I have this friend who has been quite close to me. One day i told her that i liked her childhood friend who went to school with us. She said to me that she would help me get a date with him. However, one month passed by and she did not really talk to him about me. Whenever I asked her whether she spoke to him she said that she did not get time to talk about such stuff with him cuz he was always on the rush. I kept waiting and waiting. One day she came up to me and said that she saw him with another girl at school. they were holding hands and going to the class. I first took it seriously, but later i came to know that he didn't do it. it was all made up by her. Then when I charged her of lying she said that all boys are womanizer. She also told me to forget him. After a few months i came to know that he liked me and he tried to tell this to me through her. But she never said a word to me. Now do you think this girl was actually playing with both of us?
2006-09-03 17:42:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she cant be ur best friend! i think she was jealous of u or else she liked dat boy i think! or else she had grudge on u !!!!!!!
2006-09-03 18:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. She is NOT your friend.
2. She most likely liked him herself
3. If you like someone, tell them. Don't use a third party. You can only be rejected once and believe me, you'll get over it. Guys like girls with confidence so if you keep it light and no pressure you could probably get any guy you want without the help of "friends"!
2006-09-04 00:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answer this to yourself.....if a friend someone who lies about your crush only to find out that your crush has a crush on you? You already accused her of lying(which I don't really think she can cover up that one) now ask her why she never told you that he liked you back. If she denies that fact that he told her he liked you, then what kind of friend is she?
2006-09-04 00:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that she liked him too and that she doesnt care about your feeling because of that Me and my friend like the same guy but we are always honest with each other. Anyway you should go out with guy and dump her as a friend.
2006-09-04 00:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she has been a very good "best friend" at all. She sounds jealous and mean, for lack of better words. I think you should find yourself a new best friend and move in to bigger and better things! Good luck :)
2006-09-04 00:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by XxbrooklynnxX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ofcourse i think coz luk if shes ur bestfrend n close to u....then she shud surely help u know? Bt then wot she does not want ur relation to take place i think tht she must ve like tht booy onnly tht u liked....I think u shud avoid her at all....simply ignore her coz u know tht wot shes done wid u? she was playing not only wid u wid ur feelings as well as tht boy n his feelings..... i think u shudnt talk very much to her !
2006-09-04 07:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by Neha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely head games---trying to manipulate the cicumstances. Ignore that whole thing, if she is truly your friend---
and don't ever let her be your "go-between" again!
2006-09-04 01:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of what I've heard this girl is Not a good friend and is honest with no'one confront her and tell her that if she's your true friend she'll be honest with you and not come up with some lame excuse.
2006-09-04 00:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u need to first get urself in talking terms with the guy n then resolve the matter.
2006-09-04 05:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by bianca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya.u shud hav gone 2 dat guy n directly talked 2 him.
2006-09-04 01:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by crazygal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋