Family & Relationships - 3 September 2006

So me and this guy were together for 9 months, we broke up because I got really mad (and I should have handled it different...) but anyway... now I realize I was wrong. It was in June when we finally ended it. I really do love him, and I want to try it again, we talk some, but it's not like we're close anymore. (which to me is understandable). When he's hanging out with his friend, his friend constantly texts me and says stuff about him, not anything huge, just stuff like, "Hey, me and "bob" just went to see a movie." or ""bob" so quiet at school now." and stuff like that... I feel like "Bob" may be putting his friend up to it to see what I'm up to, but I don't know.
I guess my question is this... How can I try to get him back without TOTALLY embarrassing myself if he doesn't feel the same way as he used to.

2006-09-03 17:08:24 · 11 answers · asked by Freak M 1 in Singles & Dating

She don't want me out of her life. And she don't want me totally in her life. She loves me. We are close physically. We are very compatible. She don't know if she can commit because of her past with men. How do I give her space. Is it worth the fight? I love her and want to be everything to her. We stay together at her house for a week to two weeks, then she needs space. She is not with anyone else. I know.

2006-09-03 17:08:22 · 5 answers · asked by halfwound 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I get alot of feelings that he is cheating on me, I have no proof, but I feel like I just know, but at the same time I'm a jealous girl.
Could I be right, or am I probaly just to jealous?

2006-09-03 17:07:30 · 31 answers · asked by holly l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

be honest.

2006-09-03 17:07:20 · 14 answers · asked by tenstrike 2 in Family

serious answers only please

2006-09-03 17:07:03 · 9 answers · asked by Nat 3 in Singles & Dating

within 50 miles of portland in.

2006-09-03 17:06:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She don't want me out of her life. And she don't want me totally in her life. She loves me. We are close physically. We are very compatible. She don't know if she can commit because of her past with men. How do I give her space. Is it worth the fight? I love her and want to be everything to her. We stay together at her house for a week to two weeks, then she needs space. She is not with anyone else. I know.

2006-09-03 17:06:38 · 3 answers · asked by halfwound 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not generalizing, so shhh.

I kinda exaggerated the title.

Anyway, there's thse people who say that love takes time, bablahblah...pure and blind and cuddly and fdsfds. Most of the time, they're the same people who gets into a relationship, breaks up after 5 months because of some lame reason (Like, we're not meant to be...bah, they just like other people.) then gets into another one after a month. No, scratch that...two weeks.

Pillow huggers.

2006-09-03 17:06:01 · 9 answers · asked by Quack Man 1 in Singles & Dating

...again?

2006-09-03 17:06:01 · 24 answers · asked by avi 1 in Singles & Dating

I'll be talking with her... I'll say I don't know if I can go out with her friends... or I'm unsure of her plans and she takes it as me being skiddish of hanging out with her friends or accepting of when she makes plans. Then she'll get upset, not talk really, get quiet, and tear up and I'm so confused on what I did because, in my mind, all I said was I'm not sure if I can make it - or I'll have to see what my schedule is like.

It's confused as me not liking her friends or something... and I'm more extroverted than introverted, so I'm kind of lost by what she says... she seriously reads into what I say

2006-09-03 17:05:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i make my b.f be happy with me....yeah

2006-09-03 17:05:48 · 1 answers · asked by TriNa 1 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy... i kind of just met him but i like him a lot.i've been to a couple parties that he was also at and i want to attract his attention...in a good way (without making a fool of myself!)...any tips?

2006-09-03 17:05:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting a ring for my girlfriend and need to find out her ring size. Its a surprise so how do I do it without letting her know that I'm trying to find out her ring size?

note1: She doesn't usually wear rings, so I can't find one for reference..

note2: Yeps.. its for a proposal...

Thanks!

2006-09-03 17:03:56 · 38 answers · asked by Automaton 1 in Weddings

My girlfriend and I are both 20 years old and we've been dating since our mid grade 12 year of highschool and its come about 2½ years now and we just went to one of her best friends wedding from high school... and it got me to thinking, i love her and she loves me but she lives in lethbridge going to the university and i work in calgary where we were both born and raised. I just don't knwo what to do or how to do it... so any advice or anything would be helpfull... thank you

2006-09-03 17:03:39 · 12 answers · asked by cflames_fan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK i'm sorry the question sounds really offensive :( i didn't mean for it to come out like that.

Anyway, i'm in a wierd situation here: i skipped 3 grades, so i get teased all the time in school! it started in 7th grade when i was 9 and my peers were 12. at the time, i was sensitive. so i cried at home...

now i'm 13, my peers are 16. I feel SO self-concious at school because stupid guys tease me about my age. i'm tougher now than when i was 9. but it still hurts deep down inside.

for example, here's a typical convo:

him: hey brandy!
me: hi!?
him: so did you want to go out or WHAT!!!??? ( in a really loud and sarcastic voice)
me: uh...no...*blush*

(laughter by him and his stupid friends)
i feel so alone. i have a couple of good friends who accept me.

how do i stop all the teasing without being rude?

2006-09-03 17:03:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok...i'm with this girl who says we might go farther...as in date....but she says there are some things missing in our relationship...and she says that one reason is just because we haven't hung out enough yet...but idk what to think...what can i do to make her sure???

2006-09-03 17:03:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 17:03:02 · 12 answers · asked by kate 1 in Singles & Dating

Would anyone get hurt physically if you ever told?
Isn't it hart to keep the secret?
How long have you been keeping it?
Maybe you can tell a priest.....

2006-09-03 17:02:58 · 7 answers · asked by mom of a boy and girl 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-03 17:02:25 · 10 answers · asked by mollysxs 1 in Family

2006-09-03 17:02:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 17:01:44 · 11 answers · asked by Ally 1 in Singles & Dating

i need serios help asap!!!!

2006-09-03 17:01:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-03 17:01:17 · 10 answers · asked by justturning40 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-03 17:00:59 · 13 answers · asked by mollysxs 1 in Family

My parents went on a trip and for a month were out. I did what I regret, joined bad crowds, was about t get in seriuos trouble (I didn't). Mom came 2 weeks ago and got to know what I did. I know I messed up, but though mom is treating me with love, she's going a bit overboard w/ my punishment. I only go out with her. Cell phone, internet and friends are controlled. although I can swim on wednesdays, fun only on weekends and with some restrictions. Shes controlling my clothes, only nice shirts over a bra (this will be forever) At night I stay home and spend quality time w/ mom, when we talk about life, right and wrong. This is not that bad, I know I was sidetracked, but such restrictions suck. And since mom wants me full of activities, I'm taking a culinary course. I complained, but mom was inflexible. I hate this course. Tthere are "homeworks", so I spend good part of my free time including saturday mornings in the course or in the kitchen wearing a cute apron, oh!. for one month more

2006-09-03 17:00:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-03 17:00:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats a good picture comment to leave to this dorky girl that is my friend? lol
http://myspace-230.vo.llnwd.net/01125/03/24/1125074230_l.jpg

2006-09-03 16:59:52 · 5 answers · asked by kicks401 1 in Friends

what could i fix for you that would really hit the spot?

2006-09-03 16:59:28 · 15 answers · asked by woodybmi 3 in Singles & Dating

i met someone soon after he moved out, and he is trying to say it will hurt me in the divorce...could that be true?

2006-09-03 16:58:31 · 21 answers · asked by foroldtimessake 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dated a guy and he gave me a promise ring in 2004, we broke up, and in 01/05 I was dating someone else, who i'm still with. I still have the promise ring my ex gave me in a box with all his memorabilia. Should I give the ring back? (He doesn't ask for it or anything, he says he's still in love with me)

2006-09-03 16:57:51 · 29 answers · asked by Baby Evan is due May 18th! 5 in Weddings