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I get alot of feelings that he is cheating on me, I have no proof, but I feel like I just know, but at the same time I'm a jealous girl.
Could I be right, or am I probaly just to jealous?

2006-09-03 17:07:30 · 31 answers · asked by holly l 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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If he has given u no reason to think the way u do, then I would say u are probably just jealous and lack trust. When something is really going on, u would usually feel it and u will also see signs, no matter how trivial. So my suggestion would be...u either look for signs or proof that he's cheating or u let your negative thoughts go because if u don't have trust in your relationship, u will always suspect him and u will never have peace of mind.

2006-09-03 17:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0 0

No it is not Watch your step. I have been with my woman 7 years never cheated never considered it. She has accused me 10 or more times it really pisses me off .Last time I was within a fraction of an inch of ending the relationship over it. Jealousy is poison there is nothing cute or endearing about it. I have come to the conclusion in her/our case it is jealousy aggravated by self esteem issues. If you have nothing more than intuition to base your suspicions on I suggest you bite your tongue. I don't know how long you two have been together ,but what I told my woman is this" After 7 years would'nt there be some proof even something small some wittiness something? "I suggest for your and his sanity you talk to a councilor of some kind **REALLY**

2006-09-03 19:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Depends alot of the times its right no doubt, but sometimes we can feel something that isnt exactly on the mark.. or doesnt mean he's cheating, just that he did something he shouldnt of done.. and sometimes our jealousy gets the best of us, and theres nothing there at all..

Dont dismiss ur feelings but check in on it if u have to , check everything to see if u can find any proof of something being there if u need to .. do it so he doesnt know ur doing it of course cause if he isnt doing anything u'd look like a psycho freek lol.. but its the only way ur going to feel better, so go through everything, look for odd things, hell even go and check where he goes to see if he's lying to u.. BUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

When and if, he comes out clean after u've done all ur searching and all ur survailance on him and u find nothing, put ur fears to rest realize that u have a man that loves u that is good to u thats not going anywhere, and stop trying to self destruct your own relationship .... atleast till the next suspicion comes up lol..

2006-09-03 17:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0 0

Surprisingly, women's personal instincts are extremely strong. I think maybe you're a jealous girl because you already know the answer to your question, and you don't like the idea that you've been sharing him with someone else. A stranger.

I am a very, very firm believer in going with your gut instinct. Do not hestitate, do not cry and ask him for the truth. He will lie to you, he will lie about everything. If your gut tells you he's unfaithful, then he is. Run as fast as you can, girl. And don't look back. Do what's best for your and your future. If you have to, get angry about it. Afterall, he's been sharing his body with other girl(s), which proves he has no regard for your feelings or your well being. Stamp him out while you're still ahead.

2006-09-03 17:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

you could be right or you could just be letting your imagination get the best of you.but if he is youll find out. and those talk shows will drive you crazy so don't watch em. its ok to be jealous but don't always speak up about it or it could ruin the relationship,but just try to enjoy him while you can because there's nothing you can do to prevent it if hes a cheater.just try to treat him like a king,and if that's not good enough too bad his loss and as you grow older you'll be less and less jealous be strong.

2006-09-03 17:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by L.A. WOMAN 2 · 0 0

Always listen to yourself, and then double and triple check, or better yet, calmly and with a glass of wine ask him. I've done it, and at least if he is a good liar, he will assure you and he will try to correct his path. If he is cheating and cares no more for you, he will let you and the farse be over with. Just be real calm, if you loose your nerve you loose completely and he will blame you for being untrustful and jealous.

Good luck, whatever happens just be sure it will be for the best

2006-09-03 18:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by avll 2 · 0 0

YES almost always correct unless your bipolar! go with your gut...There are a lot of good books at barnes n noble that tell you how to know if anyone is lying to you. What I thougth was intuition was little signs everyone has like...Does he touch his nose? Do his movements become stiff and slow and robotic like? Does he repeat what you say back exactly using your same words? does he say I didnt do it, or I did not do it? If he said the latter, thats a sign he is cheating.

2006-09-03 17:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by circusdejojo 3 · 1 1

Would you jump off a bridge if you "had the feeling" there would be a net there to catch you? Or would you make sure you were absolutely correct before doing something incredibly stupid and life changing?

2006-09-03 17:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0 0

If you are a jealous person then you can't always count on your intuition being correct. Paranoia can play a hand in that.

2006-09-03 17:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 1 1

No, we are not always correct, but we seem to have a lot of insight at times.

If you care about each other, talk to him gently and in a respectful way. Tell him your concerns and work thru it together. If you cannot, then it's time to say good bye to each other.

2006-09-03 17:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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