been going down on her for 15 yrs now. she loves it...yet won't go down on me.
2006-09-03 17:31:03 · 12 answers · asked by lonely northern alberta guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have the same problem but not for nearly as long. For 4yrs I have been giving my bf head every day and received it once in return. I won't stop though, I enjoy making him feel good and I also enjoy giving him bj's. So I think if you like it and you like making her feel good then keep doing it. She better appreciate it though!
2006-09-03 17:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. I love to go down on my fiance but he's only returned the favor a few times. I have stopped doing it very often because I feel like he should be doing it to me as well. I think you & I both need to let our partners know what we want. Hope things get better for you.
2006-09-03 17:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever asked her why she won't return the favor? Perhaps there is something tramatic in her past that keeps her from doing it. Or maybe your "down there" hygiene could use some work. Talk to her about it when you aren't in the "moment" and aren't in bed. And whatever you do, do NOT use the line "I do it for you, so you should do it for me!". That is guranteed to keep her from even THINKING about doing it.
2006-09-03 20:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by flcntrygirl80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go down on her b/c you love her and want to please her. Face the facts if you still are doing you you enjoy it too. Don't stop. Have you talked to her about it?
Sometimes, women just don't realize what you want. Communication is the key in this situation. She could be embarressed that she doesn't know what to do!
2006-09-03 17:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by momoney0103 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you know she did not do bj's before you got married? to late to stop now you've been doing it for 15 yrs.
2006-09-03 17:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by mrstea0116 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you let her know how you feel. Let her know if she is scared that her know that she can take it slowly. But don't change the way you feel about her, let her know you will still love her even if she doesn't feel right doing a pj. Some women have a hard time with it but let her know that you understand and don't push her. If she wants to take it slow let her know you will be patient. Let her feel at ease
2006-09-03 17:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked my boy friend if he would stop...and he says no. Giving her oral turns her on for you ....and he said why would you want to stop? You still love her and want to have a mutual pleasurable experience right?
2006-09-03 17:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point its your own fault. You should have corrected this problem in the beginning or have her best friend pick up the slack.
2006-09-03 17:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mephisto 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine doesn't like it either but my favorite sport is chewing the whisker biscuit. Know way I'm going to stop.Would you stop watching football because she doesn't like it??
2006-09-03 17:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
give her oral sex if she loves it..
and express u r feelings for the same to her...
tell her lovingly to do it for u.
she will,coz every one falls in front of love...
best of luck
2006-09-03 17:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by Manu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋