't)
2006-09-04 00:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sasquatch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me its defanitly hard talking to guys. Even if you are silent just keep eye contact and dont stutter. Before you talk to him just think of topics you can bring up. Compliment them too. We all know gurls like it and so do guys. tell them you like their hat or shirt. You could even ask about school or what the HW is even if you already know it. you are a gurl and gurls are smart and tricky so BE A GURL BE SMART NAD TRICKY MAKE HIM LIKE YOU GO FOR IT TALK BE NICE BUT PLAY HARD TO GET lol good luck i hope i helped
2006-09-04 00:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by Mollie M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I'm a guy and when a girl walks up to me and says " hi, I'm so and so" and she holds out her hand for me to shake, it works just fine for me. So I gently shake her hand and say " pleased to meet you so and so, I'm blah blah blah"
The ice is broke and everything goes on from there. You don't need a script . Just be yourself
2006-09-04 01:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Justa_Honay_Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. That is what any guy who REALLY wants to get to know you will want. And that is what in the end you should want as well a guy who likes you for you.
2006-09-04 00:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by That Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm..im only 13 and im kinda shy when it comes to yalking to guys..but im getting better at it..so wat works for me is to just ask a friend to go with me to talk to a boy and if i mess up then my friend is there to make sure i dont look like an idiot!!
2006-09-06 21:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by Vampir Karmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be flirty and most importantly, be yourself. Unless you can keep up with a spiderweb of lies.
2006-09-04 00:47:12 · answer #11 · answered by Cf Precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋