i just got out of a really rough relationship... and i don't feel all that great.. i feel like everything is so wrong... i feel sick... so.. am i going to be okay? i just want to know that i'm not the only person who's ever felt like this.. cuz i know i'm not... but it's hard...
2006-09-03 17:45:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-03 17:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we have all felt that way at one point or another in our life. It's never easy getting out of a relationship. The pain will go away as time passes. I felt the same too. Around April, my ex found out from one of my drunk friends that I had two DUIS and we were in love with each other. After he found out this info frm my friend he never spoke to me again and left me haging on the boulevard of broken dreams again. He now has another girl for sometime now. Life goes on. everything happens for a reason though. Chin up and be headstrong. Make sure you keep yourself busy a lot. Go out as much as possible. You can read self help books too. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-04 00:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I was dumped after 4 yrs. Felt like I was going to die and wanted to at times. Was off work for a month and pretty much didn't leave my house. There's love, good love, and great love. Love , you can get over in a few months. Good love, maybe a year or two, but great love..? With great love, your life has changed and will never be the same. From that moment on you continue your life searching for the second best person to love. But yes. it will be ok. Took me two years, but I'm finally ok.
2006-09-04 00:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by Wikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard. I won't say it is easy 'cause is not. However is not impossible. It's ok to feel this way but all in time will pass. It sounds cliché but you'll see. Things happen for a reason and although you may not see it now, you will realize it in the near future.
Let it all out and keep on going. As long as you don't stay down and dwell on the past you can feel sad and bad just for now. But remember to look to the future and smile 'cause something else is out there for you.
Best wishes
2006-09-04 00:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by LoveD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there!
yes you will be o.k, you must be strong within yourself, a personal development course would be excellent at this time.
when i found myself in this predicament i went & found some volunteer work to do and a part time job helps too. try to be independant, money is power, when you can do what you want when you need you will be happier!
but the most important things i did for myself was have computerised allergy testing.
i was allergic to yeast and had to have olive leaf extract to destroy the fungus that the yeast in bread & beer had created. this made me feel like life was worth living again!
i took st johns wort for 6 weeks to ease my trauma & depression, this was great, the depression just seemed to float away!
i took evening primrose oil with fish oil also (double the dose) all this took away my sadness & helped me feel good again.
coconut milk & blackcurrants are feel great foods too.
i want to wish you all the best, remember that you are O.K.
keep positive thoughts happening always!
luv from luvblis
2006-09-04 02:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by luvblis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its common to feel that way. its amzing what the human mind can do. its proven that the mental/emotional state will effect your physical state.
so if your emotionaly not happy, well im sure you'll feel a few side effects on your body.
you are just unsure what is going to happen. just relax, in due time it will pass.
just keep your mind off the relationship and move on. like go out with your friends, trash things that remind you of him.
just think about it this way (i used this advice already)
you now have a chance to find a better looking guy with a better personality WHO WILL TREAT YOU GREAT !
:) what your feeling is normal. just needs time to get over it.
best of luck
2006-09-04 00:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by artist.returned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is really hard, i too have just seperated, but i have a child, im also 18 so probably on the same page, time heals all wounds, maybe try finding your favourite thing to do and just focus all your energy on other things. Sitting alone doing nothing is worse because it allows your mind to go into overdrive thinking all sorts of things and it just dosnt help, get your gf's and go have some fun!
2006-09-04 00:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look here kb i was involved in a bad relationship too me and my babys moma are not togehter anymore because somone crashed my car, lost my house in a flood, and to top it off i lost my best friend in the flood my dog spike. It was hard for me really bad none of the things i mention were my fault but guess what im alright i know thiers other people with much harsher stuff but if i got over it you will.Oh and to top it off i owe child suport and i cant get any government help she can cuz she has custody of our son. I am curently living with my parents saving for a new house im close to geting one and i got my new car. The insurance companies are worthless.
2006-09-04 00:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by the_cheap_rolex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't really substitute as doctors and we can't tell you if you are or aren't going to be ok. People get over hard relationships but in their own time. All I am saying is, you are going to get better but it will just take some time.
2006-09-04 00:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right, i feel the same way too. I just loose a 6 year long relationship. At first, i thought its all ready the end of the world, but its not... just like me, you have to move on.... I'm sure you're going to all right... Bet ya!!!!!!!
2006-09-04 00:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by Julius L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there... lost about 20lbs because I couldn't eat... couldn't function at work.. cried.. cried... cried... But you know what? I'm married now and have two beautiful kids and can't even understand why I thought that jerk was so important. It will get better. It will get SO much better. Just give it time.
2006-09-04 00:49:00 · answer #11 · answered by That Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋