Ok, what do I do now?

Question

I went out with a girl on the weekends. We did not go out on dates, I suggested it would be fun to hang out; we were both bored on the weekends--all my friends are married and can't hang out. I enjoyed her company; I was the guy I figured I should still pay--she also enjoyed herself, she told me she had fun. She let me pay the first time but the second time she begged to pay, so she paid. I felt like she paid more on the second time than I paid on the first time. In response I baught her a ten dollar book to pay the difference. Everything is fine, but the day after a party we went to, not together and I really didn't talk her that night, she said that "we were only friends." I felt insulted because I do not find her attractive and I didn't want anything more than friends. I wasn't mean in my response I just told her that if she were reacting to the book I baught her, I only baught it to be nice. Now she won't talk to me, I'm bored on the weekends again. How can I make it up?

Answer 1

Talk to her and find out what her problem is. She was probably a little insulted because she probably assumed you wanted to get in her pants and then found out it was the farthest thing for your mind.

Next, get some more friends dude. Hanging out with one person of the opposite sex all the time is sure to lead to the wrong idea!

Answer 2

So ..call her and ask her what it would take to be friends again and tell her you miss her company and let her know very nicely it is to be only a friendship.

Answer 3

Tell her that she can give the book back to you if you can be friends again. Well, just a thought.

Answer 4

Simply ask her why she hasn't been talking to you and apologize if you offended her in any way. Good luck.

Answer 5

You Silly Twitt .........***** about it !!......