OK i'm sorry the question sounds really offensive :( i didn't mean for it to come out like that.
Anyway, i'm in a wierd situation here: i skipped 3 grades, so i get teased all the time in school! it started in 7th grade when i was 9 and my peers were 12. at the time, i was sensitive. so i cried at home...
now i'm 13, my peers are 16. I feel SO self-concious at school because stupid guys tease me about my age. i'm tougher now than when i was 9. but it still hurts deep down inside.
for example, here's a typical convo:
him: hey brandy!
me: hi!?
him: so did you want to go out or WHAT!!!??? ( in a really loud and sarcastic voice)
me: uh...no...*blush*
(laughter by him and his stupid friends)
i feel so alone. i have a couple of good friends who accept me.
how do i stop all the teasing without being rude?
2006-09-03 17:03:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The next time one of these jerks decides to say something like that to you say, "Sure!!!!!!! When do we hook up????? After your special Ed class???????" That's should shut them up............LOL
2006-09-03 17:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have a hard run over then next few years, because you're different.
In this case, 'different' means more intelligent, more mature, more considerate of others feelings, more humane, more polite and less of an a...hole than your inferior macho counterparts.
Sigh.
I won't lie to you, it probably won't get better, and it will hurt a ton - but in the long run - if you don't blame yourself or take it out on yourself - you will be living in style while they aspire to be managers at WalMart.
Find outside interests that involve kids your own age that aren't academic. Like a sport or community centre club. Make friends that have nothing to do with school.
Be proud of who you are, not ashamed of who you're not.
2006-09-04 00:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by lucy_shy8000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are gifted and talented!! God has blessed you and to much is given much is required. On one hand you have such a special gift of intelligence yet on the other hand you have had to grow up slightly faster than you had planned.
When you have such gifts people are either intimidated or jealous. First of all be confident in you and let them talk because they obviously are not even at your level of maturity of intelligence. When you are graduating from Harvard or Princeton and they are barely making it thru business school you will surely get the last laugh (ha-ha) Not saying business school is not good but it surely is not ivy league.
Second, ignore it as hard as it is because kids are mean I went thru it myself as a teen. I am racially mixed and I was a mother at 16 and I know words hurt. But do your best to raise above the garbage and know that you are better than that crap!!!!
If all else fails just let them know that in spite of their ignorance you will still be kind enough to give them a job cleaning one of your mansions or pumping your gas one day (ha-ha) Keep your chin up sweetie you will be fine!! God Bless you and keep being you! Nobody can be you but you, so be the best you that you can be!!!!
2006-09-04 00:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by ramirezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are big dumb clods who are desperately jealous. You need to be really tough. When they ask that say just as sarcastically, "Not with you." Smile when you say it. It's not rude. The best offense is a good defense. Rent the movie, "My bodyguard." Maybe you can win one of the clods over to sort of protect you.
Someday you are going to be someone important and they will be pushing brooms at the supermarket.
2006-09-04 00:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them to shuup,or ignore them sounds like you are a lot more maturer than them,just ignore them.
2006-09-04 00:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by happybunnyjg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ball bat!
2006-09-04 00:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by MeLissa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋