Family & Relationships - 30 August 2006

Well folks, he is not going anywhere. I have pleaded with my mom to get rid of him. I am 24 and live on my own so I no longer have to deal with him, but I have an 8yr old sister and 11yr old brother who do. He is not quite as bad as he used to be (not as crazy/homicidal/manic depressive/bipolar/wife beater), but I always find myself bad mouthing him, even when my siblings are around. Granted, he is still is an @$$, and is very lazy/manipulative/emotionally abusive towards my mom, sister, and brother. What do I do? I can't avoid him, and I have a hard time not saying anything when he is acting up when I am around.

2006-08-30 16:25:31 · 12 answers · asked by honk2goose 4 in Family

My fiance is White, Catholic & 37 years old who lives with his parents. He helps his parents around the house alot. He said since he travels alot 4 his work he has their name on his account so that they can pay his bills & deposit his checks when he is out of town. He has his Moms name as the primary benificery for his Roth IRA account. Today I saw 4 boxes of check book in his room. So I asked him if he would still have their name on his account & he said he would & the money I am earning he would open up another account with mine & his name. I asked him if he doesn't trust me with finances. He said he trusts me. Since he travels alot all the mail would go to his parents house & he will keep the account the way it is. He told me in his culture married people do have their parents name on their account. I am 34, Catholic & East Indian. He also wants to wait on having kids after marriage. Do you think he wants things this way so that he can bail out if things don't work out?

2006-08-30 16:22:52 · 25 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Weddings

Hi
I just have a question...
What would you do if you were dating a woman with a kid and was telling you from the first date that she was divorced and the second date she was separated ?
What would be your impression?

Thank you

2006-08-30 16:22:44 · 24 answers · asked by ianquestions 1 in Singles & Dating

my b/f cheated on me before with a friend of his. His roomate's g/f gets really close to him. Wanted him to go into the bedroom and translate what sex moves she wanted her b/f to do becuz her b/f speaks only spanish no english. Shes crosses into his personal space all the time. I think she was text messaging him. Then I found a condom wrapper in one of his shirt pockets , the kind they use at his place. Not the we use together.Do you think he was cheating on me ?

2006-08-30 16:22:31 · 15 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 16:21:38 · 2 answers · asked by soapfan 3 in Singles & Dating

her husband died 6 years ago of skin cancer and after he died i am like just one of the guys she dated and we have been together a year and now it is falling apart she says she loves me and it is her problem not mine but all interest in sex is gone when we used to be like rabbits lol and she says my asking about it is driving her away from me. i just bought a cottage for us on the cape and she is only a girlfriend man am i stupid or should i be shot

2006-08-30 16:21:24 · 4 answers · asked by Thomas W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with someone and now want him back. Do I make the first move, or being that he is the guy, do I just give the signs and let him make the first move.

2006-08-30 16:19:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Give me the reason why you broke up and how long were you all together?

2006-08-30 16:19:33 · 5 answers · asked by candy_apple033 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

***this is not to say they dont love them*** There are a number of surveys that report from10% up to 70% All agree that there is an accuracy problem because of social pressure and the misunderstanding that regret does not = not loving your kids. For those of you who have no regrets, good for you. This question is not really addressed to you.

2006-08-30 16:19:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-30 16:18:46 · 7 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to college overboard for just one year and she's going to college locally... she is already making me one of those picture calendars where every month is another picture of us. What should I make for her? Preferably more personal- with pictures but Im leaving in 3 days... something quick!

2006-08-30 16:17:51 · 18 answers · asked by gymerie 1 in Friends

I just didn't know there was a difference.

2006-08-30 16:17:49 · 12 answers · asked by Joe Brown 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you like people (girlfriend boyfriend material) who you've known since like kindergarten through highschool, or do you think its better meeting someone new at work? which relationship do you believe is stronger???

2006-08-30 16:17:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 16:17:13 · 9 answers · asked by boogyman 1 in Singles & Dating

She lives in upstate Ny, and her husband and 2 children are living in New Mexico. They are not divorced but have been living apart for several years. He has full custody and she can only see them on holidays. The main reason he has custody is becasue she works a low paying job at a retail store, and he is an archaeologist . (She was married to him the whole time he was in school, she worked and whatched the children) She now pays him child support and recently had to go to court and it was raised. She may have to get a second job...What can she do to get her children back. She can't afford a lawyer??(They were married in the state of CA)

2006-08-30 16:16:43 · 15 answers · asked by mrkittypong 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok...who else is with me that its a bunch of bologna that you lose 5 points after you ask a question..i know i do..dammit! im starting a petition..just kidding..but u guys better sday something insightful AND make me laugh cuz i wasted ANOTHER 5 points on this one..so please...make it worth my while.. :D

2006-08-30 16:16:30 · 12 answers · asked by kelkel0514 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 16:16:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 16:15:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for three yrs. Before we gotmarried I cheated and got pregnant, I told him I didn't know who the dad was but he still decide to stay with me. That was over four and half yrs ago. He has been here helping me take care of my three kids that are not his. Now he has cheated in Feb. and just found out she is 6mths pregnant ,as she says but I am 5mths pregnant. Her dates dont add up to when the affair happen. Do I let go of my marriage I made vows to God for better or for worse or do I Give him the same chance he gave me?

2006-08-30 16:15:26 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does the guy always have to ask the girl out, or is it O.K. for the girl to turn the tables and ask the guy? Some people are old fashioned, but in my opinion, I think it is extremely sexy and a nice change of pace for the girl to ask sometimes, but that's just me. I want your opinion people, what do you think????????

2006-08-30 16:13:51 · 18 answers · asked by THE DYNAMO FROM OHIO 3 in Singles & Dating

she is forcing my child who i've raised as a baptist to go and be involved in a catholic church when he goes two states away to visit his dad! she also calls his teachers where we live and bad talks me in order to get closer to the teacher and his school! she has stuck her nose in everything! Now, my ex-husband whom by the way has been absent from our sons life completley untill the new mrs. came along is trying to get custody of our 9 yr. old son that they really don't even know! somebody help please! I'm a good mom but don't have the money that they do to fight this in court ( in our state you don't have to be a bad parent to have your child taken away you just have to prove that you can do a better job raising the child involved)

2006-08-30 16:12:57 · 10 answers · asked by LeeLee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Unless you are going to marry or stay together with your boy/girlfriend forever, you're going to break up. many people even date without marriage in mind. isn't this all just for fun?

2006-08-30 16:12:54 · 15 answers · asked by JetAlone 2 in Singles & Dating

Even if you know following your heart will hurt someone else, and possibly yourself, do you still follow???

2006-08-30 16:12:28 · 9 answers · asked by jeri_nunez 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister is not going to be the maid of honor in her best friend/cousin's wedding because she doesnt like her husband. I admit the guy is an extreme player that actually told his fiance back when they were dating "i want to marry you, but i wanna be with other girls before i settle down with you" Im going to be a bridesmaid and i think it would be wierd being one and not having my sister be one also. People will start asking questions and itll get nasty at the wedding..so ...what do you think?

2006-08-30 16:12:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What can she do to make a romantic situation without feeling vulnerable. My husband is a joker and I swear has NO I repeat NO romantic bone in his body and I want to surprise him with a romantic situation.

2006-08-30 16:12:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-30 16:12:00 · 3 answers · asked by Zuzanna Z 1 in Friends

2006-08-30 16:11:42 · 12 answers · asked by laki_69 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

became argumentive and emotionally abusive when drinking. Is a cheater and a liar but I am addicted to him like being addicted to crack coccaine.

2006-08-30 16:11:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

satisfy your needs?

2006-08-30 16:11:20 · 13 answers · asked by upsuckit 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl. So beautiful. I can't keep my eyes off her, and she is always on my mind. There's just something about her I love. She's my friend, but I'm not sure if I should tell her how I feel about her. I get so nervous. I'm very shy. What should I do.

2006-08-30 16:10:56 · 26 answers · asked by makaveli1788 2 in Singles & Dating