I'll be talking with her... I'll say I don't know if I can go out with her friends... or I'm unsure of her plans and she takes it as me being skiddish of hanging out with her friends or accepting of when she makes plans. Then she'll get upset, not talk really, get quiet, and tear up and I'm so confused on what I did because, in my mind, all I said was I'm not sure if I can make it - or I'll have to see what my schedule is like.
It's confused as me not liking her friends or something... and I'm more extroverted than introverted, so I'm kind of lost by what she says... she seriously reads into what I say
2006-09-03 17:05:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she suffers from depression, low self esteem and I would express how are you very concern for her well being. Maybe the best step is to suggest counseling because if its depression it will not just go on by itself - especially if its clinical depression.
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2006-09-03 17:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 09:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comfort her. Ask her what's up and why does she always tear up when you tell her this. Once she starts telling what's up, then you get quiet and listen to what she has to say. Just be a good listener. Other then that I think she suffers from depression or has low self-esteem. If not then she is just trying to get attention by making you go to places you don't want to go. Don't confuse your self. It's her who is the confused one.
Ciao and good luck on your girlfriend :)
2006-09-03 17:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by a_cute_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is something chemicle which can be frustrating for her as well as you... calmly touch her on the sholdier and say with loving gentle eyes "My love I feel confused about why you feel ________ by the way you communicate________such as_________. Because I care about you and us I am looking into knowledge about chemicle imbalances. I realize this is a touchy subject but I can't find other rational alternatives for this behavior as I previously mentioned, can you? Honey would you be willing to work with me on this. I am your man and will stick by you if you get help. It hurts me when you continue behaving like________ and _________ this is what I love about you. I have sought private counsel on this matter and you could have depression, bipolar, ptsd, or a number of differant ailments that I am powerless to help you with. Will you go to the doctor with me, please?" Hang in there pal. I realize you must have a lot of patience and that is admirable. You must be a good guy to have sought out help in such a matter. pat yourself on the back for your bravery and humbleness. What a guy. Check out NAMI and
2006-09-03 17:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Inquisitive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that you are confused indeed. if you have been ditching her whenever she's with friends, chances are, those are the reasons she is unhappy. she may not express it outright because she doesn't wana be a ******.
perhaps you have to take the time and hang out with her friends when you can. be there for her when she's sad and always reassure her that your refusal or unavailability has nothing to do with her.
2006-09-03 17:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by lovemeorleave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she has a mental disorder. It could be bipolar, or just a manic depressant. She may also be playing you.
She should see a doctor and get it checked out. Get it early, save a life.
2006-09-03 17:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by John M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what star sign is she cancer? well she just maybe hormonal other things going on that u dont know about and the littlest thing u say she can take the wrong way its not ur fault she is very sensative but be so carefull of what u say to her about her or her friends compliments are good if she can take one .
2006-09-03 17:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls do that when they want stuff or they dont get their way. I am in a 8 year relationship and my girl did it like the first 4 years until I figured it out. i told her I knew and that we needed to be adults about situations instead of acting foolish and she came around. it is kinda cool now.
2006-09-03 17:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by Baseball 26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh the cat is playing the string and enjoying it tremendously.....it is funny that it has taken you this long to realize this. You should probably suggest to her that she needs a shrink and then politely excuse yourself from the relationship.
2006-09-03 17:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by wishuponstarson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit her down and ask her whats going on and when she is ready she will talk to you.but untill she does insure her that she has your shoulder when ever she needs it.good look
2006-09-03 17:09:36 · answer #10 · answered by bigmomma s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋