okay my boyfriend is lazy i'm not sure but he cheats he stays gone for days at a time andwe have 2 kids together. but my other friend he is cool been knowing him for 11 years been messing with him for 3 years he is there and wanted to be with me but i'm scared to leave my kids daddy
2006-09-03 17:38:53 · 11 answers · asked by miss thang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Isn't it hard to point the finger of blame when your wrong yourself? Whatever you do think of the kids first.
2006-09-03 17:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lazy and he stays gone for days. You didn't say he was violent. What's the problem? Will you get child support? Probably not. Will the cool guy support the kids? You've got some soul searching to do. Grow up and do what's best for the children.
2006-09-03 17:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been having an affair for 3 years with your friend? I think if I read this correctly you have already made your decision. Remember that everything you and their father do your kids will be programmed to do as adults. For your baby's sake leave and seek support from your friends ane family. Not financial support just support to make some tought decisions. Seek your happiness while thinking of your children first.
2006-09-03 17:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by Giselle G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is lazy and you have a lot of ambitions you do need to go. Play it smart don't just jump up and leave you need to plan but do that quickly. Find you somewhere to go first and on the day that you plan on leaving have some one keep the kids while you get your stuff. one more thing if you are not happy there with him your kids will know and they wont be happy ether.
2006-09-03 17:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by James Henderson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl- you are just attatched to him. I know you wanna stay to keep to gether the family, and you probably hope he will change, but he wont. change is scary, but u been with guy number 2 for a while, so
dont be afraid to leave. wait untill the next fight, then just tell him its over. call a friend, or your mom- or someone to get you- (not the other guy) and just bounce. once you get settled let him know what the deal is- that you have moved on, and it is really over. have someone go with you to get your stuff or have someone get it for you, wait a week or two then let him start seeing the kids after he's calmed down.
2006-09-03 17:49:01 · answer #5 · answered by Empress - 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom left when her ex was at work. If he left for couple of days than that is the perfect time to leave. If you are in abusive situation than find a place that will protect you like counsil of abusive situation.
2006-09-03 17:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by hopelane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never mentioned why you worded your question the way you did ...leave safely ?? Does he hurt you ..I mean other than the cheating and it soundslike youhave been cheating too..um ya for three years right?? Pack your stuff and leave..if you think he will harm you call the cops.
2006-09-03 17:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn grlfriend you gotta do what u gotta do if u think hes cheating ditch him u mustnot love him if your cheating too people that are meant to be together dont do that!!!
it will be hard but if it has to be done then do it alreadyand get it over with before the situation gets messier
2006-09-03 17:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by realchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might touch a criminal expert and your loved ones. kin might properly be a huge help throughout divorces. additionally your daughter is going to wish a help gadget. make certain you get coverage so the two one in all you will get counseling. regardless of in case you do not have funds you could call the state and get financial help there.
2016-11-06 09:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just as bad as that sorryass guy of yours! Dump him...the sooner the better. And, maybe try to find yourself a better trailerhouse!
2006-09-03 17:42:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋