I use to go out with this guy like 4 years ago..We were together for a year and broke up. He still keeps calling, wants to go on dates and tries coming over. I have told him many times that im not intrested in him and that i moved on. I have not answer his calls and avoided him he just doesn't get it. I have even tried hooking him up with other girls but he doesn't want to. He is affecting all my relationships. How can i get him to understand that i don't care for him at all?
2006-09-03 17:27:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try getting a restraining order against him. Even if the judge does not grant one, maybe that will open his eyes to the reality of the situation.
2006-09-03 17:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mykl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just more daft than others. You need to CUT OFF ALL CONNECTIONS with him COMPLETELY! You need to answer his call just one last time and tell him to buzz off! Don't even bother hooking him up with other girls. Some guys just need to learn it the hard way.
2006-09-04 00:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advice I have for you is GET A RESTRAINING ORDER! It sounds like he is obsessed with you, and that can be very dangerous. There are people with that kinda of mental illness, that if I can't have her then no one will, where do you think that starts at?
2006-09-04 00:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he isn't over you to the point of obsession. If being polite on your rejections doesn't get it across to him that it is long over with, you may have to get real ugly with him. Maybe then he will get it across that you two will never be again. Hopefully you won't have to get law enforcement or a court of law involved.
I have known people who had to go that route in order to get people to quit and cease all communications with their exes.
2006-09-04 00:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you haven;t already tried this just tell him straight to the face: ' Its over, i have moved on and you should to, if you really care this much about you, you'd leave me alone. If that doesn't work, act you don't know him. Good luck. :)
2006-09-04 00:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, sounds like he is infatuated to me, and unfortunately you will have to be mean to him to get him to understand that you are SERIOUS.......Tell him that you will have a restraining order put on him if he doesn't leave you alone.........That should do the trick.......Take care, hun...........
2006-09-04 00:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has some serious issues. it also sounds like he is stalking you and you may want to get a hold of the attorities to take care of that
2006-09-04 00:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by tiggerluvnmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut all contact. this would be the best thing to do. read tips on dating and relationships on this site
2006-09-04 00:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he had his chance and he messed it up. There is absolutely nothing that he can do for yall to get back together.
2006-09-04 00:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by Angelia W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to be the one to tell you this but one of you is going to have to die
2006-09-04 00:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Sasquatch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋