If your mother, or best friend was upset with you, would you rather have them mad or disappointed and WHY!?
2006-09-03 17:31:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
id rather them be mad at me couse thats easier to get over but if there dissapointed then you no youve done something really wrong
2006-09-03 17:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by realchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh definitely mad. People get mad at each other all the time, sometimes over the most stupid things. Disappointment is totally different. When someone is disappointed in you, it's like they think less of you, your character is not what they thought. People can get mad at me, i apologize, then its over. If they said they are disappointed, well, that leaves me feeling much more empty. I would feel that I would have to earn their respect back.
2006-09-04 00:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Wikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the word mad and disapointed are both similar emotions and I think if My mother or best friend found out something maybe I 'd choose
Mad - reason When your mad you complain and curse and stomp your feet or end up chasing you around the house yelling or even shutting you out of there world
disapointed- Reason I think you be walking on broken glass just for a while not as bad as when your mad your motions can triger the wrong message and then she or he may not look at you but everyone will be gossiping about how bad you were
2006-09-04 00:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by Adrial M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAD because if someone is DISAPPOINTED it means you let them down some how and they will not have as much faith in you as they did before. Being angry is easy to get over as there are many reasons for a person to be mad that are unimportant. Being disappointed usually only involves important things.
2006-09-04 00:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather have them mad at me, because it is easier for them to get over it.
Knowing someone is disappointed at me means that they thought so highly of me that it would hurt me more to know I let them down. And that is worse than someone being mad.
2006-09-04 00:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather they be mad. Being mad will pass with time, everyone gets mad about something. Disapointment lingers for a very long time and so does the way they look at you. They obviously had expectations and now they feel differently.
2006-09-04 00:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by Skitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather have them mad. I get very guilty so when I make someone disappointed I just want to kill myself
2006-09-04 00:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by luke14parker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather have someone mad at me. I find it's easier to get over being angry but disappointment is another level especially if it's your parents.
2006-09-04 00:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by YoungNWise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer them to be ''mad'' at me rather than ''dissapointed'' because being mad with someone is obviously a feeling of anger over something you have done, dissapointment is you knowing you shouldnt have done something and now you need to deal with the consequences.
2006-09-04 00:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mad cause they can get over that faster it seems.When there disappointed,they tend to mope a lot more which make you feel bad longer.
2006-09-04 00:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you did wrong. They could be mad at you because you disappointed them.
2006-09-04 00:34:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋